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So what sort of parent are you/ are you gonna be?
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chest rockwell



Joined: 16 May 2005
Location: Sanbon

PostPosted: Thu Sep 08, 2005 9:00 pm    Post subject: So what sort of parent are you/ are you gonna be? Reply with quote

The sort of parent that will take their children to McD's every now and then if theyve been good or no McD's cos its just supporting the globalisation monster and I want my child to become as politically aware as early as possible?

A smack on the bum if theyve been bad or send them for 'time out'?

Let them watch TV when theyve done their homework or not even having a TV in the house cos communication between the family is more important?

Sit down as a family at the table and eat dinner or just if the situation suits itself?
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peppermint



Joined: 13 May 2003
Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.

PostPosted: Thu Sep 08, 2005 9:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm not. Teaching 500 + kids a week has taught me that while I like kids, I do not want them around 24/7. I'm planning to be someone's favorite aunt though.
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tzechuk



Joined: 20 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Thu Sep 08, 2005 9:15 pm    Post subject: Re: So what sort of parent are you/ are you gonna be? Reply with quote

chest rockwell wrote:
The sort of parent that will take their children to McD's every now and then if theyve been good or no McD's cos its just supporting the globalisation monster and I want my child to become as politically aware as early as possible?


Letty's Godfather sent her 1 McD share as her christening gift, so we have to visit the establishment now and then to keep it going Wink

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A smack on the bum if theyve been bad or send them for 'time out'?


Neither. I would like to calmly explain to Letty why she shouldn't do bad/naughty things.

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Let them watch TV when theyve done their homework or not even having a TV in the house cos communication between the family is more important?


Depends on what she wants to watch... an appropriate amount is ok. I think a balance is important.

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Sit down as a family at the table and eat dinner or just if the situation suits itself?


Definitely sit down as a family at the table.
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peemil



Joined: 09 Feb 2003
Location: Koowoompa

PostPosted: Thu Sep 08, 2005 10:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

A good thumping every Sunday for the stuff they've done and I don't know about seems reasonable.
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Wrench



Joined: 07 Apr 2005

PostPosted: Fri Sep 09, 2005 1:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am just going to get my self sniped. Screw having kids, I never want one.
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Ody



Joined: 27 Jan 2003
Location: over here

PostPosted: Fri Sep 09, 2005 1:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

virtually no fast food here in the ROK. McDonalds in the US? yes. We went to Burger King too, and Chuckycheese. it's not about the food though, it's about the playgrounds!

i'll tan my son's hide, but only when he really earns it; with toddlers or very small children, a wrap on the hand works. this is done in combination with verbal explanations and warnings

TV in moderation is okay. same thing with computer games.

We try to eat together, but it's easier said than done.
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crazylemongirl



Joined: 23 Mar 2003
Location: almost there...

PostPosted: Fri Sep 09, 2005 2:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm not.
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desultude



Joined: 15 Jan 2003
Location: Dangling my toes in the Persian Gulf

PostPosted: Fri Sep 09, 2005 2:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I raised my daughter on no fast food, no spankings, and little to no television. She was hell on wheels and snuck candy and television whenever possible.

After all of the fights and noise and rebellion, she is raising her boys with no fast food, no spankings, and very little and closely monitored television.

Her boys are angels! Really, and in all of the advanced classes at school. Straight A students who never get in trouble.

Where did I go wrong? Confused


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kimchikowboy



Joined: 24 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Fri Sep 09, 2005 3:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Daughter had her first-ever day of work today -- an unsolicited one-day modelling gig for a photography studio. At three-and-a-half months old, she's making about $60 per hour. Very Happy
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sheba



Joined: 16 May 2005
Location: Here there and everywhere!

PostPosted: Fri Sep 09, 2005 6:12 am    Post subject: Re: So what sort of parent are you/ are you gonna be? Reply with quote

McD's every now and then if it suits. I dont want them to think it is such a treat.

When I was little, my mother didnt give my brother and I veges for dinner for a few nights. Of course we wanted to know why mum and dad had a different meal. "they are special veges, that only grown ups like to eat. You wont like them" she told us. Of course we begged and begged to try some and of course we loved them. So we were given veges every night, and if we were good, we got extra special veges. Interesting parenting tactic, but it sure worked!! And I still love veges!

Smacking? Depends..... if its an important lesson, eg, if they run out onto the road, then yes theyll get a smack straight away. A time out is not severe enough for the lesson to be learned. If t