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ubum
Joined: 23 Aug 2005
Location: Gwangju
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| But It always struck me when I was sinlge is that women are like buses, you'll wait for ages in the cold and then three all come along at once! I think it really has to do with a confidence thing, you start going out with someone and all of a sudden you have a spring in your step, are more confident, more flirty, more relaxed and just generally giving off a lot of energy and joy of life. |
I 2nd that. Very ture. Its all about confidence.
Now for the Ladies, if your relatively attractive. Usually putting your tongue in my mouth is a good sign that you like me. |
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Tiger Beer
Joined: 07 Feb 2003
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| Posted: Thu Sep 08, 2005 7:26 pm Post subject: Re: Will ignoring A GUY get his attention? |
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| In response to the topic" will ignoring a girl get her attention?"---does ignoring a guy work? |
The mass majority of women do their best to ignore men 99.99% of the time.. so to NOT ignore a guy is definetely the best way to get his attention.
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| What actually works if you're interested in a guy who only seems to want to be friends with you? |
Just showing interest generally seems to do the trick.
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It seems sometimes that not even looks and talents/education combined work.  |
Maybe the guy is already in a serious relationship? |
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Moldy Rutabaga
Joined: 01 Jul 2003
Location: Ansan, Korea
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| Posted: Thu Sep 08, 2005 9:28 pm Post subject: |
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| I've always had tons of male friends, and am an honorary " one of the guys" . Every time I started seeing someone, my male friends started becoming more attentive. |
True. I had lots of female friends who were 'one of the guys' like that, and yeah.. when they found boyfriends, I found myself getting jealous, until I realized 'wait a minute.. why am I getting jealous after ignoring her before..' Men are strange that way. We can be dogs in the manger, protecting our stock.
Ignoring a man is different. Maybe playing hard-to-get works for some women, but generally men are a little thick about recognizing that they're being staked out. If a girl ignored me, I assumed 100% of the time that she wasn't interested, period.
Ken:> |
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princess
Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: soul of Asia
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| Posted: Thu Sep 08, 2005 9:54 pm Post subject: |
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| Well, at first I didn't really think too much about that book "He's Just not That Into You" but I guess the man who wrote that book had a point. I know one girl who only sees her boyfriend once or twice a month but he calls her everyday and more than once a day too. Even though I saw my boyfriend once a week in August and I even spent a weekend in Nagoya with him in June, he hardly ever calls me. I always send him handphone messages first too and then he answers. I guess even though we go out to nice places, etc. he is just not that into me. I give up-_- |
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peemil
Joined: 09 Feb 2003
Location: Koowoompa
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| Posted: Thu Sep 08, 2005 10:53 pm Post subject: |
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You know what gets a guy attention?
Flashing your boobs at him.
Try it. |
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joe_doufu
Joined: 09 May 2005
Location: Elsewhere
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| Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2005 6:34 am Post subject: |
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I think one of the problems that comes up is that for many women, "actively showing interest in him" means changing one's hair-do in the hope that he'll notice, or gazing at a photo of him when one is alone at home, or something similarly incredibly indirect and vague that has zero chance of having an effect on him.
FYI, ladies, good ways to show interest in a guy involve using your vocal chords and speaking, in the general direction of the man, such pleasantries as "hey, why don't we get together after work sometime?" and/or "my, what a big package you have". |
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Babayaga
Joined: 28 May 2005
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| Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2005 7:59 am Post subject: |
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| I think one of the problems that comes up is that for many women, "actively showing interest in him" means changing one's hair-do in the hope that he'll notice |
Funny,that remark of yours! For some MEN indicating interest in a woman means coming in all disshevelled,smelly,drunk and horny! And then they shrug in amazement that the woman isn't interested! |
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Maserial
Joined: 31 Jul 2005
Location: The Web
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| Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2005 8:19 am Post subject: |
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| Babayaga wrote: |
| joe_doufu wrote: |
| I think one of the problems that comes up is that for many women, "actively showing interest in him" means changing one's hair-do in the hope that he'll notice |
Funny,that remark of yours! For some MEN indicating interest in a woman means coming in all disshevelled,smelly,drunk and horny! And then they shrug in amazement that the woman isn't interested! |
Apparently, Babayaga and I have dated previously. My contention, however, would be that she needlessly omitted the scene where I urinated on her face as a mating ritual.
(I'll forgive her for misinterpreting the intrinsic splendor of the moment.) |
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The Man known as The Man
Joined: 29 Mar 2003
Location: 3 cheers for Ted Haggard oh yeah!
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| Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2005 11:32 am Post subject: |
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| princess wrote: |
| Well, at first I didn't really think too much about that book "He's Just not That Into You" but I guess the man who wrote that book had a point. I know one girl who only sees her boyfriend once or twice a month but he calls her everyday and more than once a day too. Even though I saw my boyfriend once a week in August and I even spent a weekend in Nagoya with him in June, he hardly ever calls me. I always send him handphone messages first too and then he answers. I guess even though we go out to nice places, etc. he is just not that into me. I give up-_- |
wrong guy |
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EFLtrainer
Joined: 04 May 2005
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| Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2005 11:45 am Post subject: |
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Ya know, the thing that always occurs to me when I see threads like this is: how many men on the planet are there? Well, that's about how many diffeent ways you might get one there are.
I look at some of the stuff people put on here and think, "What a scumbag/player/doofus/idiot/intelligent/wise.... I think you get my point...
I think it's kind of like university: figure out what any given prof wants from you and give it to them. So, figure out what THAT guy wants and, well, if you're it, want to be it and you hi-lite the right things...
Did I mention my name is NOT Valentino? |
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EFLtrainer
Joined: 04 May 2005
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| Moldy Rutabaga wrote: |
| Ignoring a man is different. Maybe playing hard-to-get works for some women, but generally men are a little thick about recognizing that they're being staked out. If a girl ignored me, I assumed 100% of the time that she wasn't interested, period. |
Yup. Why would I want somone who misrepresents who they are first off, anyway?
But remember: NOT Valentino. |
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Babayaga
Joined: 28 May 2005
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| Posted: Sat Sep 10, 2005 9:22 am Post subject: |
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| Maserial wrote: |
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| joe_doufu wrote: |
| I think one of the problems that comes up is that for many women, "actively showing interest in him" means changing one's hair-do in the hope that he'll notice |
Funny,that remark of yours! For some MEN indicating interest in a woman means coming in all disshevelled,smelly,drunk and horny! And then they shrug in amazement that the woman isn't interested! |
Apparently, Babayaga and I have dated previously. My contention, however, would be that she needlessly omitted the scene where I urinated on her face as a mating ritual.
(I'll forgive her for misinterpreting the intrinsic splendor of the moment.) |
That's precisely the kind of attitude/behaviour that turns women off---and more. I suppose you're the kind of guy who doesn't give a hoot about personal hygiene or gentlemanly manners and then complains bitterly that "he's never had much luck with the ladies" ---(are you treating them like ladies?).
And what's with your preoccupation with bodily functions (as in your "Princess or not?" post)? Is it because you're still at an "anal" stage in your development or are you just so full of "excrement" that you just can't "contain" yourself? |
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Maserial
Joined: 31 Jul 2005
Location: The Web
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| Posted: Sat Sep 10, 2005 10:10 am Post subject: |
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That's precisely the kind of attitude/behaviour that turns women off---and more. I suppose you're the kind of guy who doesn't give a hoot about personal hygiene or gentlemanly manners and then complains bitterly that "he's never had much luck with the ladies" ---(are you treating them like ladies?).
And what's with your preoccupation with bodily functions (as in your "Princess or not?" post)? Is it because you're still at an "anal" stage in your development or are you just so full of "excrement" that you just can't "contain" yourself? |
Well, it's quite obvious that you are still perturbed with regard to the urination 'incident', although I prefer the term 'baptismal'.
If it makes you feel any better, I truly meant what I said in the Valentine's Day card that I sent to you earlier this year.
As everyone can easily ascertain, I am quite the sentimental, romantic soul. Forgive my blatant indiscretions, Babayaga! |
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Babayaga
Joined: 28 May 2005
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| Posted: Sat Sep 10, 2005 10:25 am Post subject: |
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| Babayaga wrote: |
That's precisely the kind of attitude/behaviour that turns women off---and more. I suppose you're the kind of guy who doesn't give a hoot about personal hygiene or gentlemanly manners and then complains bitterly that "he's never had much luck with the ladies" ---(are you treating them like ladies?).
And what's with your preoccupation with bodily functions (as in your "Princess or not?" post)? Is it because you're still at an "anal" stage in your development or are you just so full of "excrement" that you just can't "contain" yourself? |
Well, it's quite obvious that you are still perturbed with regard to the urination 'incident', although I prefer the term 'baptismal'.
If it makes you feel any better, I truly meant what I said in the Valentine's Day card that I sent to you earlier this year.
As everyone can easily ascertain, I am quite the sentimental, romantic soul. |
As well as very immature! Are you still a teenager,Maserial? |
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EFLtrainer
Joined: 04 May 2005
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| Posted: Sat Sep 10, 2005 10:54 am Post subject: |
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| Another perfectly good thread about to go down the "personal" drain.... |
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