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Qinella
Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib
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That's why I said earlier in the thread (or was it the other thread?) that if you're with someone you trust, don't see why any of this[oral sex] would be an issue unless you have a problem with the issue in general and simply associate anything other than missionary as being exploitative.
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You're right that it would be less of an issue if you're with someone you trust. However,a lot depends on a woman's upbringing,too.If she has been brought up in a conservative fashion,then it will allways be unappealing to her! |
I've finally figured it out - you are Korean, aren't you?
Things like unusual usage of the word "conservative", consideration of the family, references to prostitution as normal behavior, and finally, the concept of oral sex being degrading are all my citations of evidence that you are, in fact, Korean.
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crazylemongirl
Joined: 23 Mar 2003
Location: almost there...
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| Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 12:09 am Post subject: |
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But yesterday she went to the clinic for a check up after we had sex the night before. She was having a little discomfort, some pain down there. The doctor told her that she was fine, that she had some swelling and to reframe from sex for a while. The night before was just a one timer, not one of the multiple, all nighters that we have had in the past. And it wasn��t ��rough sex�� either. She had experienced pain before, but this was the first time she went to the doctor. She was too embarrassed to ask the doctor about the size issue. So, I��ll ask her. Has anyone had an issue with *beep* size with there lover? You can PM if you want.
Why do the "beep" the word pen*s?
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Ummm sorry to deflate your ego but those symptoms maybe due to something else entirely. STDs, non-std infections, cervical problems etc. Given that she was too embrassed to give the doctor the full story chances are that she probably hasn't had a pap smear, STD check etc. in a while if at all. For both your sakes its probably wise to go to a good gyneo and get a good examination. All women need to go the gyenos at least once a year after 18 and a 6 month STD check if they have mulitple partners. |
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Cedar
Joined: 11 Mar 2003
Location: In front of my computer, again.
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| Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 12:48 am Post subject: |
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This thread has made me really decide Crazy Lemon Girl must be one of the best people who posts on here regularly (I had an inkling before, of course).
There is a gyno who speaks LOVELY English and acts just like in America if anyone needs: 02790 0802. She's in Hannamdong.
For years I waited until everytime I went home to go to the gyno, I am so happy I finally was introduced to a decent one here.
Even her receptionists speak English!
It's also a maternity clinic for anyone who needs that. |
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ubum
Joined: 23 Aug 2005
Location: Gwangju
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| Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 12:53 am Post subject: |
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| Ummm sorry to deflate your ego but those symptoms maybe due to something else entirely. STDs, non-std infections, cervical problems etc. Given that she was too embrassed to give the doctor the full story chances are that she probably hasn't had a pap smear, STD check etc. in a while if at all. For both your sakes its probably wise to go to a good gyneo and get a good examination. All women need to go the gyenos at least once a year after 18 and a 6 month STD check if they have mulitple partners. |
Yea, I thought of that. She originally thought that she had an infection (non std), so that��s why she went. But she came back and said that there wasn��t any infection. She��s a nurse, so I��m sure that she knows the importance of a gyneo. She��s at her friends wedding right now, but I��ll ask her for some more details tomorrow.
Thanks for the addition info. |
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JongnoGuru
Joined: 25 May 2004
Location: peeing on your doorstep
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| Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 4:49 am Post subject: |
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EFLtrainer
Joined: 04 May 2005
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| Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 8:39 am Post subject: |
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| Not Korean, but I've had that problem in the past with an ex that was quite well endowed. ( hence the sig) Chances are it's not a girth problem but a length one, and that's fairly easy to fix. Basically, you'll have to find positions that you both like, that won't allow you to penetrate her quite so deeply. |
Yup. That's what those rings are for. You'll have to scarifice a little pleasure for her comfort. |
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EFLtrainer
Joined: 04 May 2005
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If I had a nickle... hehe... |
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Cedar
Joined: 11 Mar 2003
Location: In front of my computer, again.
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Babayaga
Joined: 28 May 2005
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| Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 9:31 am Post subject: Re: Men and sex |
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[quote="Yu_Bum_suk"][quote="Babayaga"]
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I bet you're one of those guys who doesn't give credit to his date's intelligence or humanity and just wants to sc**w her on a first date! |
Why do you seem to think the two are mutually exclusive?[/quote]
I don't think that at all. I was simply responding to Yum_bum_suk's assumption that intelligent guys wouldn't find me interesting,therefore all they would want from would be sex. I in turn assumed that he's a conceited,self--centered type of guy who's not able to recognize a woman's intelligence and humanity,but just see her as a piece of meat. |
Haha, just look at the threads you start / respond to - Topic: Men and sex, Topic: Will ignoring A GUY get his attention?, Topic: So what sort of parent are you/ are you gonna be?, Topic: Men and attractive women, Topic: Princess or no?, Topic: What do men consider most attractive in a woman?
I just got the October issues of Seventeen and Cosmo Girl to use with my high school girls, but if you'd like borrow them first I could [color=red]lend them out for a week.[/quote[/color]]
Just means relationship issues interest me greatly at this point,you genius! Just because I'm not responding on other threads,doesn't mean I don't have intelligent interests,just not the ones mentioned on Dave's Cafe. If you're such a brain then why are YOU responding on these same "simple-minded" threads? Are you a teenager intellectually,too??? With your type of reasoning,we might conclude that most posres here are stupid!
I'd like to know YOUR intellectual qualifications!
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Babayaga
Joined: 28 May 2005
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| Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 9:43 am Post subject: |
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| Qinella wrote: |
| Babayaga wrote: |
| EFLtrainer wrote: |
That's why I said earlier in the thread (or was it the other thread?) that if you're with someone you trust, don't see why any of this[oral sex] would be an issue unless you have a problem with the issue in general and simply associate anything other than missionary as being exploitative.
Hmmm... |
You're right that it would be less of an issue if you're with someone you trust. However,a lot depends on a woman's upbringing,too.If she has been brought up in a conservative fashion,then it will allways be unappealing to her! |
I've finally figured it out - you are Korean, aren't you?
Things like unusual usage of the word "conservative", , [color=red]consideration of the family, references to prostitution as normal behavior, and finally, the concept of oral sex being degrading are all my citations of evidence that you are, in fact, Korean.[/color]
Yes? |
No,I'm not Korean,but I'm originally from Europe. And I never said anything about prostitution being a "normal" behaviour. Just read more carefully! |
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The Man known as The Man
Joined: 29 Mar 2003
Location: 3 cheers for Ted Haggard oh yeah!
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| Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 6:21 pm Post subject: |
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| Actually,I've never performed oral sex on a guy. Just the idea itself is degrading! See the above posts with the above reasons. |
Oh my god! Just think of it like a giant lolly pop or ice-cream. Nothing better than seeing a guy writhing around with his penis in your mouth. Best thing.
Also you got to get out of the missionary position. It's nice every once and a while. But get up on top and ride him, your far more likely to get off as that position gives your clit plenty of stimulation. Plus it's a position that gives you a lot of power.
Go get some sex books (they sell them here) and start experimenting. Cosmo and Cleo are also good if you don't want the stigma of buying a book about sex. Find a porno. Sex isn't just what you see in a romantic movie and until you move out of that phase you'll realise how much you've been missing out on. |
oh the impropriety!-just ask yourself
WWPBD?
What would Pope Benedict Do? |
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kermo
Joined: 01 Sep 2004
Location: Eating eggs, with a comb, out of a shoe.
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| Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 6:55 pm Post subject: |
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In pronunciation drills with my students, I'm expected to practise "minimal pairs", i.e., words that sound similar. Last week, we were reading lists of words to help them distinguish between "th" and "d". There was a red exclamation mark (scrawled by a previous teacher, I assume) beside a pair of words: "thick" and ... well, Dave's would beep it anyway. |
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JongnoGuru
Joined: 25 May 2004
Location: peeing on your doorstep
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| Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 7:13 pm Post subject: |
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Yu_Bum_suk
Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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| Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 7:22 pm Post subject: Re: Men and sex |
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[quote="Babayaga"][quote="Yu_Bum_suk"]
| Babayaga wrote: |
| peppermint wrote: |
| Babayaga wrote: |
I bet you're one of those guys who doesn't give credit to his date's intelligence or humanity and just wants to sc**w her on a first date! |
Why do you seem to think the two are mutually exclusive?[/quote]
I don't think that at all. I was simply responding to Yum_bum_suk's assumption that intelligent guys wouldn't find me interesting,therefore all they would want from would be sex. I in turn assumed that he's a conceited,self--centered type of guy who's not able to recognize a woman's intelligence and humanity,but just see her as a piece of meat. |
Haha, just look at the threads you start / respond to - Topic: Men and sex, Topic: Will ignoring A GUY get his attention?, Topic: So what sort of parent are you/ are you gonna be?, Topic: Men and attractive women, Topic: Princess or no?, Topic: What do men consider most attractive in a woman?
I just got the October issues of Seventeen and Cosmo Girl to use with my high school girls, but if you'd like borrow them first I could [color=red]lend them out for a week.[/quote[/color]]
Just means relationship issues interest me greatly at this point,you genius! Just because I'm not responding on other threads,doesn't mean I don't have intelligent interests,just not the ones mentioned on Dave's Cafe. If you're such a brain then why are YOU responding on these same "simple-minded" threads? Are you a teenager intellectually,too??? With your type of reasoning,we might conclude that most posres here are stupid!
I'd like to know YOUR intellectual qualifications! |
It's just funny that on a site like this, with all sorts of guys with whom to discuss intellectual topics (or educational - does the OP even teach?), the OP starts a thread like this to attract the usual male banter.
As a guy who's into museums, literature, history, and foreplay, I think I have a good idea why she ends up with the type of guys she does, lol. |
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peppermint
Joined: 13 May 2003
Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.
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| Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 7:27 pm Post subject: |
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So why'd you drag me into it ( in the quotes anyway)  Oh, and if you can point me to a decent art museum around Seoul ( I've done my reeducation stint at the history ones already) |
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