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dcrayne



Joined: 25 Nov 2004

PostPosted: Sat Oct 22, 2005 7:49 am    Post subject: Idiot Neighbour Reply with quote

Just wondering if you have ever had any idiot western neighbours in Korea. We just got a new neighbour across the hall. My wife was getting out of the elevator when she saw him standing right in front of the elevator. She said excuse me in Korean, he calmly replied thank you and gave her a dirty look.
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Gorgias



Joined: 27 Aug 2005

PostPosted: Sat Oct 22, 2005 8:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

That was me!

Sorry about that.

Small world isn't it!

I'll be more polite in the future, I remember now who you and her are.

No hard feelings.
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Bulsajo



Joined: 16 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sat Oct 22, 2005 8:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sounds like it's time for the flamming bag of dog poo.
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Red



Joined: 05 Jul 2004

PostPosted: Sat Oct 22, 2005 9:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

My neighbours are all university students and bar girls.
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Tiberious aka Sparkles



Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: I'm one cool cat!

PostPosted: Sun Oct 23, 2005 1:41 am    Post subject: Re: Idiot Neighbour Reply with quote

dcrayne wrote:
Just wondering if you have ever had any idiot western neighbours in Korea. We just got a new neighbour across the hall. My wife was getting out of the elevator when she saw him standing right in front of the elevator. She said excuse me in Korean, he calmly replied thank you and gave her a dirty look.


My advice: kill him.

Sparkles*_*
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paperbag princess



Joined: 07 Mar 2004
Location: veggie hell

PostPosted: Sun Oct 23, 2005 1:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i was at a bday party last night in itaewon (the quietest neighbourhood in the world) and at 12:30 the downstairs neighbours came out and yelled at us and told us that "people have to work in the morning" and that we had to "turn that beat music off". it was hilarious. dude, if you're on this board (which i'm guessing you probably are) you're so lame you make my great grandmother look cool. there are polite ways to do things, like knocking on the door first and saying, "hey, you're music is really loud and i'm trying to sleep, could you turn it down a little?"
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Ya-ta Boy



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994

PostPosted: Sun Oct 23, 2005 2:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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there are polite ways to do things, like knocking on the door first and saying, "hey, you're music is really loud and i'm trying to sleep, could you turn it down a little?"



Don't you just marvel at how blind people can be at their own rudeness? It's up to the other guy to be polite when asking for some peace and quiet.
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mindmetoo



Joined: 02 Feb 2004

PostPosted: Sun Oct 23, 2005 3:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I had a Texan guy living on my floor. Pretty nice guy but he was blasting his music really loud one day and the guy in the officetel next to him wanted him to turn the volume down. The Texan guy turned really belligerent and told him to f off and stuff. It was quite embarrassing to see.
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rapier



Joined: 16 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Sun Oct 23, 2005 4:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ya-ta Boy wrote:
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there are polite ways to do things, like knocking on the door first and saying, "hey, you're music is really loud and i'm trying to sleep, could you turn it down a little?"



Don't you just marvel at how blind people can be at their own rudeness? It's up to the other guy to be polite when asking for some peace and quiet.


The victim is always in the wrong apparently. I agree, people are generally blind to the many ways they cause offence, (wilfully or no.)
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Tiberious aka Sparkles



Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: I'm one cool cat!

PostPosted: Sun Oct 23, 2005 4:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

mindmetoo wrote:
I had a Texan guy living on my floor. Pretty nice guy but he was blasting his music really loud one day and the guy in the officetel next to him wanted him to turn the volume down. The Texan guy turned really belligerent and told him to f off and stuff. It was quite embarrassing to see.


Don't mess with Texas.

Sparkles*_*
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SPINOZA



Joined: 10 Jun 2005
Location: $eoul

PostPosted: Sun Oct 23, 2005 4:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My advice is give the guy a chance. I often think folks are giving me dirty looks and then the next time I see them they're really nice and probably didn't mean anything by it. He also might not have understood 'excuse me' in Korean. If you'd have said that to me when I first got here, I certainly wouldn't have given you a dirty look but I may well have given a "what did you say there?" look. Some people look at you funny without meaning anything by it.
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Cedar



Joined: 11 Mar 2003
Location: In front of my computer, again.

PostPosted: Sun Oct 23, 2005 4:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have a new neighbor who is diagonally across the corner that both of our houses stand on. This is a very quiet neighborhood, even if it is in Itaewon2dong. Ever since he moved in, he has his friends over and he has a security system on his building and the friends and he yell up and down from the balcony (just about one floor above my window and across the tiny intersection) "hey DAWG how you open the door DAWG, DAWG c'mon this is like freaking pissing me off DAWG". I have now memorized the security code because he yells it so often. And then, of course they blast music and stand on the balcony and yell at each other over the music. I don't care if it's 9 or 10 pm, it's rude. I just hope this cold weather keeps them inside from now on. As local Korean speaking foreigner, it's only a matter of time before my neighbors ask me to go tell them to knock it off...
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Zyzyfer



Joined: 29 Jan 2003
Location: who, what, where, when, why, how?

PostPosted: Sun Oct 23, 2005 5:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My landlady gave us the third degree about people smoking and talking (not yelling and hooting) at 7:45 p.m. Saturday night. I was just like "holy crap."
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Tiberious aka Sparkles



Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: I'm one cool cat!

PostPosted: Sun Oct 23, 2005 5:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Zyzyfer wrote:
My landlady gave us the third degree about people smoking and talking (not yelling and hooting) at 7:45 p.m. Saturday night. I was just like "holy crap."


Were you fully clothed? Very Happy

Sparkles*_*
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Cedar



Joined: 11 Mar 2003
Location: In front of my computer, again.

PostPosted: Sun Oct 23, 2005 6:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

oops, double post, see next page...


--edit again--

damn it! I erased it, and then it wasn't a double, for some weird reason...

Okay:
In Korea people don't entertain in the home much unless
a. it's a very small group and not usually pre-planned
b. it's Chuseok or Seollal.




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