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adamdean
Joined: 20 Mar 2005
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Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2005 8:52 pm Post subject: Dating and older woman!? |
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One of my students is about 35 and I am 29. People tell me that older korean women will never go anywhere near yonger men.
Is this true anybody got any experience of dating an older chick in korea!? |
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steroidmaximus

Joined: 27 Jan 2003 Location: GangWon-Do
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Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2005 9:00 pm Post subject: |
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People tell me that older korean women will never go anywhere near yonger men.
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this is probably the silliest thing I've ever heard. well, in a few days anyway.
A cougar's a cougar's a cougar. |
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neandergirl

Joined: 23 Jun 2005
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Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2005 9:00 pm Post subject: |
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No personal experience but I know at least a dozen couples where the woman (Korean) is older than the man (non-Korean). In fact, even taking Korean age into account, I don't think I know any where the man is older than the women and only 2 where they're the same age. |
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Tiger Beer

Joined: 07 Feb 2003
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Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2005 10:03 pm Post subject: |
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Not true.
Korean women will date younger western men. No problem at all.
There is an age when the woman is around 26-29 where she is very marriage-minded and extremely particular with who she dates - doesn't want to waste time.
But if they are in their 30s.. that thinking goes out the window.. and anyone is fair game. |
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periwinkle
Joined: 08 Feb 2003
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Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2005 10:15 pm Post subject: |
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A 35 year old cougar? 35 isn't "older". If she's a student, I doubt she's a cougar, anyway.... Unless you work in Kangnam... |
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billybrobby

Joined: 09 Dec 2004
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Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2005 10:32 pm Post subject: |
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yeah, i'd say older woman/younger man is really common. you know, one day they turn 40 and they finally move out of their parent's house and look out world! Here comes Eunji and she's ready to party! |
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BigBlackEquus
Joined: 05 Jul 2005 Location: Lotte controls Asia with bad chocolate!
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Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2005 11:00 pm Post subject: |
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Ha! Most Korean women brag about dating a younger man, and the other women give their congrats!! |
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seoulkitchen

Joined: 28 Dec 2004 Location: Hub of Asia, my ass!
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Posted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 12:07 am Post subject: Re: Dating and older woman!? |
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adamdean wrote: |
One of my students is about 35 and I am 29. People tell me that older korean women will never go anywhere near yonger men.
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Some do, some don't.
'Nuff said.
(Now quit askin silly questions here and just ask her. Duh!) |
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scarneck

Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 12:45 am Post subject: |
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Heck, I'm tearing one up now!! |
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magicwolfman
Joined: 01 Sep 2005
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Posted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 6:49 pm Post subject: |
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cant you find a girl your own age? They dont seem to want fat, bald guys do they. Oh well, older girls are desperate to get a ring put on their finger. Good luck.  |
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kermo

Joined: 01 Sep 2004 Location: Eating eggs, with a comb, out of a shoe.
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Posted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 7:18 pm Post subject: |
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magicwolfman wrote: |
cant you find a girl your own age? They dont seem to want fat, bald guys do they. Oh well, older girls are desperate to get a ring put on their finger. Good luck.  |
How sweet. |
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uberscheisse
Joined: 02 Dec 2003 Location: japan is better than korea.
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Posted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 7:21 pm Post subject: |
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i hear that most of the trainers at my gym are having affairs with some of the (dead beautiful) cougarmmas.
i have a hunch that it would be a lot of fun and probably devoid of some of the drama of the more youthful. as it always is. |
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billybrobby

Joined: 09 Dec 2004
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Posted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 7:32 pm Post subject: |
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magicwolfman wrote: |
cant you find a girl your own age? They dont seem to want fat, bald guys do they. Oh well, older girls are desperate to get a ring put on their finger. Good luck.  |
well, that was pleasant. but i don't agree with the "desperate to get a ring on the finger" thing. maybe from korean dudes, but not so much from foreigners. i think older women (28 and up) are more likely to take things lightly than younger women. they seen the ups and downs and have looked at love from both sides now (like joni mitchell would say) and are a lot cooler in a lot of ways.
plus korean people tend to look like they're 15 until they turn 35 when they suddenly begin to look 40. |
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uberscheisse
Joined: 02 Dec 2003 Location: japan is better than korea.
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Posted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 7:36 pm Post subject: |
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billybrobby wrote: |
plus korean people tend to look like they're 12 until they turn 35 when they suddenly begin to look 60. |
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Hollywoodaction
Joined: 02 Jul 2004
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Posted: Tue Nov 01, 2005 8:10 pm Post subject: |
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steroidmaximus wrote: |
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People tell me that older korean women will never go anywhere near yonger men.
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this is probably the silliest thing I've ever heard. well, in a few days anyway.
A cougar's a cougar's a cougar. |
Cougars, educating young Maritimers since 1604.  |
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