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greent
Joined: 17 Nov 2005
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 11:39 am Post subject: foreign girls in korea |
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| Am considering going to korea for a short while after having lived in vietnam the past few years, but am wondering what the life is lke there for a foreign girl? i'm guessing it's same same as in everywhere in asia. i've had a few interviews though where the schools will mention that they have oh 7 or so foreign teachers and usually all but 1 are male. not that i don't like guy company, but it's nice to have some foreign girlfriends as well to hang out with. are they in short supply? i know they probably don't last as long, but am wondering if i am heading into a very male dominated scene... |
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zappadelta

Joined: 31 Aug 2004
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 1:47 pm Post subject: |
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| I would say overall it's easier to find a good job for a female, but your life is more difficult here. There are plenty of foreign girls here though. |
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rainyqueen
Joined: 14 Nov 2005
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 2:46 pm Post subject: |
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If you are in a big city, then I don't think you'll have much of a problem meeting girls, there are tons (although I suppose there are more guys). However, I did work in a small town once, where there were no other girls, however, there was only one other guy there as well. That was fun!
I wouldn't worry to much.
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krats1976

Joined: 14 May 2003
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 3:00 pm Post subject: |
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I've been here 2 1/2 years and I've never felt like there was a shortage of other women to hang out with.
I also don't see my life here as any harder than a man's, contrary to an earlier post. But, maybe that's just because I refuse to let it be. |
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deessell

Joined: 08 Jun 2005
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 4:03 pm Post subject: |
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| Having lived in Vietnam for two years myself, you will find it dull here. So you make more money here but there are better places in Asia. I find K men and the staring a problem. I have less freedom here and I will be gladly leaving when my contract is finished. For all the problems that Vietnam has, the lifestyle is still very good. Think carefully before moving here. |
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greent
Joined: 17 Nov 2005
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 5:00 pm Post subject: |
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thanks for the replies.
to be honest, i don't really have high hopes of korea, except for money. my contract in vietnam has ended as has my work permit and i'll be returning to the states (gasp) in june as now is not optimal time for teachers, but could use some extra money before going back. i've only ever been through the airport in Seoul and as i recall, it was a bit like being in a doublement gum commercial. all i want is to dress up in a matching sweatervest oufit with some guy.  |
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joe_doufu

Joined: 09 May 2005 Location: Elsewhere
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 5:29 pm Post subject: |
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| greent wrote: |
thanks for the replies.
to be honest, i don't really have high hopes of korea, except for money.
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I recommend Taiwan as a good place to make money where the weather is still tropical and the people are quite friendly. I'm sure it's not as nice as Vietnam or Thailand but the money is almost as good as Korea and it's far less painful to live there. |
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SPINOZA
Joined: 10 Jun 2005 Location: $eoul
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 5:59 pm Post subject: |
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thanks for the replies.
to be honest, i don't really have high hopes of korea, except for money. |
That's pretty much what I felt. But I've been here a little over 3 months now and it's exceeded my expectations in every way. I expected (from reading this site): awful job, awful colleagues, vile kids who were indoctrinated to hate foreigners, really dislikeable Korean people, totally *beep* time. Reality: great job, wonderful colleagues who went out of their way to help me settle in and make me feel comfortable, brilliant kids who look up to me and would devastated if I left (sorry to sound arrogant; it's just true), fantastically hospitable Koreans from beautiful Korean girls in bars and shops to crazy old guys.
I'm not gonna trash you for having negative preconceptions because I was the same. What I'm saying is don't come expecting to have a *beep* time so much that you show it and people in turn respond to that and find you a rude, western f_ckhead, if you'll pardon my language. That's usually the problem. In Korea, you really do get back what you project outward.
Western females in Seoul? Plenty. Not an issue at all! |
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bellum99

Joined: 23 Jan 2003 Location: don't need to know
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Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 9:53 pm Post subject: |
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Hmmm....please don't bother talking about your job if you have been here only 3 months. Wait until you have finished your contract and gotten everything owed to you before you start talking about how wonderful everything is at the job. You just sound stupid when you write on here 4 months later complaining about the boss, job and school.
The reality is that everything can and often does change in a heartbeat. The boss is always kind and nice in the begining when you bend like grass, but after you say no once or twice things change fast.
*** You have no opinion right now. |
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bucheon bum
Joined: 16 Jan 2003
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Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 10:42 pm Post subject: |
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| 3 months.. yeah, right about when the culture shock kicks in. enjoy |
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Tiger Beer

Joined: 07 Feb 2003
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Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 11:22 pm Post subject: |
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You can already tell who lives where in Korea on this thread.
People staring and its dull in Korea.. they signed a sight-unseen contract through a recruiter and ended up way out in the middle of nowhere.
People say it exceeded their expectations.. probably arrived first.. looked for job through a few interview and checking out the places.. found a job that suited their interests and needs well, etc. Or they were just really really lucky and the recruiter by some streak of good fortune placed them in a highly desireable area/location/job.
In regards to Vietnam vs. Korea. Vietnam looked and felt a lot more interesting. As for a woman in either place, seems like the hardships would be about the same. |
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deessell

Joined: 08 Jun 2005
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Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 11:56 pm Post subject: |
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| Tiger Beer wrote: |
| . As for a woman in either place, seems like the hardships would be about the same. |
With all due respect Tiger, you are not a woman and you have not lived in Vietnam. I NEVER had any problems as a female in Vietnam. I also didn't sign a random contract over the internet, infact I have lived here before. I left Korea and went to work in Vietnam.
Things are very different for a teacher in Vietnam. IMO Vietnam is more cosmopolitan than Korea. Thank god for the French. It is much better to live in an ex french colony than a british/american one. (Not that I'm saying Korea was colonized by the Americans).
If the OP decides to move here, then she shouldn't have high expectations, that's all I'm saying. Think of the money!!!!! That's all I do. |
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SPINOZA
Joined: 10 Jun 2005 Location: $eoul
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2005 12:33 am Post subject: |
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Hmmm....please don't bother talking about your job if you have been here only 3 months. Wait until you have finished your contract and gotten everything owed to you before you start talking about how wonderful everything is at the job. You just sound stupid when you write on here 4 months later complaining about the boss, job and school.
The reality is that everything can and often does change in a heartbeat. The boss is always kind and nice in the begining when you bend like grass, but after you say no once or twice things change fast.
*** You have no opinion right now. |
wtf?
Jeez, what an effin' c_nt. The first syllable in your name is most appropriate.
It's highly unlikely that my public school will try to con me out of my severence etc etc unlike the showers of sh1te in Haggie Hell you've worked for, Bell End. It's good that you've done your long suffering parents a favor by moving to Korea but please don't start telling me I have no opinion, you fecal maggot. |
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peppermint

Joined: 13 May 2003 Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.
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| I hope you're right, but it's been known to happen. |
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Moldy Rutabaga

Joined: 01 Jul 2003 Location: Ansan, Korea
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2005 1:39 am Post subject: |
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Okay-- I'll toot my own horn on this-- read my tutorial for prospective Korean ESL teachers-- it's just my opinion, however.
http://keneckert.com/resume/eslguide/
Ken:> |
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