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Real Reality
Joined: 10 Jan 2003
Location: Seoul
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Ya-ta Boy
Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994
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| I love the black and white vision of the world you have. Bad. Good. |
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Alias
Joined: 24 Jan 2003
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| Posted: Tue Dec 27, 2005 5:27 am Post subject: |
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| I don't believe that they harm society but whether they are "bad" or "good" is a totally different matter. |
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Satori
Joined: 09 Dec 2005
Location: Above it all
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| Posted: Tue Dec 27, 2005 5:47 am Post subject: |
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| The question is utterly rediculous. Is it harmful? Of course not! |
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mindmetoo
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
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| Posted: Tue Dec 27, 2005 4:34 pm Post subject: |
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| Alias wrote: |
| I don't believe that they harm society but whether they are "bad" or "good" is a totally different matter. |
Yeah. RR's poll choices suck. |
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riley
Joined: 08 Feb 2003
Location: where creditors can find me
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| Posted: Tue Dec 27, 2005 5:20 pm Post subject: |
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Have to agree that his poll choices are bad.
As far as my opinion goes, if we had a society that minded its own business then there wouldn't be any problem with it. Of course we don't do that.
I think wife swapping isn't wise simply because it could hurt a marriage. Someone could get jealous and then there will be problems. As a sidenote, I have a friend who's married and he and his wife have an open marriage. Of course, she has had more luck bringing someone else home, so I wonder how he feels about this. (Granted, it's none of my business) I bring them up because there are similarities between an open marriage and sex clubs, at least where couples go to. |
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Octavius Hite
Joined: 28 Jan 2004
Location: Househunting, looking for a new bunker from which to convert the world to homosexuality.
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Consenting adults = none of anyone elses buisness, especially the governments!
Period.
The end.
Over. |
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Real Reality
Joined: 10 Jan 2003
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Tue Dec 27, 2005 6:56 pm Post subject: |
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Paternity and Misattributed Paternity
Grounds for Divorce: Adultery
Adultery is generally defined as consensual sexual intercourse by a married person with someone other than their lawful spouse.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adultery
Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD)
Reduce your risk
Mutual monogamy (have sex with only one uninfected partner). Multiple sex partners can increase your risk for getting any STD and developing Pelvic inflammatory disease (PID).
http://www.ashastd.org/learn/learn_pid.cfm |
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Moldy Rutabaga
Joined: 01 Jul 2003
Location: Ansan, Korea
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| Posted: Wed Dec 28, 2005 1:11 am Post subject: |
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Do I think it's a healthy or moral lifestyle? No.
Does it hurt me or others in a tangible way? No.
Then it's none of my business...
Ken:> |
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khyber
Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Compunction Junction
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| Posted: Wed Dec 28, 2005 1:55 am Post subject: |
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I've always wondered...
What DOES harm society? |
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riley
Joined: 08 Feb 2003
Location: where creditors can find me
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| Posted: Wed Dec 28, 2005 2:00 am Post subject: |
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killer tomatoes.
Period.
The End.
Over. |
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igotthisguitar
Joined: 08 Apr 2003
Location: South Korea (Permanent Vacation)
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| Posted: Wed Dec 28, 2005 10:26 pm Post subject: |
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| khyber wrote: |
I've always wondered...
What DOES harm society? |
Good question.
Moi? No vote.
My sentiments on this are similar to the poll that CNN ran the other day, framed essentially as "... civil unions ( i.e. gay marriage ) good or bad?"
Answer: No opinion ( i.e. moral ambivalence ).
Moral judgement on the lifestyle choice is beside the point. The larger & more critical issue is that they ought to be free to do to themselves as they please. Are they killing? Stealing? Kidnapping? Raping? Torturing? ( no, i don't mean consentual S&M or freaky bondage either ).
Forcibly drugging?
Marching a naked group sex parade down mainstreet for all to see?
If not, as Trudeau said: "The state has NO PLACE in bedrooms of our nation"  |
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Satori
Joined: 09 Dec 2005
Location: Above it all
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| Posted: Thu Dec 29, 2005 4:56 am Post subject: |
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| khyber wrote: |
I've always wondered...
What DOES harm society? |
Reactionary republicans... |
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fiveeagles
Joined: 19 May 2005
Location: Vancouver
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| Posted: Thu Dec 29, 2005 6:58 am Post subject: |
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| Moldy Rutabaga wrote: |
Do I think it's a healthy or moral lifestyle? No.
Does it hurt me or others in a tangible way? No.
Then it's none of my business...
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The backbone of any society is it's family. When it becomes corrupted by immorality it affects everyone.
If your friends divorce, does that affect you? Of course it does. Life is a rippling effect and everyone causes ripples that affect others. We are all connected together and we can either affect it for the good or for evil.
# In the book Back From Betrayal, author Jennifer P. Schneider, M.D., asserts that for some dissatisfied people, fantasizing about affairs is the first step to a real affair. She suggests that the fantasization process occupies such a large part of a person��s inner world that little energy is left for the marital relationship.
# According to Francine Klagsbrun, author of Married People: Staying Together in the Age of Divorce, the reason marriage provides the greatest possibility for intimacy is because marriage is predicated on the idea of exclusivity. And one of the differences between marriage and other friendships is the importance of exclusivity. |
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