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ulsanchris
Joined: 19 Jun 2003 Location: take a wild guess
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 3:25 am Post subject: sexual assualts haunt nation |
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this is an excerpt from an article in the korean times. it sick just sick.
Recently, a 16-year-old girl, identified as Song, was sexually assaulted by a 25-year-old man whom Song became acquainted with in a computer chat room.
Worried about pregnancy, Song visited a pharmacy to buy morning-after-pills, but an employee at the pharmacy took Song to the dispensary, saying he would tell her how to use the pills, and sexually harassed the girl.
Song told the story to a 25-year-old man through computer chatting. The man took Song to a bar saying he would give counseling, but raped Song after getting her drunk.
She took a cab to report the man to the police. The taxi driver, who consoled her and asked the reason for going to the police station, sexually assaulted the girl again in a parking lot.
the full story can be found here. http://times.hankooki.com/lpage/200603/kt2006030317444410230.htm
poor girl. A bit naive maybe even stupid, but no one to deserves what she went through. |
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Troll_Bait

Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Location: [T]eaching experience doesn't matter much. -Lee Young-chan (pictured)
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 6:14 am Post subject: |
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Recently, a 16-year-old girl, identified as Song, was sexually assaulted by a 25-year-old man whom Song became acquainted with in a computer chat room.
Worried about pregnancy, Song visited a pharmacy to buy morning-after-pills, but an employee at the pharmacy took Song to the dispensary, saying he would tell her how to use the pills, and sexually harassed the girl.
Song told the story to a 25-year-old man through computer chatting. The man took Song to a bar saying he would give counseling, but raped Song after getting her drunk.
She took a cab to report the man to the police. The taxi driver, who consoled her and asked the reason for going to the police station, sexually assaulted the girl again in a parking lot.
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rapier
Joined: 16 Feb 2003
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 6:25 am Post subject: |
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..and then the keystone cops arrive and tell her to get over it. |
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pest1

Joined: 09 Feb 2006 Location: Korea
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 8:23 am Post subject: |
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Yeah she should never have told her story to anyone. The culture is still very chauvinistic. Korean men still wanna marry virgin girls and whoever is not a virgin is therefore a *beep*. Instead of feeling sorry for her these men just think her as a *beep* after she got raped. She suddenly becomes a plaything for men. |
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RachaelRoo

Joined: 15 Jul 2005 Location: Anywhere but Ulsan!
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 8:59 am Post subject: |
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I'm not so sure about this story. First, it says that the pharmacist 'sexually harassed' her, which can mean almost anything.
Then the taxi driver ...I mean, she would be able to identify who he was, and she was on her way to REPORT a rape to the police... what, he thought he'd get away with it? I would think they have something along the lines of rape kits in Korea for DNA testing, and since she was heading to the station anyways....
Actually, if you click on the link to the original story, there is a fourth supposed incident when she talks to another guy online, tells him about the rape, meets him, and he rapes her.
The story is strange, strangely worded, and very sketchy on details. It reminds me of an urban legend or something that overprotective parents tell their 13 years daughters to try to stop them from trusting men. Or maybe the girl is schizo and making this up.
I dunno. |
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JeJuJitsu

Joined: 11 Sep 2005 Location: McDonald's
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 9:16 am Post subject: |
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This is the plot for an indie movie I saw about 10 years ago at Sundance. It's a bunch of BS. |
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Hater Depot
Joined: 29 Mar 2005
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 9:20 am Post subject: |
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Well so far, the police seem to believe her. And a friend of hers has ben arrested for blackmailing the pharmacist. He got a whole 200,000 won out of the guy. |
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Gorgias
Joined: 27 Aug 2005
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 9:38 am Post subject: |
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@rapier: I've unfortunately known two gals here who have had unwanted sexual assaults (minor, at least no physical harm involved); in both cases the police couldn't have cared less: once it was the neighbour, they sent her on to "family affairs" or what ever the department was called. I think your remark about the "keystone cops" is dead on.
@RachaelRoo: I myself do not doubt this story. By 'sexual harassed' it might have meant something like the pharmasist and the taxi driver started calling her a 'ho' and what not.
I too have been watching these developments in the last two weeks.
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The element of this topic which is most interesting to me these days is to try to understand the whence of pedophile-hysteria.
For instance, statistically, both tumble-dryers and swimming pools are individually about three-thousand percent more dangerous to the lives of children than are deranged child-killers. Yet, if one made a post like this:
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I recently purchaced a tumble dryer... |
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yr sick--you should be casterated! |
Of course anyone who has ever defended pedophiles on a web-forum knows that that sort of reply is the norm.
Why do swimming pools and tumble-dryers not create the sort of hysterical hatred pedophiles do, when they are so much more harmful and deadly?
Two things come obviously to mind: one, pools and dryers are not people, they are things; and two, pools and dryers are not sexual.
Those must be the places to at least start looking for an explanation for pedophile-hysteria.
But, pedophile hysteria is a relatively local and recent phenomena. Older pedophiles have written that they can recall a time when it was possible to purchase kiddie-magazines in some corner stores.
Korea does not have Western-style pedophile-hysteria; so recent events may shed some light on the query.
For starters, there have only been three serial/mass-sex-killers in Korea. Also, only one of them preyed exclusivly on children (boys), while another killed young women, whether or not she happened to be a minor; the third and most recent started killing elderly people, and then moved on to prostitutes.
Last week however, a child-sex murder brought the subject into the news-- along with sexual activity with children in general. One film was produced about the serial-killer that preyed on young women, Memories of Murder. The movie did not focus particularly on the criminal or victims, rather on the police and their investigation, that killer was never caught.
This week too, the statute of limitations will expire on the also unapprehended boy killer. The combination of these events brought the issue onto the news, however, there seems to have been little yellow-press style coverage. Until this month, it seems as if the topic of pedophiles is almost totally ignored.
In cinema, the trench-coat wearing pervert is commonly displayed as an object of humor, not of fear.
Also, sentences seem relatively light, compared to in the West-- if carried out at all, (partly this is due to the blood-money system which probably gives an insentive to victims who settle out of court. The law seems to be being reconsidered this week, charges will be brought by the state independently of the what the victim wishes.
(It can also be mentioned that both serial-killing and pedophilia-as-a-crime may be closely related to a society's industrial/economic/liberal development. This has been pointed out many times.)
My own feeling is that pedophile-hysteria is actually closely related to child-hysteria in general in the West.
In Korea, children do not enjoy the same legal protections or even common sense parental care that Western children do. Take for instance child-car-seats: statistics show that child car seats provide little greater safety to children than simply having the child in the back seat. (Children who ride in the front seat however are statisticly in danger.) In Korea, no rules exist regarding car-seats (or at least they are not enforced); however in much of the West car-seats have become mandatory and are treated hysterically; for example, the recent mass media scandal about Britteny Spears not using a child-car-seat.
To conclude, while persons create more fear than objects, and sexual matters create more hysteria than non-sexual ones, (economic factors may also contribute), I suggest that contemporary-Western pedophile-hysteria is a symptom of a larger trend of child-hysteria. The causes of that are another issue. |
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canuckistan Mod Team


Joined: 17 Jun 2003 Location: Training future GS competitors.....
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 9:56 am Post subject: |
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After reading this I am even more in favour of girls and women being taught self-defense. It should be a compulsory part of public education and an off-shoot of gym class. |
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kangnam mafioso
Joined: 27 Jan 2003 Location: Teheranno
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 5:56 pm Post subject: |
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i think song has learned some valuable lessons about men (particularly korean men) and the internet. |
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ulsanchris
Joined: 19 Jun 2003 Location: take a wild guess
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 6:21 pm Post subject: |
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her actions were foolish from start to finish but nothing like that should happen to anyperson for any reason. although i wonder if her first encounter was one of those teenage prositution meetings gone wrong. |
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Satori

Joined: 09 Dec 2005 Location: Above it all
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 7:23 pm Post subject: |
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Talking about your sexual abuse to strange men on the net? Hmmm, seems that sort of thing is best shared only with close friends and family. |
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Troll_Bait

Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Location: [T]eaching experience doesn't matter much. -Lee Young-chan (pictured)
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Posted: Sat Mar 04, 2006 6:56 pm Post subject: |
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canuckistan wrote: |
After reading this I am even more in favour of girls and women being taught self-defense. It should be a compulsory part of public education and an off-shoot of gym class.
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Yes, I also think that all women should take self-defense courses, but they should always keep in mind that they are looking for the first available opportunity to run away.
Here's a statistic that I learned a long time ago (but I believe it's still valid):
Women are more likely to be the victims of a robbery, yet men are more likely to be killed by a robber. Why? Because men are more likely to stand and fight, and thus get themselves killed.
A saw a self-defense lecture by a retired policeman, and according to him, strange as it may sound, rapists often try to kiss their victim. If this happens, take the opportunity to bite down on his lip, -HARD.
Seriously.
The most psychologically-damaging thing that a man can do to a woman is to rape her, so show no mercy. Bite down as hard as you can, and then immediately flee.
Sadly, Korea has a backa$$wards legal system regarding violence.
It's not about who started it, but about who did the most damage.
So if you're walking home at night, and some guy jumps you, and you break his nose, you have to pay for the guy's hospital bill.
How f`'ed up is that?! |
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seattlespew
Joined: 01 Mar 2006
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Posted: Wed Mar 15, 2006 12:58 am Post subject: |
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Gorgias,
What do you mean 'defending pedophiles on the internet?' What can that mean? What is the defense for those that molest vulnerable children? Honestly, what are you talking about? |
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paperbag princess

Joined: 07 Mar 2004 Location: veggie hell
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Posted: Wed Mar 15, 2006 3:56 am Post subject: |
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i'm glad that the girl is sharing her story. korean women need to assert their rights over their bodies. rape and sexual assault are henious events that noone should ever go through. |
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