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laogaiguk

Joined: 06 Dec 2005 Location: somewhere in Korea
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Posted: Mon Apr 03, 2006 10:47 pm Post subject: I've finally settled into Asia |
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I've finally settled into Asia.
Yesterday, the English teacher came up to me and asked, do you have a schedule for your teaching? I show him what I have (I have always not planned too far in advance, especially at this public school). He then asked for a complete class by class schedule (topics and basics of what you are going to do) not just for this semester, but fall semester too, alluding to giving it to him that day. The scary thing is, I said, "Well, I can have this term to you tomorrow, and the next one the next day." without even blinking an eye. I then started to do it. Not one bit of complaint in my head but now that I am basically finished and bored, I thought about what he really had just asked me to do. Not an small thing and most definitely something that should have been brought to my attention before the start of this term, let alone now. I've been living in Asian countries too long. Back home I would have told my boss (in a nice way) to shove it and give just a bit more advance notice.
I think people who truly adapt to Asia's work habits will probably live a lot longer, as when they go home and see what people there complain about and get stressed about, we will just say, "Ha, that's nothing." |
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Angelus
Joined: 10 Feb 2006
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Posted: Mon Apr 03, 2006 11:34 pm Post subject: |
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Good outlook. It may add a few years to your life. |
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Zark

Joined: 12 May 2003 Location: Phuket, Thailand: Look into my eyes . . .
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Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 2:54 am Post subject: |
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I am a teacher trainer in Thailand and from the very first day I write on the whiteboard "Flexibility!"
While we do get those kinds of problems - I tend to believe that our overall stress levels are MUCH lower. But. . . maybe you are right - maybe part of it is because we don't have to get all puffed up with assertiveness and positioning. Usually we just chuckle and do it. Done. Forget it. |
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Ya-ta Boy
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Established in 1994
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Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 3:37 am Post subject: |
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For me, it depends on my state of mind.
At my last job, the first three years I was able to maintain a balance and manipulate things well enough that I didn't have too much problem with the chaos. The last year I was there, and I don't know why I stopped using the strategies that had been working, I was in one confrontation after another with the boss. The demands were no more outrageous than previously, but I didn't handle them as well.
In my new job, I'm back to my old non-reactive style.
For me, it seems to be related to how rested I am. Before the last job, I was unemployed for about 8 months. Before this one, I was unemployed for exactly 8 months.
I have come to realize that I need fairly lengthy breaks from Korea if I am to calmly handle the idiocy of working here. |
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TheUrbanMyth
Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Location: Retired
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Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 3:44 am Post subject: Re: I've finally settled into Asia |
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laogaiguk wrote: |
I've finally settled into Asia.
Yesterday, the English teacher came up to me and asked, do you have a schedule for your teaching? I show him what I have (I have always not planned too far in advance, especially at this public school). He then asked for a complete class by class schedule (topics and basics of what you are going to do) not just for this semester, but fall semester too, alluding to giving it to him that day. The scary thing is, I said, "Well, I can have this term to you tomorrow, and the next one the next day." without even blinking an eye. I then started to do it. Not one bit of complaint in my head but now that I am basically finished and bored, I thought about what he really had just asked me to do. Not an small thing and most definitely something that should have been brought to my attention before the start of this term, let alone now. I've been living in Asian countries too long. Back home I would have told my boss (in a nice way) to shove it and give just a bit more advance notice.
I think people who truly adapt to Asia's work habits will probably live a lot longer, as when they go home and see what people there complain about and get stressed about, we will just say, "Ha, that's nothing." |
I would have just sucked air betwen my teeth to make a AISSH sound. Then I would have said "I do not think it possible." (the standard response of everyone at my school when they don't want to do something.)
That's when you are REALLY settled into Asia/Korea's work habits.  |
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Ya-ta Boy
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Established in 1994
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Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 4:17 am Post subject: P-L-A-N-N-I-N-G is an 8-letter word |
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Oops. Posted in the wrong place.
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Ya-ta Boy
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Established in 1994
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Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 4:21 am Post subject: P-L-A-N-N-I-N-G is an 8-letter word |
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It wasn't just an Oops. It was a double Oops + about 5 Critical Errors thrown in. |
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elynnor
Joined: 08 Feb 2006
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Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 6:31 am Post subject: |
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mindmetoo
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
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Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 4:26 pm Post subject: |
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Every time I get a last minute schedule change at work, I always chuckle and remind myself of the 8 office changes in three years I had to undergo working for a dot.com in Seattle...
I've said to before, if you've ever worked in an office in North America, you quickly realize no place is ever well run, works to any obvious plan, or has employees with a good grasp of their responsibilities. Hagwons aren't much different. Well, I guess the difference is in North America you're always pretty sure you'll get paid at month's end. |
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laogaiguk

Joined: 06 Dec 2005 Location: somewhere in Korea
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Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 4:34 pm Post subject: |
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mindmetoo wrote: |
Every time I get a last minute schedule change at work, I always chuckle and remind myself of the 8 office changes in three years I had to undergo working for a dot.com in Seattle...
I've said to before, if you've ever worked in an office in North America, you quickly realize no place is ever well run, works to any obvious plan, or has employees with a good grasp of their responsibilities. Hagwons aren't much different. Well, I guess the difference is in North America you're always pretty sure you'll get paid at month's end. |
I disagree. I worked in 5 different places during my university degree (all IT) and they were all run quite efficiently. Even the ones at the HRDC and Fisheries and Oceans (Canadian government agencies). I don't know where you worked, but I think you hit the exception. Not all places are as good (I am a good programmer, so had my pick of jobs) as the ones I was in, but comparing it to hagwons, I wouldn't compare normal Korean companies to hagwons. |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 4:41 pm Post subject: |
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I'd have given him this:
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mindmetoo
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
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Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 4:50 pm Post subject: |
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laogaiguk wrote: |
mindmetoo wrote: |
Every time I get a last minute schedule change at work, I always chuckle and remind myself of the 8 office changes in three years I had to undergo working for a dot.com in Seattle...
I've said to before, if you've ever worked in an office in North America, you quickly realize no place is ever well run, works to any obvious plan, or has employees with a good grasp of their responsibilities. Hagwons aren't much different. Well, I guess the difference is in North America you're always pretty sure you'll get paid at month's end. |
I disagree. I worked in 5 different places during my university degree (all IT) and they were all run quite efficiently. Even the ones at the HRDC and Fisheries and Oceans (Canadian government agencies). I don't know where you worked, but I think you hit the exception. Not all places are as good (I am a good programmer, so had my pick of jobs) as the ones I was in, but comparing it to hagwons, I wouldn't compare normal Korean companies to hagwons. |
I think you're a lucky one. Nothing in my career or the careers of my friends would indicate any north american office or enterprise is a smoothly run operation. I remember once my friend went from our tax software company to Delrina. He was really happy that finally he was in a company that would do development like they learned at Waterloo. You know sober, rational, textbook stuff. Alas, his dreams were shattered when he found out the size and ostensible success of a company doesn't mean they got it any more together. |
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princess
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: soul of Asia
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Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 6:44 pm Post subject: |
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Angelus wrote: |
Good outlook. It may add a few years to your life. |
Or, it could take away some years from your life. Too much work really can either kill you or make an old man/woman out of you. That, along with too much drinking and smoking can REALLY hurt you. I like Asia but not their work, work, work mentality. Most people in the states or Canada could never work 2 years with no sick days, like I, and probably many others ,have done. |
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laogaiguk

Joined: 06 Dec 2005 Location: somewhere in Korea
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Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 6:48 pm Post subject: |
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princess wrote: |
Angelus wrote: |
Good outlook. It may add a few years to your life. |
Or, it could take away some years from your life. Too much work really can either kill you or make an old man/woman out of you. That, along with too much drinking and smoking can REALLY hurt you. I like Asia but not their work, work, work mentality. Most people in the states or Canada could never work 2 years with no sick days, like I, and probably many others ,have done. |
Who needs sick days when you don't get sick? I haven't been sick yet (a minor cough once) and haven't needed them (even though I have 15 sick days in my contract). The fact that I got 5 weeks of vacation though last winter was nice too.
I agree that Asians work too LONG, not HARD (from seeing Japan, China and Korea, don't know about the more southern Asian countries). But what I did wasn't working too hard. It wasn't well thought out, but I did have the time to do it and didn't stay after school or bring it home.  |
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laogaiguk

Joined: 06 Dec 2005 Location: somewhere in Korea
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Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 8:49 pm Post subject: |
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