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| What language do you speak together? |
| We speak almost entirely English. |
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DanielInKorea
Joined: 28 Nov 2005
Location: Not a small village
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| I didn't vote as there is no 50/50 option. Not much of a poll really, is it? |
Sorry, I didn't want the option of "so so" thrown in there.
Do you mean to say you can't decide which language you speak most of?
Er...does she speak English better than you speak Korean? Does she want to speak English alot? Do you want to speak Korean? I'm interested in hearing how it works for you...
Oh, and the third option is there because I know a guy who had a girlfriend who didn't speak English at all. They seemed to communicate through body language alone  |
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red headed stranger
Joined: 12 Apr 2005
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Tue Apr 11, 2006 7:59 pm Post subject: |
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| 50/50 is definitely an option. In my family back home there are three languages that get spoken at gatherings (English, German, and Spanish) Most of the time, people speak in the language that they are most familiar with, and everyone communicates pretty darn well. |
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mithridates
Joined: 03 Mar 2003
Location: President's office, Korean Space Agency
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| Posted: Tue Apr 11, 2006 8:27 pm Post subject: |
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My favourite are Korean people that speak Japanese. Those two languages actually go together well enough that you will slip into either language without noticing.
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laogaiguk
Joined: 06 Dec 2005
Location: somewhere in Korea
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| Posted: Tue Apr 11, 2006 8:46 pm Post subject: |
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laogaiguk,
Too true!
They start in one language...morph into the second and end in the third and make perfect sense!
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"Hey, today, 你��������来��来?" I actually said that once without even thinking about it. Then again, I am from New Brunswick, so I can mix up French and English without a problem  |
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red headed stranger
Joined: 12 Apr 2005
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Tue Apr 11, 2006 9:14 pm Post subject: |
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| 50/50 is definitely an option. In my family back home there are three languages that get spoken at gatherings (English, German, and Spanish) Most of the time, people speak in the language that they are most familiar with, and everyone communicates pretty darn well. |
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DanielInKorea
Joined: 28 Nov 2005
Location: Not a small village
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| Posted: Tue Apr 11, 2006 10:07 pm Post subject: |
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So what are the biggest problems people have in dealing in different languages? What should I be looking out for?
So far, my basic problem is trying to strike a balance between being an 'English teacher' and boyfriend. I don't like conversations where she is constantly trying to use English and I have to constantly correct her. I do this because I don't want to reinforce her konglish�� that she has learned, and partly out of habit from being an English teacher. Also, when she's trying her English, she ends up saying everything twice, first Korean then English. It gets pretty overwhelming at times, especially when trying to have an actual conversation.
Does anyone else experience this? Or am I alone in the world?... |
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DanielInKorea
Joined: 28 Nov 2005
Location: Not a small village
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| Posted: Tue Apr 11, 2006 10:14 pm Post subject: |
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| red headed stranger wrote: |
| 50/50 is definitely an option. In my family back home there are three languages that get spoken at gatherings (English, German, and Spanish) Most of the time, people speak in the language that they are most familiar with, and everyone communicates pretty darn well. |
Red headed stranger....I want to congratulate you on having the most horrendous avatar I have ever seen...
It's like it attacks me from the computer screen 
English, German and Spanish.... is it really 50/50? Like with equal emphasis given to each language, and there is no specific language used for important occasions and deep discussion?
It's like ajgeddes said, you can say stuff like 'are you hungry' in Korean, but if it came to discussing the pros and cons on sending your kids to private or public school most people would switch to English. That's the way it seems to be with most people here... |
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billybrobby
Joined: 09 Dec 2004
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| DanielInKorea wrote: |
So what are the biggest problems people have in dealing in different languages? What should I be looking out for?
So far, my basic problem is trying to strike a balance between being an 'English teacher' and boyfriend. I don't like conversations where she is constantly trying to use English and I have to constantly correct her. I do this because I don't want to reinforce her konglish�� that she has learned, and partly out of habit from being an English teacher. Also, when she's trying her English, she ends up saying everything twice, first Korean then English. It gets pretty overwhelming at times, especially when trying to have an actual conversation.
Does anyone else experience this? Or am I alone in the world?... |
accch! I hate when they say it in korean and then repeat it in english. it's like "hey, c'mon! i understood the first one! now you've robbed me of my chance to show off to my friends!" haha.
I hate when I start feeling like a teacher when I'm talking to a girl. Something about it feels...inappropriate. Like "inappropriate touching" kind of inappropriate. I feel like a douchebag. I know that's silly, but that's how I feel. Maybe it's because I don't know anything about teaching so it's all kind unnatural to me.
Anyways, you should watch out because you might get into legal trouble. |
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