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If someone wears a niqab, what skin is it off your nose?
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Big_Bird



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 5:16 pm    Post subject: If someone wears a niqab, what skin is it off your nose? Reply with quote

If someone freely chooses to wear a niqab, what skin is it off your nose?

Pink-faced Englishmen in crimson braces make me feel uncomfortable. But let's concentrate on what really matters

Timothy Garton Ash
Thursday October 12, 2006
The Guardian


I have been meaning for some time to write a column in defence of the hijab, on the same grounds on which I defended free speech last week. In a free country people should be able to wear what they like, just as they should be able to say what they like, so long as it does not imperil the life or liberty of others. My only reason for hesitating was the thought that I, as a non-Muslim man, am not self-evidently well qualified to judge what the hijab means to Muslim women. If a female Muslim journalist were to write about, say, the problems of jockstrap-wearing among rugby forwards, a similar objection might be made. But if we could only write about those things of which we have direct personal experience, there wouldn't be much journalism or literature left.

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The most tiresome argument in this whole debate is that the niqab makes white, middle-class English people feel "uncomfortable" or "threatened". Well, I want to say, what a load of whingeing wusses. Threatened by drunken football hooligans or muggers - that I can understand. But threatened by a woman quietly going about her business in a veil? As for uncomfortable: myself, I feel uncomfortable with a certain kind of pink-faced Englishman wearing crimson braces, a white-cuffed pinstriped shirt and a bow tie. Their clothing is a fair predictor of the views that will come out of their mouths. But I don't ask them to take off their braces.

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Moldy Rutabaga



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PostPosted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 5:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It doesn't bother me if a woman wears a veil. But if the girl next to her is threatened with gasoline if she doesn't put on one too, that might bother me a little.

Ken:>
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gang ah jee



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PostPosted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 6:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Moldy Rutabaga wrote:
But if the girl next to her is threatened with gasoline if she doesn't put on one too, that might bother me a little.

That's about my feeling on it too. In the end the tradition is about men maintaining control of women and no matter how you spin it, is abhorrent at the core.
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dulouz



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PostPosted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 7:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

People in the know know that women not wearing a niqab are called whores by Muslims. this includes everyone outside of the religion/politic as well. Its not a choice. Its "wear this or we beat you".

As I stated earlier, masking offends Western culture. We think that people that wear masks are up to no good. You want to wear a mask if you want to rob a bank. Its a reckless assumption to think it won't have effect regardless of the spin. Its called increased tension, its called antagonism, its called confrontation.
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riley



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PostPosted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 8:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Y'know, I think she's right, it's okay to wear some clothing, who cares what it might represent and how the values that it represents might clash with the very ideals of her city. In fact, since I'm from the back areas of the U.S., I think I'm going to wear a white hood over my face and white robes. It's only clothing and is part of my culture.

Seriously, the point of a niqab is to enforce a certain standard onto women. It's part of the idea of making a woman "modest" and it does show who is in control of that society. Are these values held by the majority of people in the west?
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Big_Bird



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PostPosted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 8:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

riley wrote:
Y'know, I think she's right, it's okay to wear some clothing, who cares what it might represent and how the values that it represents might clash with the very ideals of her city....


May I point out that where I come from Timothy is a boy's name...

Perhaps in the 'back areas of the US' this is not always the case...? Wink
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gang ah jee



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PostPosted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 8:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Big_Bird, this is one of the challenges of liberal politics, but how do you reconcile defending the right to wear the niqab and the burqa with (presumably) disagreeing with the underlying cultural practices that proscribe a woman from having a public identity of her own?

Silly question, I know, but describing niqab-wearing as a 'free choice' may not be completely accurate.
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riley



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PostPosted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 8:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

By her, I was responding to Big Bird, who I thought is a woman, if I am wrong Big Bird, Embarassed , sorry.

Big Bird, GAJ basically asked the question I was wondering, what's your answer?
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Big_Bird



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PostPosted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 10:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've just spotted this, but I have to run... I'll answer when I've a bit more time.
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thepeel



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PostPosted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 10:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

How pathetic.

The Guardian would, I assume, have been at the forefront of the feminist movement (women burning their bras, not accepting their so-called"natural" place in society etc) but today publishes articles defending islamic symbols of misogyny and oppression. In the hierarchy of leftist sins, sadly, the crime of criticising brown people is worse than the crime of oppressing women.

The VAST MAJORITY of women wear the veil because their male family members (father, brother, husbands etc) force them. I don't think BB realizes just how common it is for women to get their asses kicked in muslim housholds. The larger community of muslims also band together to ensure that those who don't wear it are isolated. In fact, in areas of Holland and parts of France, white, non-muslim women are now wearing the veil in their neighbourhoods to fend off rapists. But, lets not talk about that. dd might get offended that I call the muslims out on that.

To "ban" the burka, veil etc is not the proper place of government. But it MUST be criticised by all who value liberty. It should be made known to them that it is absurd and illiberal.
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Satori



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PostPosted: Fri Oct 13, 2006 2:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The idea that the there are not profound, fundamental, and intractible differences in the core values of Islam and western culture is misleading and dangerous.

Riley said it best, what if I want to wear my white hood? Clothes mean things. And I say we do NOT have to accept Islamic values in our own countries.
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ddeubel



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PostPosted: Fri Oct 13, 2006 2:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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in our own countries.


This is precisely the arguement -- ENTITLEMENT. No talk of human rights, dialogue, tolerance but OUR.

I won't even attempt to illuminate the ignorance. That you can't see it, is just the hopelessness of the situation....

DD
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ddeubel



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PostPosted: Fri Oct 13, 2006 3:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I don't think BB realizes just how common it is for women to get their asses kicked in muslim housholds.


I think that she is well aware. Also aware of the high level of violence women undergo in our culture. We are horrific in this regard and all this done with continued blessing , nods, winks of the court and enforcement agencies ............

This is not the issue and the reason to ask them to not wear their religious dress. The real issue is why anyone would connect the dots through 1. she wears a head scarf or veil THUS 2. She gets beaten up by her man.

I say, yes, fight how intolerant Islam is to its women. Yes, grant them equality and freedom. But not in this spirit. Will never work and it is purely intolerant and without respect, respect that is demanded of another's belief.

better ways to do it rather than scream they are all violent. Like in America , petition, create better means of policing and security for women in dangerous situations. Promote more Muslim (and all women) to places of authority and not just tokenites (and just look at the U.S. supreme court for a SUPREME and token example.).

So many here FIRST - not checking that they live in a glass house (they do). Second, not going further than the animalistic and dog barking thought level of "this is my place, stay away." . Sad.

DD

Ill wear any damn thing I want. I am the measure of who I am.......let others too (and don't just cry default "but they aren't free" so I must set them free. Too much of that falsity around these days. Isn't that rather paternalistic/????). Male? Intolerant.?
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Ya-ta Boy



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PostPosted: Fri Oct 13, 2006 3:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have a question for the experts on Islamic culture. Indonesia is the largest Moslem nation and India is right up there at the top of the list. Why don't the women in those countries wear veils? Or do they?
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riley



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PostPosted: Fri Oct 13, 2006 3:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Honestly, just making someone not wear the veil, scarf, niqab, (etc) will not change the values they and their relatives and fellow immigrants hold.
But neither do I believe this will
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Like in America , petition, create better means of policing and security for women in dangerous situations
While policing and security have helped women, how has petitioning changed domestic violence and rape? If you are serious, offer more than the old, outmoded ideas of the ultra-liberal, fight no evil crowd.
Immigrants have moved to our societies (a good thing) with different values, but what should change? Our society to make them happy, or them? It's not racism for a society to say that we don't like to see the representation of what we view as misogyny.
If we go with BB's and DDeubel's thinking, maybe we should allow female circumcision. This is a part of people's culture, including those who migrate to our country.
I tell this story hoping you will ignore the colonial aspect and note the attitude. In India during the colonial era, it was common practice for a widow to jump into the funeral flames of her husband's cremation. That was what a good woman was supposed to do. If the woman chose not to, then it was normal to "help" her into the flames. When told of this, the colonial administrator was shocked. He said that it was murder. He was told by people, "but that is our custom. You must respect our customs." He said, "Fine, it is also our custom to hang murderers. You follow your customs and I will erect gallows next to the crematories and follow my customs."
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