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Why Didn't Anybody Tell Me?

 
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cdninkorea



Joined: 27 Jan 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 4:54 pm    Post subject: Why Didn't Anybody Tell Me? Reply with quote

I got to school today in the nick of time, at 8:58, having had to speed walk/run to get there on time (I left late), only to find the school dead-quiet, something which never happens in the morning at my elementary school. I was also the first one to get to my shared office, which is strange considering my co-teachers always get there at 8:45.

I got my books and went off to my first class, only to find no one was in the classroom. Or any classroom; I could hear my footsteps echo and was the only person in the building. So I went to the Vice Principal's office in the next building, where it was explained to be that it is National Examination Day today, and classes start at 10:00 instead of 9:00.

Apparently one of my co-teachers was assigned the duty to inform me of this, but he didn't. Everyone I spoke to said some variation of "oh, no one told you? It's National Examination day!" I'm glad people are finally telling, but their timing leaves a lot to be desired.

Did this happen to anyone else?
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R-Seoul



Joined: 23 Aug 2006
Location: your place

PostPosted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 4:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It is common practise to withhold information, often because they assume you know or because to explain everything to you takes too much effort. Sometimes it can be damn annoying other times I think I'm glad they didn't waste my time telling me about that.
Either way it does mean that I never have a complete understanding of what's going on in my workplace.
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riley



Joined: 08 Feb 2003
Location: where creditors can find me

PostPosted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 5:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mine are nice enough that when it does happen that I can guilt them and they will remember to keep me informed for a couple of months or so. Sometimes I have to be proactive and ask if there is something about to happen.
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Octavius Hite



Joined: 28 Jan 2004
Location: Househunting, looking for a new bunker from which to convert the world to homosexuality.

PostPosted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 5:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I told my handler/teacher that if I wasn't given 2-3 days notice of something I wouldn't do it. The first time something came up after school they hadn't told me about I politely refused saying I had to be somewhere and they should have told me in advance. Never happened again.
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CabbageTownRoyals



Joined: 14 Sep 2006

PostPosted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 5:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

R-Seoul wrote:
It is common practise to withhold information, often because they assume you know or because to explain everything to you takes too much effort. .


For better or for worse/good news and bad. My boss didn't even tell me about a bonus I got which I discovered 2 weeks later when I finally updated my bankbook.
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Zyzyfer



Joined: 29 Jan 2003
Location: who, what, where, when, why, how?

PostPosted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 5:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Helps to have a teacher who's kind of your coordinator or someone who is always assigned the duty of informing you about events.
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Thunndarr



Joined: 30 Sep 2003

PostPosted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 5:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Zyzyfer wrote:
Helps to have a teacher who's kind of your coordinator or someone who is always assigned the duty of informing you about events.


It does help, but it is by no means a guarantee that you'll be informed of things you need to know. (Until, of course, after the point when the knowledge would have been useful.)

Two quick examples. First, my co-teachers are in the habit of eating breakfast together every Friday before class. The Thursday night before the incident I am about to relate took place, they specifically asked me what kind of sandwich I'd like to have. (One of the KTs picks them up on the way to work.) I said I didn't really care. So far, so good. The following Friday morning, I arrived at work, am a bit hungry and am waiting around for my sammich, only to be told that, no, there won't be any sandwiches today, because the kids have a field trip. Oh, thanks. That information wouldn't have been at all useful say, before I skipped breakfast. Thanks!

Another example (actually, two examples) was when I came in to work bright and early on a Monday morning only to be asked why I wasn't down in the auditorium.

"Why?" sez I, "I never go to the auditorium."

"We are having pictures taken today, didn't anyone tell you?"

Obviously not. Why did I care? Well, while my co-workers were all dressed up in their fanciest K-Style apparel, the lowly foreigner rolled in wearing un-ironed pants and a polo shirt (I may as well have been garbed in feces-ridden newspapers for the looks I got.

Later that same day, after 3rd period finished and had been dismissed, one of the students came running up the stairs (class is on 4th floor) to tell me to go down to the playground to join the other teachers to have a group picture taken. I set off immediately, and, upon reaching the first floor am greeted with a wave of teachers entering the building. The first question they ask? "Why didn't you get your picture taken?" Thanks for waiting 2 seconds, jackholes.
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Porter_Goss



Joined: 26 Mar 2006
Location: The Wrong Side of Right

PostPosted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 6:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

My Uni doesn't tell us jack. I usually find out about special events and the such the day before when one of my students asks me something like "what are your plans for your day off tomorrow?"

At first I thought it was just the other foreign teacher and I who were left out of the loop, but the K teachers in our department are constantly b*tching about the same things I am.
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kat2



Joined: 25 Oct 2005
Location: Busan, South Korea

PostPosted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 7:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is pretty common at my school too. I was the one not wearing any makeup and sloppy khakis on yearbook photo day. Niceuh!

I would approach you co-teacher or some other teacher you know and basically tell them (asking politely) that it is their job to tell you about stuff. I have to teach a class of teachers after school once a week. I told them it was theri job to tell me. So far, so good.
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twg



Joined: 02 Nov 2006
Location: Getting some fresh air...

PostPosted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 8:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I guess I have a new appreciation for that white board behind my boss' desk that she uses to post announcements on.
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cdninkorea



Joined: 27 Jan 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 9:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

twg wrote:
I guess I have a new appreciation for that white board behind my boss' desk that she uses to post announcements on.


Brilliant idea- my old school did that too, but here, out of 60 teachers, I'm the only foreigner.

They do hand out notices for these things, but they're in Korean and, since I can't read them, no one even gives them to me.
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Milwaukiedave



Joined: 02 Oct 2004
Location: Goseong

PostPosted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 9:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think it's pretty common to be out of the left out of the loop on most things no matter where you work. I just got told there was a "training class" today to learn bookmaking (making paperbooks, not betting). My teacher class was canceled because of it.

I'm trying to decide if I want to go to this class with the Korean teachers or just hide in my classroom.
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