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Ya-ta Boy



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 18, 2008 7:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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...when in fact by no stretch of the imagination is Catholicism the religion most condemning of homosexuality nor do we hate homosexuals or anything like that.


Are you saying that if there are two groups, one of which says they will cut off your arm if you engage in X behavior and another group which says it will 'only' pull out your fingernails if you engage in X, then the second group is a tolerant, generous nice group of guys?

It looks to me like the Catholic Church is a hypocritical organization when it comes to homosexuality. You're going to hell if you engage in that nasty behavior with a consenting adult, but if you prey on underage kids, we'll just reassign you to a different parish and turn the other cheek. Or maybe just ask the kid to turn the other cheek.

I don't understand the argument that there are organizations in the world which are even worse. It would seem to me that people could condemn corrupt practices without having to look for excuses.
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bellum99



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 18, 2008 3:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It was a well known fact that men who didn't show an interest in woman could and should join the church. This provided a way for the men to live an honorable life and not bring shame on their families. The church knew this and encouraged it. Many rich young nobles joined the church for this reason.

The pope himself has for sure either engaged in sex with women or is gay( I find it impossible that he has gone for 50 years without sex). No rational living person could possibly ever believe this. So...the pope is of course a liar and possibly a sodomist.
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Dude Love



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 18, 2008 8:54 pm    Post subject: reply Reply with quote

I'd like someone to quote Catholic scripture stating that anyone who has anal sex, is an unbeliever or doesn't go to Church every Sunday or try to have a baby everytime they ejaculate is going to hell. Also, homosexuality is illegal in most countries of a certain non-Christian religion. Why does no one bust their b*lls?
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bigverne



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 18, 2008 9:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Are you saying that if there are two groups, one of which says they will cut off your arm if you engage in X behavior and another group which says it will 'only' pull out your fingernails if you engage in X, then the second group is a tolerant, generous nice group of guys?


What if there was one group that actually killed homosexuals, or was pushing for the implementation of medieval law which would allow for the killing of homosexuals, and another group which merely frowned upon it. Would it not be correct to describe the latter group as significantly more tolerant than the former?
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ED209



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 18, 2008 10:45 pm    Post subject: Re: reply Reply with quote

Dude Love wrote:
I'd like someone to quote Catholic scripture stating that anyone who has anal sex, is an unbeliever or doesn't go to Church every Sunday or try to have a baby everytime they ejaculate is going to hell. Also, homosexuality is illegal in most countries of a certain non-Christian religion. Why does no one bust their b*lls?


Eh? Because we're taking about the Pope and homosexuality. This is a fairly open forum. Feel free to start you own thread on these countries. Also a country should hold itself to better standards than it's neighbours.

If you're looking for Catholic scripture read the bible, although there is no hell in the Old Testament it does cover your three points. Two of which I don't understand why you brought them up. Anyway you can find them below.


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Onan was killed by God for spilling his on the ground. Gen.38:8-9
What to do if you get your "seed of copulation" on yourself, your clothes, or your partner Lev.15:16-18, 32
"A man whose seed goeth from him" cannot eat of the holy things Lev.22:3-5

Sabbath breakers must be killed Ex.31:14-15, Ex.35:3 15:32-36
A man is stoned to death for picking up sticks on the Sabbath 15:32-36
Is it necessary to keep the Sabbath?


On gayness,

Oh no SAB link



Oh no a Catholic site Here are quotes from the NT referring to Sodomites being in Hell, though it does not define clearly if this was because the Sodomites practised sodomy. Even though that's where the name comes from.

The problem is that mortal sins tend to work on consensus rather than a strict list. Though braking the 10commandments, abortion and contraception are considered mortal sin. Though there is debate over homosexuality being a mortal sin. The modern face of the Catholic church is very careful with the word hell

Here the Pope in his earlier writings as Cardinal Ratzinger refers to homosexual acts not as a sin but as moral evil.

So, I can't give you an example of gays going to hell under specific Catholic doctrine. However the teachings of the bible and Catholicism is not gay-friendly nor neutral.
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JMO



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PostPosted: Sat Apr 19, 2008 12:54 am    Post subject: Re: reply Reply with quote

Dude Love wrote:
I'd like someone to quote Catholic scripture stating that anyone who has anal sex, is an unbeliever or doesn't go to Church every Sunday or try to have a baby everytime they ejaculate is going to hell. Also, homosexuality is illegal in most countries of a certain non-Christian religion. Why does no one bust their b*lls?



Look at the catechism paragraphs 2357 to 2359 for it's take on homosexuality. It does say that homosexuals should be treated with compassion(2358) but in 2357 it outlines that homosexual acts are sinful and under no circumstances can they be approved. Homosexuals are advised to remain chaste.

Sodomy is a grave sin. For a grave sin to qualify as a mortal sin, the following criteria must be met.


1 it must be a grave sin
2 must be committed with full knowledge
3 must be committed with deliberate and complete consent.

If a homosexual who is aware of the the gravity of the sin carries out or consents to a homosexual act is committing a mortal sin.

Unless you confess a mortal sin, you are hell bound.

Now admittedly, number 2 means that you really have to be a catholic homosexual for this to apply to you..or at least that would be my interpretation.

This holds up to what my mom used to say, when I asked about muslims who were not going to mass on a sunday and were presumably going to hell. She said that as they were not aware of the sin, then it was not mortal. I however as a catholic, am aware so it is a mortal sin not to go to church on a sunday.

not going to church on a sunday is a grave sin(2181..catechism). I know this is a sin if i am a catholic, hence it a mortal sin if I do not go of my own consent.

This idea of the knowledge of the gravity of the sin being so important is the root of catholic guilt. People of my mother's generation had to learn off by heart the catechism before being confirmed. They know this stuff inside and out. Ask one of them if not going to church on a sunday is a mortal sin..you'll get your answer.


http://www.saintaquinas.com/mortal_sin.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mortal_sin
http://www.vatican.va/archive/catechism/ccc_toc.htm
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Dude Love



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PostPosted: Sat Apr 19, 2008 9:16 am    Post subject: reply Reply with quote

I was hoping for specifically Catholic doctrine that anyone is by default going to hell. As for the Bible, the harshest passages are from the Old Testament. I wonder why no one takes them up with Jewish people.
As for the New Testament, it's all from the apostle Paul. Jesus never said anything about it that we knew of. Yes, Catholicsm teaches homosexuality's wrong but doesn't say gay people are automatically going to hell or that they're distinguished among sinners. Although some would disagree, some sins are worse than others and the media exaggerates the Catholic Church's opposition to it. Catholicism also heavily emphasizes forgiveness despite the stereotype of Catholic shame.
It's off topic but I don't think a Muslim would go to hell for not going to Mass every Sunday. As for Catholics not going, I'm not sure.
Again, homosexuality's a corporal crime or punishable by death in 12 countries of a religion other than Catholicism. No one's protesting them.
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JMO



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PostPosted: Sat Apr 19, 2008 11:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Specific catholic doctrine is the catechism. It is pretty fuzzy but the standard interpretation is that the knowledge of the gravity of the sin makes its a mortal sin.

If you are a catholic, and you do not observe the sabbath, you go to hell. Unless you confess it of course. This is the definition of a mortal sin.

There are different standards of sin. Your everyday sins are venial sins. Directly breaking the ten commandments normally lead to grave sins. Grave sins are basically mortal sins if you do them intentionally or with consent.

Catholic guilt is not a stereotype. The amount of time my older family members spend in confession will attest to that.

I have to say, that as a catholic, I'm surprised you are not aware of all this. From an early age I knew all about venial sins, mortal sins, plenary indulgences and the like. Admittedly I learned this from my family(two priests in my extended family) rather from the school system. I'd be interested in knowing your background.

I'd say if you come from a catholic community asking someone in your family in the 40-60 range will fill you in.

edit: that sounds a little condescending..not my intention.
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Dude Love



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PostPosted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 6:21 am    Post subject: reply Reply with quote

I'm a practicing, well-catechized Catholic. I thought not going to Mass was a mortal sin but a soon-to-be Catholic deacon told me it wasn't. He was a middle-aged teacher at a Jesuit school. I'm not sure if it is or not. I'd rather just go; I very rarely consider it a bother.
I think it's good you have family members spending so much time in Confession. It's not necessarily guilt, just acknowledgment of wrongdoing. Excessive guilt is scrupulosity, which is not a good thing. If you want to know more about me send a PM.
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bacasper



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PostPosted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 6:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Missing mass on a Sunday or Holy Day of Obligation IS a mortal sin. Of course, if you die while wearing the brown scapula, which only cost 10 cents more than the green one, your sin will be forgiven and you'll go to heaven. That's the best 35-cent investment you'll ever make.
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JMO



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PostPosted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 6:50 am    Post subject: Re: reply Reply with quote

Dude Love wrote:
I'm a practicing, well-catechized Catholic. I thought not going to Mass was a mortal sin but a soon-to-be Catholic deacon told me it wasn't. He was a middle-aged teacher at a Jesuit school. I'm not sure if it is or not. I'd rather just go; I very rarely consider it a bother.
I think it's good you have family members spending so much time in Confession. It's not necessarily guilt, just acknowledgment of wrongdoing. Excessive guilt is scrupulosity, which is not a good thing. If you want to know more about me send a PM.



Your soon to be catholic deacon is going outside the party line or at least the traditional line. Acknowledgment of wrongdoing is guilt. Only my older family members who were raised to fear God as children go to confession regularly.

I personally do not go to church as I don;t believe in the existence of a God. I tell my ma that i do as she worries. When I go home, I go to mass with her. I don't need to know anything about excessive guilt. Coming from Ireland, I know about guilt, it being the catholic church;s stock in trade. Don;t get me started on the jesuits...wreckers of alot of young minds..
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bacasper



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PostPosted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 7:07 am    Post subject: Re: reply Reply with quote

JMO wrote:
Your soon to be catholic deacon is going outside the party line or at least the traditional line. Acknowledgment of wrongdoing is guilt. Only my older family members who were raised to fear God as children go to confession regularly.

I'm glad you agree with me about the mortal sin part.

JMO wrote:
Don;t get me started on the jesuits...wreckers of alot of young minds..

I can see you are jaded, but give credit where it is due. Jesuits have also formed many great minds.
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