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olabueno
Joined: 02 Apr 2008
Location: Busan...as of 7/19
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I'm assuming the op was looking for pro/cons turn on/turn offs etc.
As simple as it sounds, you have to be yourself. Or as my Seniors tell me, "do you."
And hopefully someday you'll find someone who shares your passions and oddities, or finds them endearing.
If you like to play sports join a co-ed league, soccer, frisbee, bowling,
If you love to read hang out at the library, seriously.
Don't try to change or conform to what you think he/she will like. Huge turnoff. |
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Thwartley
Joined: 19 Feb 2008
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| Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 6:19 am Post subject: |
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| The biggest turn-off is women who constantly criticize themselves. In fact, that probably applies for anyone looking for a mate, regardless of sex. That whiny, lack of confidence/fishing for compliments type of crap. |
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ED209
Joined: 17 Oct 2006
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| Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 6:47 am Post subject: Re: i like someone: attn guys, advice sought |
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| Diana X2 wrote: |
| never mind. thanks though. just can't deal with the jokesters and the wicked ones. |
I hope he's a good natured humourless bore, otherwise he don't know what he's letting himself in for. |
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the_beaver
Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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| Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 5:32 pm Post subject: |
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| olabueno wrote: |
| As simple as it sounds, you have to be yourself. Or as my Seniors tell me, "do you." |
Nope. That's only true for people who are already nice or cool or pleasant or whatever.
If you're the kind of person that others avoid or if you find that a lot of potential friendships or relationships don't work out, it's time for a change. |
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