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An old lady cut in front of me yesterday, at Lotteria.
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Robot_Teacher



Joined: 18 Feb 2009
Location: Robotting Around the World

PostPosted: Thu May 14, 2009 7:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Breaking world news alert, "Old Korean woman breaks in fast food restaurant line for some fall out of line soft serve." This is a different culture on the other side of the world and I get the gist, "people mean nothing if you don't personally know them or related to them to the point, you can act like they don't exist to the point of disrespect, especially if younger than you." I'm sure it's stressful for Koreans, but they accept it and go on as it's allowed due to the respect for elders Confucian value being solidly in place. At home, age doesn't matter in public situations, only people's behaviors are considered. I can tell an old man or lady to stuff it if I don't like how they're acting towards me. I can also object to what some says or does to challenge their wrongs without having to bow down to them just because they're older or richer unless it's on a job. Korea is like one big job on stage where it's like work culture 24/7.
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Cheonmunka



Joined: 04 Jun 2004

PostPosted: Thu May 14, 2009 2:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Actually, I feel for the op. Sad about the ice cream. It's like a pitiful day turned completely fruitless.
I often have that feeling here. It's like a fruitlessness when dealing with most people who have no concern for others. Better off to quietly accept everything and dodge the shit when you can by stepping out of the way rather than find the dog and rub its nose in it.
Just for peace and quiet.
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Kurtz



Joined: 05 Jan 2007
Location: ples bilong me

PostPosted: Thu May 14, 2009 10:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Reminds me of the time I was in some little bus station in some hick town.

I was the only one in line, and I had to interrupt the ticket lady from using her flab buster, you know those machines with a vibrating piece of rubber which is placed around the offending bit of flab? well she had to untangle herself, turn off the machine and serve me.

As I had my head under the window, money being pushed to the lady to buy my ticket, along comes ajumma, who pushes my hand away and gets served first. Well I let out such a line of abuse I shocked even myself. All the ajummas and ajossis sitting down he saw what happened were laughing their heads off, I still can't work out if it was because of my temper, or the ajumma's ignorance Confused
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harlowethrombey



Joined: 17 Mar 2009
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu May 14, 2009 10:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Love the flab buster. Debunked during an era when there was still horsecrap in the streets but unbelievably popular here. At my gym I run on a treadmill near the 3 flab machines. They are in constant use and most people quite reasonably put the vibrating strap directly on their vertebrae. Which is a great idea.
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doublejj



Joined: 28 Apr 2009
Location: sparkling

PostPosted: Fri May 15, 2009 4:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Just push her out of the way next time.
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Manner of Speaking



Joined: 09 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Fri May 15, 2009 7:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

VanIslander wrote:
it used to piss me off

now i just chant loudly with index finger up "ajumma number 1, ajumma number 1, ajumma number 1" the effect is great: sometimes the person working turns and serves me instead, sometimes the ajumma stops and I go next and often others just laugh, which is satisfaction enough

try it out. it's fun Very Happy

That's a great idea. Laughing

If you're in a very crowded, noisy restaurant where you can't hear yourself think, you can quiet the place down very quickly by standing up and paying a complement to one of your compatriots in a very loud, firm, angry English voice.

First time I ever tried it, I was in a really noisy samgyapsal restaurant with 3 friends and we couldn't even hear each other around the table. So I stood up, pointed to one of my friends, scowled, and shouted,

BOB, I THINK YOU'RE ONE OF THE BEST TEACHERS I'VE EVER MET IN KOREA, HANDS DOWN! (pounds table) YOU'RE ALWAYS WELL PREPARED FOR CLASS AND I THINK YOU'RE A GREAT GUY TO HANG OUT WITH!!!

Works like a charm. Very Happy
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kimchi story



Joined: 23 Nov 2006

PostPosted: Fri May 15, 2009 2:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Manner of Speaking wrote:
VanIslander wrote:
it used to piss me off

now i just chant loudly with index finger up "ajumma number 1, ajumma number 1, ajumma number 1" the effect is great: sometimes the person working turns and serves me instead, sometimes the ajumma stops and I go next and often others just laugh, which is satisfaction enough

try it out. it's fun Very Happy

That's a great idea. Laughing

If you're in a very crowded, noisy restaurant where you can't hear yourself think, you can quiet the place down very quickly by standing up and paying a complement to one of your compatriots in a very loud, firm, angry English voice.

First time I ever tried it, I was in a really noisy samgyapsal restaurant with 3 friends and we couldn't even hear each other around the table. So I stood up, pointed to one of my friends, scowled, and shouted,

BOB, I THINK YOU'RE ONE OF THE BEST TEACHERS I'VE EVER MET IN KOREA, HANDS DOWN! (pounds table) YOU'RE ALWAYS WELL PREPARED FOR CLASS AND I THINK YOU'RE A GREAT GUY TO HANG OUT WITH!!!

Works like a charm. Very Happy

Instant classics, back to back. Mark it, folks. The 2009 high point on the ESL cafe...
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Ilsanman



Joined: 15 Aug 2003
Location: Bucheon, Korea

PostPosted: Fri May 15, 2009 4:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's how ajosshis often talk to each other.

They seem like they're fighting, but often not. Just no concept of indoor or outdoor voice.

kimchi story wrote:
Manner of Speaking wrote:
VanIslander wrote:
it used to piss me off

now i just chant loudly with index finger up "ajumma number 1, ajumma number 1, ajumma number 1" the effect is great: sometimes the person working turns and serves me instead, sometimes the ajumma stops and I go next and often others just laugh, which is satisfaction enough

try it out. it's fun Very Happy

That's a great idea. Laughing

If you're in a very crowded, noisy restaurant where you can't hear yourself think, you can quiet the place down very quickly by standing up and paying a complement to one of your compatriots in a very loud, firm, angry English voice.

First time I ever tried it, I was in a really noisy samgyapsal restaurant with 3 friends and we couldn't even hear each other around the table. So I stood up, pointed to one of my friends, scowled, and shouted,

BOB, I THINK YOU'RE ONE OF THE BEST TEACHERS I'VE EVER MET IN KOREA, HANDS DOWN! (pounds table) YOU'RE ALWAYS WELL PREPARED FOR CLASS AND I THINK YOU'RE A GREAT GUY TO HANG OUT WITH!!!

Works like a charm. Very Happy

Instant classics, back to back. Mark it, folks. The 2009 high point on the ESL cafe...
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agoodmouse



Joined: 20 Dec 2007
Location: Anyang

PostPosted: Fri May 15, 2009 4:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

When did signatures get banned? There used to be a poster on here whose signature said something to the effect that because 'Confucianism is the law of the land, but that doesn't mean it's (objectively) right'.
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