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Panda
Joined: 25 Oct 2008
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 Posted: Thu Oct 22, 2009 2:20 am Post subject: |
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| I've had the same girlfriend for a very long time. Sometimes I want to kick her to the curb, but can never bring myself to do it. She's too supportive! |
Same girl friend? No,I believe she is way better tham me.
If I knew my boyfriend wanted to kick me, no matter to which curb, I would dump a whole box of Kimchi onto his head right away.
Good luck with your girl...  |
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Panda
Joined: 25 Oct 2008
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| Posted: Thu Oct 22, 2009 2:44 am Post subject: |
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| travelingfool wrote: |
Unless you are hot with a smoking body and can suck a Titleist through a garden hose, you might want to rethink your strategy. Although, if you can avoid getting to that age without accumulating any crumb snatchers and your cans aren't sagging south past the equator, you should be way ahead of the game. |
I was just kidding......
Someone called me a jaguar sometime ago here on Dave's. 
I don't really prefer younger guys, but I have problems that most Asian women do that I could be very naive and silly at times in a relationship...
A young guy would be more adaptive and acceptant, thus wouldn't kick me to the curb too often.
Anyway.......I am going to keep on feeling like a romantic loser tonight... |
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Olivencia
Joined: 08 Mar 2009
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| Posted: Thu Oct 22, 2009 3:03 am Post subject: |
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Come on Panda..just what are you looking for? Man you seem like a picky chick. Get a dude and stay with him. No biggie. You gonna be an old lady one day..alone. Not good.
Whatchya exactly looking for girl? |
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Konglishman
Joined: 14 Sep 2007
Location: Nanjing
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| Posted: Thu Oct 22, 2009 4:06 am Post subject: |
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| Well, I will be back in Korea fairly soon. If you are still looking for a new boyfriend... |
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Olivencia
Joined: 08 Mar 2009
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| Posted: Thu Oct 22, 2009 4:15 am Post subject: |
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| Dave's should set up a hook-up section. I mean I am married and all but that would be real cool to have. |
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MattAwesome
Joined: 30 Jun 2008
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| Posted: Thu Oct 22, 2009 4:26 am Post subject: |
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realign your priorities and get back out there. dont be hateful and cry about it.
it's a waste of time and energy. |
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Olivencia
Joined: 08 Mar 2009
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| Posted: Thu Oct 22, 2009 4:34 am Post subject: |
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Panda
Joined: 25 Oct 2008
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| Posted: Thu Oct 22, 2009 5:43 am Post subject: |
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Olivencia...I am going to charge you some money for posting wrong post on my thread.
I think it a good idea to start a new thread for single people who look for dates or married one who look for affairs on Dave's. Please do.
Konglishman, that's very nice of you to offer me an chance for a girlfriend interview. what is your number, I will fax you my CV ( plus my school report cards and my video games player certification soon)... |
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Panda
Joined: 25 Oct 2008
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| Posted: Thu Oct 22, 2009 9:38 am Post subject: |
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First of all, Konglishman, I was joking you, hope you were not offended.
I would expect a new boyfriend eventually, but now I would rather not think of any relationship.
It has been long since last time I could sit in front of my computer comfortably like tonight, reading and posting and thinking of other stuffs than worrying about my boyfriend and relationship.
I just got an email from a girlfriend who asked me to go walking with her everyday after dinner. Woo~!
BTW, to answer Olivencia's question: I am very attracted to loyal, musical, intelligent, not very talkative, shy guys, like Leonardo DiCaprio, Tim Robbins, Chris Martin......I especially like the American singer Jackie Greene, he is not very popular yet, but I have had an inexplicable crush on him ever since the first time I heard his voice 2 years ago. |
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aboxofchocolates
Joined: 21 Mar 2008
Location: on your mind
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| Posted: Thu Oct 22, 2009 10:32 am Post subject: |
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It sucks when you love someone but can't live with them. No amount of effort or change on either of your parts can really sort that out. Ultimately, you will be better off for having broken off with him, and the only thing that will help is time, and the only person who is going to convince you of that is you. Sorry for the suckiness, Panda, I hope it gets better soon.
BUT, what I can help you with is petty revenge. Panda, hate mail? Seriously? I know it was an emotionally driven action, but you aren't a rookie in the love game, what's up with the mistakes? Hate mail just shows him you care. If you care, he feels he can get you back and therefore he doesn't want to!
All is not lost. If you want revenge (and you do because it's fun and easy) you have to convince him you are completely over him AND you've moved on to better things. Sexually intimidating better things. You must have hot friends floating around, an ex maybe? Drag him out of the woodwork and start spending time out in public with him. No matter how miserable you are, go out and look like you are having fun with hot guys. I am willing to bet 100 dollars that your ex will call you within three days of seeing you looking genuinely happy with another HOT dude.
I think it goes without saying you have to be honest with the guy you're borrowing for revenge purposes- hey, maybe he has an ex he wants to make jealous too! Reciprocity is at the heart of community! |
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Triban
Joined: 14 Jul 2009
Location: Suwon Station
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| Posted: Thu Oct 22, 2009 4:09 pm Post subject: |
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| Panda wrote: |
F***, this is how rich smart women are made, I am going to spend all my time working and studying and making money. |
I can be a great househusband. I'll cook and clean and make you a bubble bath when you get home.
Disclaimer: Panda suits not allowed in bubble baths.
| Panda wrote: |
A young guy would be more adaptive and acceptant |
Gemini.  |
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Konglishman
Joined: 14 Sep 2007
Location: Nanjing
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| Posted: Thu Oct 22, 2009 8:08 pm Post subject: |
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| Panda wrote: |
| Konglishman, that's very nice of you to offer me an chance for a girlfriend interview. what is your number, I will fax you my CV ( plus my school report cards and my video games player certification soon)... |
Very well then. Now, please, be aware that a minimum GPA of 3.0 is required. Also, be sure to include your GRE scores in your CV. Finally, you will need to write a one page essay about what you can uniquely contribute to the boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. |
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Konglishman
Joined: 14 Sep 2007
Location: Nanjing
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| Posted: Thu Oct 22, 2009 8:13 pm Post subject: |
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| Panda wrote: |
First of all, Konglishman, I was joking you, hope you were not offended.
I would expect a new boyfriend eventually, but now I would rather not think of any relationship.
It has been long since last time I could sit in front of my computer comfortably like tonight, reading and posting and thinking of other stuffs than worrying about my boyfriend and relationship.
I just got an email from a girlfriend who asked me to go walking with her everyday after dinner. Woo~!
BTW, to answer Olivencia's question: I am very attracted to loyal, musical, intelligent, not very talkative, shy guys, like Leonardo DiCaprio, Tim Robbins, Chris Martin......I especially like the American singer Jackie Greene, he is not very popular yet, but I have had an inexplicable crush on him ever since the first time I heard his voice 2 years ago. |
Yes, I knew you were joking. I got a good laugh out of it. Nonetheless, I thought I might point out that the qualities you are looking for in a guy are a good description of me except for possibly the musical part unless you count singing in the shower... |
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Panda
Joined: 25 Oct 2008
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| Posted: Fri Oct 23, 2009 8:08 am Post subject: |
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| aboxofchocolates wrote: |
It sucks when you love someone but can't live with them. No amount of effort or change on either of your parts can really sort that out. Ultimately, you will be better off for having broken off with him, and the only thing that will help is time, and the only person who is going to convince you of that is you. Sorry for the suckiness, Panda, I hope it gets better soon.
BUT, what I can help you with is petty revenge. Panda, hate mail? Seriously? I know it was an emotionally driven action, but you aren't a rookie in the love game, what's up with the mistakes? Hate mail just shows him you care. If you care, he feels he can get you back and therefore he doesn't want to!
All is not lost. If you want revenge (and you do because it's fun and easy) you have to convince him you are completely over him AND you've moved on to better things. Sexually intimidating better things. You must have hot friends floating around, an ex maybe? Drag him out of the woodwork and start spending time out in public with him. No matter how miserable you are, go out and look like you are having fun with hot guys. I am willing to bet 100 dollars that your ex will call you within three days of seeing you looking genuinely happy with another HOT dude.
I think it goes without saying you have to be honest with the guy you're borrowing for revenge purposes- hey, maybe he has an ex he wants to make jealous too! Reciprocity is at the heart of community! |
I like your post so much... Its very encouraging and soothing... Thanks, aboxofchocolate.
Yes, I admit I sent the hate mail because I still cared...it is not really bad if that makes him feel like a victor.
As to the revenge, I guess I am just too lame to take any revenge right now...I dont want to go out to meet anyone, I dont want to see him either  (I told myself that I was not going to see this man any more in my life)...
I like your revenge scene though, thats quite like a romantic movie, haha, have you done that before? |
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aboxofchocolates
Joined: 21 Mar 2008
Location: on your mind
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| Posted: Fri Oct 23, 2009 10:11 am Post subject: |
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| Panda wrote: |
| aboxofchocolates wrote: |
It sucks when you love someone but can't live with them. No amount of effort or change on either of your parts can really sort that out. Ultimately, you will be better off for having broken off with him, and the only thing that will help is time, and the only person who is going to convince you of that is you. Sorry for the suckiness, Panda, I hope it gets better soon.
BUT, what I can help you with is petty revenge. Panda, hate mail? Seriously? I know it was an emotionally driven action, but you aren't a rookie in the love game, what's up with the mistakes? Hate mail just shows him you care. If you care, he feels he can get you back and therefore he doesn't want to!
All is not lost. If you want revenge (and you do because it's fun and easy) you have to convince him you are completely over him AND you've moved on to better things. Sexually intimidating better things. You must have hot friends floating around, an ex maybe? Drag him out of the woodwork and start spending time out in public with him. No matter how miserable you are, go out and look like you are having fun with hot guys. I am willing to bet 100 dollars that your ex will call you within three days of seeing you looking genuinely happy with another HOT dude.
I think it goes without saying you have to be honest with the guy you're borrowing for revenge purposes- hey, maybe he has an ex he wants to make jealous too! Reciprocity is at the heart of community! |
I like your post so much... Its very encouraging and soothing... Thanks, aboxofchocolate.
Yes, I admit I sent the hate mail because I still cared...it is not really bad if that makes him feel like a victor.
As to the revenge, I guess I am just too lame to take any revenge right now...I dont want to go out to meet anyone, I dont want to see him either (I told myself that I was not going to see this man any more in my life)...
I like your revenge scene though, thats quite like a romantic movie, haha, have you done that before? |
Yes! First time by accident, second time I got a model friend to help me out. Like a charm. But I ended up as friends with both those guys anyway. Happy ending! |
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