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djsmnc



Joined: 20 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Wed Jan 20, 2010 5:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Alaskaman wrote:
Start sitting on the floor "indian style" and increase the time you can hold that pose.


Is that supposed to be a pose that's hard to hold? Hmm...

Anyway, all through college my friends and I would sit on the floor at our small coffee table and watch tv while eating. We'd also sit outside to pass doobs.

I don't really get the challenge here, aside from the fact that you have to take off your shoes, which can suck if you don't have ones that easily slip on and off. That's such a minor detail that the cultural factor nullifies it.
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redaxe



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PostPosted: Wed Jan 20, 2010 6:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

hellofaniceguy wrote:
How I deal with this problem is very very simple; I don't sit on the floor to eat. When I go out with koreans for dinner, I let it be known beforehand that I don't sit on the floor. Table and chair. Never ever had a problem...and I eat out more than often with koreans.


The OP did say he doesn't plan on being antisocial. Refusing to sit on the floor arguably qualifies as antisocial behavior in Korea.

I tell my friends I don't want to sit on the floor, and that's fine because they usually don't want to either, or don't care, and we all go eat somewhere everyone wants to eat.

But when it comes to eating with coworkers, we always eat wherever the boss wants to eat, period. So I have two options: sit on the floor or make an excuse not to go. I usually suck it up and just sit on the floor (and listen to them constantly asking me if I'm uncomfortable Rolling Eyes ).
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thomas pars



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PostPosted: Wed Jan 20, 2010 6:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

after living here for a few years it has come to the point where if the option of chairs isnt availabe i take a pass on the place. Sitting on the floor is such a terrible idea. Your feet/legs almost always fall asleep. You are hunched awkwardly over the table which is never close enough to you. And if that weren't bad wnough you almost always end up with gochu jang landing somewhere on your clothes.
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Steelrails



Joined: 12 Mar 2009
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PostPosted: Wed Jan 20, 2010 6:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you are unable to sit on the floor without pain it is a sign that you need more exercise and stretching.

Unless you have pins in your knees or something.

I hate sitting on the floor, but I know that that discomfort is because of my lack of exercise. Also the best restaurants have floor seating. Gotta suck it up.
I always go for a wall seat though.

I really like the style I've seen at some restaurants where it feels like floor seating but your legs go into the ground. Best of both worlds.
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thegadfly



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PostPosted: Wed Jan 20, 2010 7:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sitting with your legs straight out in front of you after the meal is pretty common, even among Koreans (the Korean men in the group would usually do so). Sitting "side-saddle," with both knees to one side, both feet to the other, and sitting more on one side's hip/butt is something I see Korean women do (I can't do it -- dunno if it is a male thing, or a thing women with skirts do at sit-on-the-floor restaurants.

Personally, I have never had a problem with it -- I can out-sit (cross-legged) the Koreans I am with -- they start whacking their legs with fists long before I get sore...but I can't sit with my legs straight out in front of me.

Back to the wall is a good idea, and even better if you can get a wall that makes a right angle to the table -- you can turn sort of sideways, put your legs out, and lean back... unless it is very cramped space.
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jiberish



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PostPosted: Wed Jan 20, 2010 7:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

My wife and her family laugh at the lack of leg flexibility I have Sad
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beercanman



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PostPosted: Wed Jan 20, 2010 9:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Stand up and stretch every 10 mins or so.
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redaxe



Joined: 01 Dec 2008

PostPosted: Wed Jan 20, 2010 9:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

beercanman wrote:
Stand up and stretch every 10 mins or so.


So, during a two-hour business dinner (ugh) I should stand up and stretch 10~12 times? Confused
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Stalin84



Joined: 30 Dec 2009
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PostPosted: Wed Jan 20, 2010 9:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't mind it if I get a wall seat. My co-teachers know this yet they still insist on having me sit on the outside (the inside aisle against the wall is given to the women). *Sigh*

My legs fall asleep and I have to constantly shift them around.
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proustme



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PostPosted: Wed Jan 20, 2010 9:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

True.
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beercanman



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PostPosted: Wed Jan 20, 2010 10:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

redaxe wrote:
beercanman wrote:
Stand up and stretch every 10 mins or so.


So, during a two-hour business dinner (ugh) I should stand up and stretch 10~12 times? Confused


Maybe not so often then. Maybe every 20 mins? Depends on comfort. Probably make a trip or two to the toilet anyway.
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redaxe



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PostPosted: Wed Jan 20, 2010 10:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Stalin84 wrote:
I don't mind it if I get a wall seat. My co-teachers know this yet they still insist on having me sit on the outside (the inside aisle against the wall is given to the women). *Sigh*

My legs fall asleep and I have to constantly shift them around.


If you want a "women's seat" the most surefire way to get one is to tell them "I can't drink any alcohol tonight."
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hellofaniceguy



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PostPosted: Wed Jan 20, 2010 10:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

redaxe wrote:
hellofaniceguy wrote:
How I deal with this problem is very very simple; I don't sit on the floor to eat. When I go out with koreans for dinner, I let it be known beforehand that I don't sit on the floor. Table and chair. Never ever had a problem...and I eat out more than often with koreans.


The OP did say he doesn't plan on being antisocial. Refusing to sit on the floor arguably qualifies as antisocial behavior in Korea.

I tell my friends I don't want to sit on the floor, and that's fine because they usually don't want to either, or don't care, and we all go eat somewhere everyone wants to eat.

But when it comes to eating with coworkers, we always eat wherever the boss wants to eat, period. So I have two options: sit on the floor or make an excuse not to go. I usually suck it up and just sit on the floor (and listen to them constantly asking me if I'm uncomfortable Rolling Eyes ).


It has absolutely nothig to do with being antisocial! I have lived in this country to know that! Many koreans also would rather sit at a table. It has to do with enjoying my meal! I'm chillin' at the table, enjoying the food and company and not being uncomfortable sitting on the floor. It's whatever works for you and the people you are with.
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wawawawonder



Joined: 30 Mar 2008

PostPosted: Thu Jan 21, 2010 4:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks for any and all tips, people.

Whoever said it comes down to being in shape or out of shape is probably right. If I can't do it without a lot of pain, it is probably a sign I'm not as flexible as I should be.

Someone wondered what the problem is. I don't know- maybe you're not quite as big as I am. I'm 6' 5" and big. Of course Korean women find it easier to get their six-inch-shorter and half-as-thick pins under the table without discomfort. The truth is there's not really much I can do about that.

Actually, maybe there is! Eureka! I'm gonna take four equal-sized books with me every time and place one under each leg. Brilliant.
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PatrickGHBusan



Joined: 24 Jun 2008
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 21, 2010 5:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sit next to the wall or near the tables end so you can stretch out your legs.

Or do the hellofaniceguy routine and DEMAND restaurants that offer chairs only.

Whatever works for you.

Personally, I got used to sitting on the floor to eat. Flexibility is something that can be developed and there are ways to sit to alleviate the disconfort.

Also, some of the better joints are places where you sit on the floor. In Busan anyway.
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