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Japanese women idolise murderer of esl teacher
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rocket_scientist



Joined: 23 Nov 2009
Location: Prague

PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 11:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Things arent as they seem

Erin Pizzey, the founder of an early women's shelter in Chiswick, London, has expressed her dismay at how domestic abuse has become a gender-political football, and expressed an unpopular view in her book Prone to Violence that roughly two-thirds of women in the refuge system had a predisposition to seek abusive relationships, and to inflict violence. Pizzey also expressed the view that domestic violence can occur against any vulnerable intimates, regardless of their gender.

Beating your partner makes you exciting, this turns chicks on
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aboxofchocolates



Joined: 21 Mar 2008
Location: on your mind

PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 11:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

None of the traditional outrage that comes from a standard crazy- I pronounce you troll.
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rocket_scientist



Joined: 23 Nov 2009
Location: Prague

PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 11:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Not a troll just have an issue

I wanted to date girl named betsy in my apartment bldg

I asked 3 times on simple dates like coffee dinner at the local cafe and gdead concert

The response No No No and no means no

Bye betsy

betsy s car broke down

betsy could not get to work

besty lost her job

besty could not make rent

i saw betsy on the prostitute corner at 2 Am the day before rent day

she looked at me and said no again but in a different way

I guess she didnt want to give me head for fifty dollars

I dont think I was exciting enough for betsy, I had a job, a degree no tattoos, no dUIs and I wore glasses

I bet it was pretty exciting unzipping pants that night in a mercedes perhaps or even a porshe if she got real lucky

grateful dead music isnt very exciting I suppose
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young_clinton



Joined: 09 Sep 2009

PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 12:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

itaewonguy wrote:
well, nothing new really...
billy the kid, Buffalo Bill, Butch Cassidy, Jesse James and who knows how many other famous people from the last century!
all had movies written about them and as kids we play cowboys and indians and usually someone in the group is the kid..


I don't think Buffalo Bill was bad. Billy the Kid probably was no worse than his adversaries
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NovaKart



Joined: 18 Nov 2009
Location: Iraq

PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 1:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

All the women I've known who were in abusive relationships had substance abuse problems. It's the main reason they stay. I suppose a lot of others just get used to their life and stay out of some sense of inertia.
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PaperTiger



Joined: 31 May 2005
Location: Ulaanbataar

PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 3:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wow, Japanese people are batshlt insane....

THAT'S TOTALLY NEW INFORMATION.
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The Gipkik



Joined: 30 Mar 2009

PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 5:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I can understand a significant minority of women being attracted to dangerous men, criminals and gangsters, but to be attracted to a man who not only murdered someone, but specifically murdered a woman and raped her indicates something quite unique. There is a special fantasy world that is an integral part of Japanese culture: rape, bondage, sexual fetishes, torture and humiliation are key features and quite common in the nations manga and other media. These women may fantasize about this murderer, and some would act on this fantasy, but I think it's also safe to say that for many of these women, fantasy is all they would want it to be.
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nautilus



Joined: 26 Nov 2005
Location: Je jump, Tu jump, oui jump!

PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 6:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

NovaKart wrote:
Women acting stupid like this shouldn't reflect on all women any more than serial killers and rapists should reflect on all men.


But very few men become serial killers (one in 20 million??).
On the other hand, thousands of women throw their panties at rapists and serial killers.Or seek out abusive relationships and stay in them.Its not only a japanese phenomena. Ted Bundy had to have extra mail vans laid on to deliver his sacklooads of gushing love letters from adoring women.
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aboxofchocolates



Joined: 21 Mar 2008
Location: on your mind

PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 6:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

nautilus wrote:
NovaKart wrote:
Women acting stupid like this shouldn't reflect on all women any more than serial killers and rapists should reflect on all men.


But very few men become serial killers (one in 20 million??).
On the other hand, thousands of women throw their panties at rapists and serial killers.Or seek out abusive relationships and stay in them.Its not only a japanese phenomena. Ted Bundy had to have extra mail vans laid on to deliver his sacklooads of gushing love letters from adoring women.


Well, if being a moron were a criminal offense, you'd probably see a lot fewer of them.

What about the guys who love serial killers (and there are so many). What is it about women idiots that ticks you off more than men idiots?
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Patong Dong



Joined: 06 May 2003
Location: On Nut

PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 8:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

As has been mentioned this is not a Japanese fetish. It's common world wide. I can particularly remember the female fans following Paul Bernardo's trial. This is about women with low self-esteem and the mind-set like the Octomom. Fame is a right. So they seek out guys who they feel would never reject them, and they choose serial killers because of the notoriety they bring. The news shows love putting those half-wits on tv as they try to justify their love. The guy is just a vehicle. Some people confuse exposure with fame. They probably don't realise that they are mocked because outside of writing love letters and collecting welfare, they are too busy trying to keep up with all the reality tv programming that's out there.
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NovaKart



Joined: 18 Nov 2009
Location: Iraq

PostPosted: Wed Feb 03, 2010 12:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There are actually some men who do this too. Susan Atkins (one of the Manson girls) got married and I also have a friend whose boyfriend fell in love with a woman on death row who had killed her children.

I can kind of understanding feeling an attraction for someone like that especially if you're someone who feels isolated and misunderstood. But if you get to the point where you joining a fanclub it's pretty pathetic.
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calicoe



Joined: 23 Dec 2008
Location: South Korea

PostPosted: Wed Feb 03, 2010 8:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

aboxofchocolates wrote:
rocket_scientist wrote:
I had a buddy that worked at a womens shelter and I would visit him

It turns out women are really excited by being beaten it gives them purpose and it makes them feel important

the beatings are always forgiven

the relationships are never broken

women are really whacked


Hmm, crazy or troll, crazy or troll.... So hard to tell!!


Uhm, no, uh, rocket scientist!
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NovaKart



Joined: 18 Nov 2009
Location: Iraq

PostPosted: Wed Feb 03, 2010 2:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Latest Family Guy, Meg's having a relationship with someone in prison.
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aboxofchocolates



Joined: 21 Mar 2008
Location: on your mind

PostPosted: Wed Feb 03, 2010 3:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

NovaKart wrote:
Latest Family Guy, Meg's having a relationship with someone in prison.


Ah, family guy, my window into what the douches of the world are thinking.
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kabrams



Joined: 15 Mar 2008
Location: your Dad's house

PostPosted: Wed Feb 03, 2010 10:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

rocket_scientist wrote:
female behavior like this justifies misogyny and really blows the maturity credibility women have collected over the years it makes women look as stupid as Archie Bunker says they are


It doesn't take a rocket scientist!
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