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Pressure (scare tactics?) from recruiters to take a position
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some waygug-in



Joined: 25 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Thu Apr 08, 2004 1:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hmm, I must have missed something . Embarassed Sorry.

What I mean is this: I think it's perfectly cool for new teachers to ask for phone numbers or private email addresses of present or past teachers.

If the school is decent, they will ask the teachers before they give them out. If not, well then I can see why you would be upset, but why at the new teacher? Should you not be upset with the school?

It's a huge risk coming to a foreign country for the first time, even the second or third time. The more you can find out beforehand, the better off you will be.

It's a common trick for recruiters to try and get (especially newbies) to sign a contract without even having time to read it. That's why there are so many complaints on this board, or at least one of the many reasons. Shocked
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Lou3511



Joined: 01 Mar 2004
Location: Annandale, VA

PostPosted: Thu Apr 08, 2004 12:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i'll definitely agree that you cannot compare working to wal-mart to working at a foreign school - with wal-mart, you know what you're getting. and if you don't, you can go to the store and have a look. people don't come overseas simply to work in wal-mart. they may come over here first and then decide to work at wal-mart, but they're already here by that time and can take care of things themselves.

however, with foreign schools (especially in korea, with all of the deceiving that seems to go on - making it hard to get a straight or trust-worthy answer from a recruiter), most of the time you have no clue as to what exactly you're getting into. speaking to another teacher there is the best you can do (or as close as you're gonna get) to get an honest answer as to the situations there.
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FUBAR



Joined: 21 Oct 2003
Location: The Y.C.

PostPosted: Thu Apr 08, 2004 1:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Gord wrote:
Hope wrote:
Which recruiter would not give you the names and numbers of the native teachers at the institute?


As was mentioned before by myself, when applying for a job at Wal-Mart would you ask for the personal phone number of one of the cashiers? Of course not.

And if a school I was working at started handing out my phone number to anyone who called, I would be quite displeased because I value my privacy.


You keep using this analogy. Care to discuss how you view these situations as the same?
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Gord



Joined: 25 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Thu Apr 08, 2004 4:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

FUBAR wrote:
You keep using this analogy. Care to discuss how you view these situations as the same?


They are the same in that it's unreasonable to request the private contact information of a worker. Asking for the private contact information of someone working here is the same as asking for the private contact information someone working at Wal-Mart. I chose Wal-Mart to drive the point home that it's unreasonable because there is a Wal-Mart near everyone.

A lot of people get jobs back home that require them to move away from home. When I worked from IBM, my second day on the job I was a thousand kilometers from home. By end of the second month, I was two thousand kilometers away. Just because I was going to be 2000km away means that I can now magically ask for the private contact information of other workers? Of course not.

However, I am NOT saying they are off limits to talking to. Rather, if a person wants to talk to a person already teaching there, then they can try and talk to them when they are are work.
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some waygug-in



Joined: 25 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Thu Apr 08, 2004 5:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

A lot of people get jobs back home that require them to move away from home. When I worked from IBM, my second day on the job I was a thousand kilometers from home. By end of the second month, I was two thousand kilometers away. Just because I was going to be 2000km away means that I can now magically ask for the private contact information of other workers? Of course not.

However, I am NOT saying they are off limits to talking to. Rather, if a person wants to talk to a person already teaching there, then they can try and talk to them when they are are work.


True they can talk to them at work, sometimes. But the only way you
can be sure that they aren't being pressured by the boss is to talk to them
privately away from work.

A thousand Km from home is still a hell of a lot closer than coming to Korea, where the present or previous teacher may be the ONLY person who is able to comprehend your questions.... let alone give adequate answers to them.

If you don't like being contacted privately, that's your business I suppose.
But why do you insist that everyone follow your personal beliefs?
Many of us are quite happy to be contacted privately away from work.

Are you working as a recruiter? Confused
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Gord



Joined: 25 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Thu Apr 08, 2004 5:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

some waygug-in wrote:
True they can talk to them at work, sometimes. But the only way you can be sure that they aren't being pressured by the boss is to talk to them privately away from work.


We've also seen threads where people were lied to by the person working there because they wanted to get a new teacher to replace them so they could work elsewhere.

Just say it: You believe that your belief that talking to a teacher at home is more important than their right to privacy.

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A thousand Km from home is still a hell of a lot closer than coming to Korea, where the present or previous teacher may be the ONLY person who is able to comprehend your questions.... let alone give adequate answers to them.


Perhaps you are unaware of the high costs of air travel in Canada. It's cheaper to fly to Korea and back from Canada than it would be to fly up North were I was working. I suppose I could have asked a friend of mine to drive 40 hours to come pick me up and hope he doesn't hit snow on the way, but that's not really an option.

So while it's closer, it still falls under the "had to move, costs a lot" like Korea.

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If you don't like being contacted privately, that's your business I suppose. But why do you insist that everyone follow your personal beliefs? Many of us are quite happy to be contacted privately away from work.


Great. Volunteer and post your private information in this thread. Then everyone can phone you to talk about your school.

Why am I insisting people follow my person beliefs? I do that because it makes sense. Why are you insisting that everyone follow your personal beliefs and that it's ok to violate people's privacy without consent simply because someone "wants the real story"? At least my beliefs make sense and generally is in line with what people should believe instead of your belief that your false sense of security is more important than someone else's free time and privacy.

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Are you working as a recruiter? Confused


When you get a hundred people a day phoning you up and asking if you are really you, then asking where a certain door is, you suddenly will have a new respect of privacy.
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some waygug-in



Joined: 25 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Thu Apr 08, 2004 7:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

OK, All right, I get your point. I wouldn't like 100 calls a day either. Shocked
Embarassed I'm sorry if I angered you.

But I sure don't mind answering a few emails. Cool

and if the teacher wants to talk to me privately, they can ask me through email. Cool
Teachers can and do lie sometimes.
That's why contacting teachers who have finished their contracts and no longer work for a school are the best source.

I agree with you that a move in Canada can be more expensive, I've done it enough times to know. Confused

The big difference is that coming to Korea involves moving to a place where few people speak your language - hence the job opportunity.

This fact alone is probably the most difficult thing for a new teacher.

Suddenly, they can't communicate effectively on even simple issues or concerns.


It also means surrendering a lot of your rights as a citizen of Canada, something that you don't have to worry about back home.

It is a far scarier thing to come to Korea, than to move across Canada.
At least in Canada you know you will still be able to talk to people, unless of course you were moving to Quebec.

The other factor is the 1 year contract. In Canada, if a job sucks I can quit any time I want to with little or no reprocussions.

Not so in Korea.
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hadeshorn



Joined: 30 Jul 2003

PostPosted: Thu Apr 08, 2004 8:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Jesus tap dancing christ Gord.

Ok you have all your self righteous crap. Oh nooo my privacy is all too important.

I am not thinking they are DEMANDING phone numbers from the school. Im sure the majority that gets handed out anyway is emails. Who cares if someone has your email address to ask a question?

So Gord to protect your precious privacy. Ask your school not to give out your phone number or just tell them you are not interested in talking to any prospective teachers. However that might not go down well as I am sure your director values your judge in character that you have mentioned so many times in the past.

But I find that the talking to teachers already at a potential school is a must. Also talking to teachers at the school isnt always reliable as the walls have ears.

But yes you always make a good point with people lying to get you over here to fulfill a vacancy that they are creating. However there is a better chance of avoiding a bad school by getting a heads up instead of coming over without talking to them and landing in a bad school.
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stejskalova



Joined: 07 Apr 2004
Location: daegu south korea

PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2004 8:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

So anyways....
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Gord



Joined: 25 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2004 8:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

hadeshorn wrote:
Jesus tap dancing christ Gord.

Ok you have all your self righteous crap. Oh nooo my privacy is all too important.


Why are you playing two sides of the same coin? You mock me for wanting privacy, yet you hide behind an alias and refuse to provide any contact information. Obviously, you value your privacy as demonstrated by your actions despite your claims to the contrary.

And we all agree that privacy is of paramount importance back home. And I already provided an example of where I worked at IBM and was shipped up north where it would cost more to get home than from Korea.

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I am not thinking they are DEMANDING phone numbers from the school. Im sure the majority that gets handed out anyway is emails. Who cares if someone has your email address to ask a question?


So ask for a company email address and they can answer it on company time. I've never played the "can't talk to the teachers" card, but rather that people don't request their personal contact information from the school.

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So Gord to protect your precious privacy. Ask your school not to give out your phone number or just tell them you are not interested in talking to any prospective teachers. However that might not go down well as I am sure your director values your judge in character that you have mentioned so many times in the past.


I have. I politely have said that I'm just not going to do that, but I will speak to them if they call the workplace when I'm there.

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But I find that the talking to teachers already at a potential school is a must. Also talking to teachers at the school isnt always reliable as the walls have ears.


Then do it with consent by asking the person if they can contact them later.

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But yes you always make a good point with people lying to get you over here to fulfill a vacancy that they are creating. However there is a better chance of avoiding a bad school by getting a heads up instead of coming over without talking to them and landing in a bad school.


But to get this better chance, but it basically comes down to phoning an employee at home. Like I've said before, it's phoning the WalMart shelving girl at home. There is no difference between working in Korea and any other job back home that requires a relocation.
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darrenn



Joined: 07 Apr 2004

PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2004 10:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Seriously Gord, can you not tell the difference between your posts and the other posts here? Most everyone has agreed to some of your points
and generally been quite cordial. Cut out the negativity, everyone is (presumably) on the same side here.

Can it not be stated definitively here?: Gord, you do not like your information given to other people. Other people don't mind being contacted. Case closed.

Now back to the questions the original post had stated. of which I am also interested, as a "newbie" planning to head over to Seoul in May.

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Should I contact the school and send a copy of this ridiculous email?

I hope this isn��t the norm. Any help or resources that aren��t as slimy as recruiters would be great, thanks!

Jammed Newbie

P.S. What is with this new idea of making teachers pay back a recruiters fee��s if they don��t fulfill at least 6 months of a year long contract? In a previous contract we looked at, I had the school remove it, and they did, but rather hesitantly. Annoying, and in my opinion, not the responsibility of the teacher.
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just because



Joined: 01 Aug 2003
Location: Changwon - 4964

PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2004 4:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

As I stated in another post i was dealing with BOB recruiting last month.

She offered a completely mismatched position and said I should not complain and take it as i am lucky to be offered a position and should not let her down

I turned it around and told her you are working for me so when I say it isn't suitable you should find something else or I won't deal with you at all

She changed her tune very quickly to a much more apologetic one.
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some waygug-in



Joined: 25 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2004 6:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Good answer! Cool If more teachers would do that, there would be a lot less problems dealing with recruiters.

The argument that if we don't accept a bad contract, some schmo will come and take the job away from us is just plain stupid.

If some bonehead wants to come along and accept all kinds of ridiculous
conditions just to get a job, that's his problem. Let him have it. Laughing

He's going to be the one in a month's time complaining about "exploitation" and stupidity in the workplace, not me.
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mishlert



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2004 6:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The recruiter's worst nightmare is that a teacher will go back to the school, cut a deal with the owner, and leave him out in the cold with no fee.
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chronicpride



Joined: 16 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2004 7:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

darrenn wrote:
Seriously Gord, can you not tell the difference between your posts and the other posts here? Most everyone has agreed to some of your points
and generally been quite cordial. Cut out the negativity, everyone is (presumably) on the same side here.


Huh?

Sorry, I've been following this thread and I don't carry any strong enough opinions on the topic to contribute to it, but I don't get this one.

Beyond carrying a different viewpoint and being disagreeable to some other's opinions, I don't see him not being cordial.

Don't confuse being disagreeable as being negative and hostile.

Check out some other threads and compare it to this one, if you're sensitive to disagreeing discussions. Like the 'teaching privates' or 'working without a degree' threads. Or the regular 'Who is better, K-girls or Western girls' topics.
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