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[Sector7G]

[tanklor1]

I certainly wouldn't call it intoxicating. I'd call it a sickness that I's don't needs right now.

LOL

[Underwaterbob]

[madoka]

[tanklor1]

[nukeday]

It's a tough spot, I've been it in a few times. Wait for next week to see if she calls, but of course a couple of casual texts here and there before then will do no harm (and keep you on her mind).

Just remember that for all the fussing you're doing now, once (if) you get her, you'll regret it soon. It's always the case.

If all else fails, just go all out like a Korean guy and text her 20 times a day, asking her out constantly. Nothing to lose, right? And it sometimes works.

[imoscardotcom]

IMO (and I'm a girl) she isn't that into you. Unrequited love sucks, doesn't it? I hate to be vulgar but....the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.

[tanklor1]

[Globutron]

[madoka]

[Bloopity Bloop]

Be careful about mixing up liking someone with infatuation. I messed those 2 up recently and still feel pretty s***** about it. Lost my cool. Ruined all future chances, lol.

I felt the same way--like I HAD to do something about it. Just takes more time in these situations where you're obviously the one with a lot more feelings about the other.

You couldn't possible like this person that much after meeting for such a brief time, but you could certainly be INFATUATED. Big difference.

[recessiontime]

when i like a girl i play a devious trick on her. Instead of saying stupid stuff like i love you or i like you I do sort of the opposite. I ask her "why do you like me so much?" basically I implant the idea that she's into me more than she is to make it seem like she is pursuing me instead.

If I hold hands with her I say "it's too early to hold hands" or accuse her of trying to get into my pants and that I need to be wined and dined before that. Basically you want to reframe or interpret every situation so that it seems like you are the prize. I can just keep running with this and say stuff like "did you want to kiss me? because you have this look on your face that you really want to" This is what is referred to as 'game'. It's really powerful stuff. I've made girls that only saw me as a friend into lovers just by doing this.

Oh, and the girls reading this. Please don't hate the playa, hate the game.

[tanklor1]

[recessiontime]

actually yeah it does sound like that, which is why it is so funny. Not only is it funny and not serious, it's sub-communicates to the woman the idea that I'm higher value than her. Girls want to date guys that are equal or higher value to them.

[tanklor1]