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August is just about here...decisions must be made
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hack



Joined: 24 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sat Jul 30, 2011 11:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Zackback wrote:
Ok thanks for your advice hack. Just really hard to let a girl like the one I am with now slip through my fingers.


I know, I know, been there and it's incredibly difficult. I had a gf when I left Korea and thought hard about bringing her back to Canada but knew that sooner or later it wasn't going to work and then what was I going to do? At least she could have made her own way in Vancouver since there are so many Koreans here and she was fluent in English but I still decided against it. I actually had to tell her I was coming back to get her because of all the drama. I missed her for about a month ie until I found another here. We still stay in touch and while it took her a little while to accept it, she is married now and very happy she stayed in Korea (along with her family who were never too excited about their daughter being with a foreigner.)

But you are leaving the country and taking someone from a country you aren't from to a country that's new to both of you and while you'll be busy what is she going to do? She can't work or communicate with the locals. She will become so clingy that you are going to end up hating her, but you'll be responsible for her. If you love her that much then find a way to stay but taking her is a recipe for disaster, Unless there is something seriously wrong with you, you are going to be able to find women quickly in any part of Asia.
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happiness



Joined: 04 Sep 2010

PostPosted: Sat Jul 30, 2011 4:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

why would you take a little girl to a place where there are so many women?

shes young shell get over it. sounds also like shes trying to get away from her responsibilities. you dont want any of that, man
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Konglishman



Joined: 14 Sep 2007
Location: Nanjing

PostPosted: Sat Jul 30, 2011 7:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

rainism wrote:
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No, it's not because of Thai hookers, it's because of regular Thai women.


ever been to Indonesia?

try it once and let me know if you change your mind about which females you prefer more Smile


Actually, I have recently concluded that Laotian women are probably the best. Hahaha. But seriously, I was even told that by some Thai people when I mentioned that I was going to Laos.

Actually, in many respects, Laotian society seems to be the way Thailand was long ago. Really, despite the appearance of tourism, Laos feels like a forgotten paradise.
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