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waterfall678
Joined: 16 Sep 2011
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 Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2011 5:51 pm Post subject: none |
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| Some blogs are helpful or thought provoking, like The Grand Narrative, but there have also been tumblr meetups between bloggers. But, it looks like I won't be meeting any bloggers any time soon. I just thought it would be another option for meeting other expats. |
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sojuncoke
Joined: 04 Dec 2011
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| Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2011 2:17 am Post subject: |
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| what tags do you search for to find these blogs you guys are talking about? |
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You
Joined: 31 May 2009
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| Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2011 1:59 pm Post subject: |
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I'm totally with you OP, I never was able to make any deep friendships with the girls I met in Korea because I'm not into casual sex (or even making out casually) or partying every night. There are some girls out there though like us. Keep in mind, like they do in real life; the other chicks make the most noise.
One thing I did notice was the uglier the girl; the harder they partied/drank/slept around. Emphasis on the slept around part. I was always thinking like "What the...who would sleep with that chick?"
Also, my tumblr has the dirtiest name, but the content is so kosher, I wonder if you've come across it  |
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waterfall678
Joined: 16 Sep 2011
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| Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2011 7:27 am Post subject: none |
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About finding blogs-
At the very beginning I would just use a normal google search and the most popular blogs come up. There were news blogs or social commentary blogs (which are good), but the most popular lifestyle blogs written by female expats are the party blogs. On tumblr they all heavily link to each other so I guess it created a bias of sorts. Once I found one blog that was out of that loop, I was able to find others. I didn't really use tags. Since writing this I have found some better tumblr blogs with women who I can relate to better.
About a specific blog: I don't know, if you had a dirty name for your blog I probably just skipped over it, lol. I used to check out a lot of blogs but 9 times out of 10 a dirty name meant dirty content. |
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You
Joined: 31 May 2009
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| Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2011 10:24 am Post subject: |
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Oh poopsicle  Good logic though haha |
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Died By Bear
Joined: 13 Jul 2010
Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee
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| Posted: Sun Dec 25, 2011 2:33 am Post subject: |
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I'm totally with you OP, I never was able to make any deep friendships with the girls I met in Korea because I'm not into casual sex (or even making out casually) or partying every night. There are some girls out there though like us. Keep in mind, like they do in real life; the other chicks make the most noise.
One thing I did notice was the uglier the girl; the harder they partied/drank/slept around. Emphasis on the slept around part. I was always thinking like "What the...who would sleep with that chick?"
Also, my tumblr has the dirtiest name, but the content is so kosher, I wonder if you've come across it |
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Item 1: Do not listen to what women have to say about women. They are not privy to the keen powers of self-introspection, nor are they honest when the mirror paints the picture of womanhood in a less-than-flattering light. Society is afraid of saying what I am, that women have been led to believe they are a noble half of the human race, and more suited to matters of the heart. Fact is, they're just as clueless as you. Next.
Item 2: Women are 95% a product of the relationship (or lack thereof) between them and their fathers. Men are made by their mothers, women by their dads. If daddy beat them, left them, or otherwise was a dirtbag, you had better believe they will not have healthy impulses, and chaos will follow them throughout their life. This is an absolute, so trust me when I say, if they don't have a healthy relationship with pops, they're not having one with you either, so run. Yes, they're going to be fun in the sackeroo, but trust me....run. That other 5% of their nature comes from lucky genetics. You ain't fixing a broken girl, so just run.
Item 3: To attract women, you need but one thing....to be in charge. Not necessarily of the world, or the building you work in, but in charge of your surroundings. You need to be in charge of whatever setting you and the womenz will be in. In any pack of animals, the females obey the alpha. You must be, no matter what the situation, the "guy". You might need to be the funny guy, or the cool guy, or the host, or the entertainer, or even the "taken" one, but you had better be the center of attention that day. To be this thing, you need some confidence, and you need some sort of talent that will put you in the alpha spot - no matter if that's at the library or at the night club. Women do not fawn at the slowest, weakest gazelle. They look at what's running out front, and follow. Get your life in order.
Item 4: Women, real women, do not want a boy. They want a man, so be one. Don�t get tribal tats, spinners for your ghey car, the latest trendy clothes or skin care products. These are the tools of vain boys, and a woman does not want these things from you even if she acts like she does. You may get some dates, you may get laid, you may even get married by being a boy.....but bet your ass that your woman will dream of a man (which is not you).
Item 5: Women, contrary to legend, do not want sex that often...especially once the relationship cools off (normalizes). If they do crave the weenie all the time, they are messed up (see item #1). Women do not have testosterone pumping through their organs, and will not crave sex, at least not like you think they do. Get used to it, deal with it, and make your peace with the fact that a normal woman wants sex about 1/10th as much as you. Sadly, the sexaholic OCD women are usually reliving some sort of childhood trauma, and sex gives them control over their neuroses about that past. See, women have sex for very different reasons than we do. They have it to feel sexy, to feel loved, to feel wanted and even to feel in charge....but they don't have that physical drive like us. We, by contrast, have sex to purge the evil venom from our parts, and that's about the extent of it.
Item 6: There is nothing a woman can sniff out like desperation. If you have even one tiny cell of creepy in you, she'll smell it all over you like a possum carcus in the sun. One of the lessons of adulthood is RELAX. Do it, for all our sakes. Don't chase women, for there is no need. Be a man, be yourself, have a good time and get your life in order and the women will forever come to you. Believe this fellas.....nothing could be more true.
Item 7: Women, contrary to another urban legend, are dirtbags too. They will have you convinced, if you talk to them enough, that they are the masters of reason and emotion. Baloney fellas. They can be contriving, maniacal masters of chaos and work feverishly against their own happiness sometimes. Nothing will disturb some women so deeply to her core as true contentment. Some women shudder at the thought of a placid, pleasing life. It's a very rare thing, a woman at peace and comfortable with herself....so when you find one, say "I do" and keep her away from other women. Wanna see proof of this? Work along side alot of women. When one finds happiness, the others go about dismantling hers with ant-like industry. Nothing on earth is quite so destructive as women screwing with a happy one. It's a pretty safe bet that if your lady friends hang out with other girls, they will try (even unwittingly), to mess you up. Sorry girls, you know this one is true.
Item 8: Get to know your prospective in-laws....even if you have no idea you're going to marry the girl you're dating. If you don't love them like they're your own parents, RUN. Seriously, it's that simple. Run. Look at their relationship - her mother and father's. Look at it hard, because that's you in 25 years....or some variation of it.
Item 9: A woman's beauty is her worst enemy, and her only true servant. Be very afraid of a woman who has relied, or counted on her looks to survive or succeed - for when those looks or your attention to them wanes, she will self-destruct before your eyes. You will come home to find her gone with, or on top of your best friend. Again, not to drive a point too fine, but stay away from the 10's. A stripper model does not live to enjoy a 50 year wedding anniversary, and she will not change your diapers when you're old. Believe it or not, that stuff really matters. You, like women, are driven by your nature. If you're always attracted to the worst kind of women, it's not their fault bucko. It's yours....so fight your impulses and go with what's smart not what "feels good".
Item 10: Lastly, I leave you with this. It's a difficult lesson to be a man. It's a painful, self-sacrificing labor and part of the human condition to be a man. You must accept that much of your life and your ties to women rely on your honor and your good nature. Sadly, most of us choose our mates based on nothing more than a tiny dab of sexual experience and a lot of ignorance about human nature. The women you meet, fall in love with, sleep with, and hurt, are all human beings with complex pasts, desires and dreams. Treat each woman, no matter who she is, as if she is your best friend's girl. Give her respect, even if you don't choose to engage her in a meaningful way. Understand that she is a daughter, a sister and someone's baby and if she's not good enough to be kind to, then leave her alone. Your dealings with the chicks will come back to haunt you, and each shitty act will be revisited on you, or your children, or your future women. Trust me here...it really happens. Be a good man, a smart man and an observant man, and women will not be a source of pain in your life. Take my word on it. |
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