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edwardcatflap
Joined: 22 Mar 2009
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Posted: Sat Sep 22, 2012 5:26 pm Post subject: |
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| The best way I can describe it is this place is like a soul sucker. The longer I stay here the less soul I have left. |
It's funny because a lot of people have said exactly the same thing about living in Korea. My advice to Evanzinho and others in the same position would be concentrate on what you want to do, not where you want to be. Get that sorted first and the rest will fall into place. As mogul cowboy pointed out if you've got a good career mapped out and are making good money, living in the States would be just fine. |
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MigukCowboy
Joined: 10 Sep 2012
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Posted: Sat Sep 22, 2012 5:32 pm Post subject: |
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I agree with everything the OP said. Life in the U.S. is dull, boring, expensive, everyone here is angry and in debt. But, the problem I see is, we have to come back here at some point. If we just keep running back to Korea, isn't that just putting off the inevitable?
I got laid off in 2008 when the economy here went *beep* up and so I decided to run off and teach English in Korea. Over three years in Seoul and I'm back in the States. I'd love to go back to Korea because my life (like the OPs ) was much better over there; a full bank account, health insurance, no need for a car, I liked my job. But I've decided to stay here and stick it out. If I left again I'd just be putting my life on hold for another year; I'm already in my early 30s.
Do you guys think about your future in ten to fifteen years? OP, what are your plans? Are you just going to live in Korea forever? |
I did the same thing as you earlier this year. And I am also in my early 30's. I moved back to the USA and said to myself "I'm going to stick it out in the US. I gotta face it at some point. I'm gonna make it work. I'm in my 30's and it's time to settle down at home."
But then the reality of being a wage slave set in. I realized that if I stay here right now. I will probably never achieve financial success. The odds are just stacked too high against me. I realized that I NEED a big chunk of money in order to have a chance in the US.
Now I have a plan. But I don't know how it will work out. My plan is to work in Korea/Asia again for a few years and try to save at least 30K. Then I will have some security, be able to buy a good car, buy a parcel of land, live with a certain degree of freedom. Do it the right way. I think that if I have 30 or 40K, I can get something going for myself.
But, I think that when I go back to Asia this time. I might just get sucked in forever. I might end of marrying a woman there. Might just become a lifer. I can see it happening. I have been burned by the system in the US so many times. I just don't know if i'll want to come back again after i'm gone. So, maybe i'll just take that 30K and start a business in Thailand or Costa Rica?
Remember there is more out there than just the US and Korea. I am actually thinking about trying Japan, Vietnam, looking into Central/South America. But I am heavily leaning towards Korea right now because I need to make big money right now, and as we all know, Korea is the place for that.
I have resigned myself to the idea that I might become a permanent expat. And I am ok with that. I don't feel like I have to return to the US.
I am also considering doing some crazy off-grid living in America. Just living as far removed from the system as possible. But of course, I need that chunk of money to start that up.
There is no good plan for me. I'm just riding the wave of life until it crashes down. |
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edwardcatflap
Joined: 22 Mar 2009
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Posted: Sat Sep 22, 2012 6:00 pm Post subject: |
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| So is it possible to start a business in Thailand or buy a good car and some land for 30k in the US? In the UK 30k wouldn't even get you a good car. Not a new one anyway |
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Konglishman

Joined: 14 Sep 2007 Location: Nanjing
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Posted: Sun Sep 23, 2012 12:08 am Post subject: |
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I just that I would add my own thoughts and experiences to this thread.
After going through a divorce in 2007, I left graduate school with a master's degree. Then, due to a Korean friend who was studying English in the USA, I got the idea to come to Korea... Initially, I worked as an English teacher for several months. However, after that, I taught a subject related to my field of study at an international school and later at a university.
Incidentally, after my first year in Korea, I actually had strongly considered coming back to the US and even had a friend who thought he could get me a high paying job back home, but the financial crisis that began in 2008, largely put such ideas on hold.
Now, it is 2012. Since 2007, I have paid off 20 thousand dollars of debt, have saved up nearly 30 thousand dollars, have lived in Thailand for 5 months, and have traveled to most countries in Southeast Asia not to mention Sri Lanka and Dubai in United Arab Emirates.
You're talking about returning to the USA when you have 30 thousand dollars saved up. Personally, I think that is not enough. 100 thousand dollars would be the number I have in mind when it comes to starting all over again there back in the US. By the way, the interest rates in America are horrible. I am getting a much deal leaving a lot of my money in a KEB savings account.
Actually, I have left Korea as I have found better opportunities in Shanghai. As to whether I will ever return to the USA, I am honestly not sure. Of course, I am considering the idea of going back in possibly a year or two as I wish to earn a PhD in my field of study. On the other hand, the US is not the only place where one can earn a PhD. Maybe, I will do a PhD in Shanghai instead... |
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Poker
Joined: 16 Jan 2010
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Posted: Sun Sep 23, 2012 1:53 am Post subject: |
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| I am curios. When people talk about saving a 'nest egg' or a 'padded' bank account, is that closer to 100k or 30k in most people's minds? I read that people wanted economic freedom and so on. How much would 30-40k last for in the US? Also, how much would that amount last for in SE Asia/Asia? For me when I see people wanting to save an amount that can be called sizeable, its around 100k. Just curios what kind of figure people have in their heads when they make these decisions to work in Korea or China etc. |
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Unposter
Joined: 04 Jun 2006
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Posted: Sun Sep 23, 2012 5:52 am Post subject: |
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Not sure I really have anything much to contribute to this thread but I'll try anyway.
Unless you plan on buying houses in Detroit, I don't think 30K will get you very far in the U.S. I'd say that sum is about equal to a one year transfer period - maybe you could stretch it into two if you have connections and you are thrifty. If you could land a decent job, maybe it would finance more education.
Some people get caught in this trap of they save some money here in Korea lets say 10 - 30K and then eat through it all fairly quickly trying to transition back in their home countries. I think unless you have friends or family who can help you, you are going to need more.
In Thailand, it could last you around three years, which could be a pretty nice vacation! You might be able to start a business with that but it would be unlikely to be one that made much.
100k is certainly more doable both in Thailand and in the U.S. But, I'd say even more would be a big help!!! |
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nautilus

Joined: 26 Nov 2005 Location: Je jump, Tu jump, oui jump!
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Posted: Sun Sep 23, 2012 8:03 am Post subject: Re: The story of an unlikely Korea Veteran |
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| I love Korea and I love Korean people. . |
You do realize that from now on you will not be allowed to complain about anything in Korea? |
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Evanzinho
Joined: 10 Apr 2008 Location: California
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Posted: Sun Sep 23, 2012 9:07 am Post subject: |
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Unless you plan on buying houses in Detroit, I don't think 30K will get you very far in the U.S. |
I didn't want to challenge the OP on his $30k goal, but I agree with you, $30k really isn't much anymore; that's not even a year's average salary here in the States. Once you buy a new car, most of that $30k is gone.
$100k should be the goal to reach, but that means you'll have to spend years in Korea; five at the least, and that's with working overtime and Saturdays, and not taking trips. Seven to eight years is more likely. Then, by the time you come back to the States, your skills have erroded, your network has moved on, etc.
I think I've just accepted the fact that I'm going to be a wage slave for the rest of my life. |
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MigukCowboy
Joined: 10 Sep 2012
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Posted: Sun Sep 23, 2012 4:02 pm Post subject: |
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If I had 30K I could stretch it out pretty far. But yes, it would be very risky and probably not enough money. It would be enough to buy a small piece of land, a car and get started. I know a guy who did it on 15K. He bought an acre and a car and he's out there doing it. Of course you gotta be a hippie and gotta be ready to rough it to do it like that.
Unfortunately, I can't just pull money out of my arse. So I gotta set some kind of modest goals. I am done thinking about the American dream. I just want to have a degree of freedom.
Screw it. Maybe I should just go homeless and get my face all tattooed up and wear a spiked leather jacket everyday. Walk around with a dog on a rope drinking 40s. Is it really worse than running in this rat race? |
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MigukCowboy
Joined: 10 Sep 2012
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Posted: Sun Sep 23, 2012 4:05 pm Post subject: Re: The story of an unlikely Korea Veteran |
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| I love Korea and I love Korean people. . |
You do realize that from now on you will not be allowed to complain about anything in Korea? |
Oh Korea does have it's downsides. We all know what these downsides are. Korean people can often be neurotic and high strung. And there is the pollution, over-crowding, etc. etc.
Every place has downsides though. And the downsides in Korea are more minor than other places in my opinion.
The downsides in Korea are just annoyances, the downsides in lots of other places can totally ruin your life. |
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newb
Joined: 27 Aug 2012 Location: Korea
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Posted: Sun Sep 23, 2012 4:39 pm Post subject: |
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| You're talking about returning to the USA when you have 30 thousand dollars saved up. Personally, I think that is not enough. 100 thousand dollars would be the number I have in mind when it comes to starting all over again there back in the US. By the way, the interest rates in America are horrible. I am getting a much deal leaving a lot of my money in a KEB savings account. |
Agreed. I reached my 100K within a three year period. I worked my arse off and saved. I'm nearing my 200K goal on my 5th year and now I don't have to burst my arse or try very hard to save any more. Once you reach 100K (seed money) and gain some tricks and experience, money just rolls in without much effort.
I put away some of my money in one of the SE Asian country where I plan to retire and the interest rate is currently +10%. Of course, there's some risk in that, but you won't get very far without taking some risks. It's better than leaving your money to stagnate and lose it's value with inflation in the US bank. |
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Modernist
Joined: 23 Mar 2011 Location: The 90s
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Posted: Sun Sep 23, 2012 7:13 pm Post subject: |
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This thread is pretty damn funny. All of you. And you wonder why I call out ESL teaching as a loser, chump job? OK, go back and read this thread one more time.
Have any of you ever considered, and I know this will come as a shock, actually getting educated and trained in a technical skill or profession, which would thereby allow you to find a decent-paying job back home and get off the 'wage slave'/permanent expat treadmill?
I mean, seriously. Buy land? Buy a new car? Travel the world? THIS is what you'd piss away any Korean savings doing? And you wonder why you can't get out of here? Unless you plan to join the lucrative world of ranching or farming, land is an anchor. As an investment it's fit only for millionaires or fools. Are you so blind you didn't see all the people whose investments in real property were completely wiped out during the crisis? How would you feel if you paid 200K cash for a nice house in a new neighborhood and then all your neighbors defaulted on their mortgages and your investment is now worth 40K? I saw that happen. It can happen anywhere, to farmland, to development sites, to downtown condos, to freaking harbor slips for boats. Anything.
Cars are even more foolish. Half the book value on a new car is gone the minute you sign the papers. The best case is actually living in a place with quality public transit [yes, I know this cuts back the choices but they are out there]. If you need to buy one get a quality model [say, an Elantra] pre-owned 2 years. Cuts the costs but still new enough so you DON'T have to pour more cash into fixing it regularly like a fool.
Traveling is fine, I do it myself. But have some self-control. 18 countries? Months with a backpack? Why do that? Don't be stupid. You can take a few weeks and still 'open your soul' or 'face your demons' or whatever mushy BS you are trying to pull off.
The reason you people can't get a decent job is because, by and large, you haven't been trained to DO anything of value in the modern American economy [excepting a few like cheezsteakwit or konglishman]. It IS tough. I am COMPLETELY aware of the challenge. But you've got to TRY if you want to make it. Don't come back and just burn off all your savings in some orgy of XBox and booze. Live in a cheaper area, get a marginal job, and spend the bulk of your time in training or education related to a PROPER job! That's how you'll get out of this.
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| I will just say the it is full of hypocracy, inequality, violence and people who hate their lives. |
Huh, take out the violence part, add something about ugliness, insularity and lousy food, and this sounds an awful lot like Korea to me. |
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Zackback
Joined: 05 Nov 2010 Location: Kyungbuk
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Posted: Sun Sep 23, 2012 7:24 pm Post subject: |
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Modernist,
It's too late for all that stuff..ya know getting new skills etc. Plus the fact it is expensive.
Economy back home isn't any good anyway so being in Korea is a really wise move on this guys part. |
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hiamnotcool
Joined: 06 Feb 2012
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Posted: Sun Sep 23, 2012 7:34 pm Post subject: |
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This thread is pretty damn funny. All of you. And you wonder why I call out ESL teaching as a loser, chump job? OK, go back and read this thread one more time.
Have any of you ever considered, and I know this will come as a shock, actually getting educated and trained in a technical skill or profession, which would thereby allow you to find a decent-paying job back home and get off the 'wage slave'/permanent expat treadmill?
I mean, seriously. Buy land? Buy a new car? Travel the world? THIS is what you'd piss away any Korean savings doing? And you wonder why you can't get out of here? Unless you plan to join the lucrative world of ranching or farming, land is an anchor. As an investment it's fit only for millionaires or fools. Are you so blind you didn't see all the people whose investments in real property were completely wiped out during the crisis? How would you feel if you paid 200K cash for a nice house in a new neighborhood and then all your neighbors defaulted on their mortgages and your investment is now worth 40K? I saw that happen. It can happen anywhere, to farmland, to development sites, to downtown condos, to freaking harbor slips for boats. Anything.
Cars are even more foolish. Half the book value on a new car is gone the minute you sign the papers. The best case is actually living in a place with quality public transit [yes, I know this cuts back the choices but they are out there]. If you need to buy one get a quality model [say, an Elantra] pre-owned 2 years. Cuts the costs but still new enough so you DON'T have to pour more cash into fixing it regularly like a fool.
Traveling is fine, I do it myself. But have some self-control. 18 countries? Months with a backpack? Why do that? Don't be stupid. You can take a few weeks and still 'open your soul' or 'face your demons' or whatever mushy BS you are trying to pull off.
The reason you people can't get a decent job is because, by and large, you haven't been trained to DO anything of value in the modern American economy [excepting a few like cheezsteakwit or konglishman]. It IS tough. I am COMPLETELY aware of the challenge. But you've got to TRY if you want to make it. Don't come back and just burn off all your savings in some orgy of XBox and booze. Live in a cheaper area, get a marginal job, and spend the bulk of your time in training or education related to a PROPER job! That's how you'll get out of this.
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| I will just say the it is full of hypocracy, inequality, violence and people who hate their lives. |
Huh, take out the violence part, add something about ugliness, insularity and lousy food, and this sounds an awful lot like Korea to me. |
I agree with what you say about getting a job, it is difficult but feasible if people are realistic about it. The rest of your post is off though. You need to realize the things that make you happy may not make others happy. You're advice suits you, but some people will spend their lives in regret if they never go backpacking all over the place. That may anger you but it isn't going to change anytime soon. I've met miserable people here who needed to leave, and I've met people who have been here for 5+ years that were having the time of their life. I would tell a person that is enjoying their time here and can see a way to be financially secure for the long term to stay. The key is finding a way to be successful in the long term. The definition of success varies from person to person, just something to think about. I have a good life here but I'm going to leave soon because I can't find my niche, I envy the people that can stay here and make it work. |
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MigukCowboy
Joined: 10 Sep 2012
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Posted: Sun Sep 23, 2012 8:05 pm Post subject: |
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This thread is pretty damn funny. All of you. And you wonder why I call out ESL teaching as a loser, chump job? OK, go back and read this thread one more time.
Have any of you ever considered, and I know this will come as a shock, actually getting educated and trained in a technical skill or profession, which would thereby allow you to find a decent-paying job back home and get off the 'wage slave'/permanent expat treadmill?
I mean, seriously. Buy land? Buy a new car? Travel the world? THIS is what you'd piss away any Korean savings doing? And you wonder why you can't get out of here? Unless you plan to join the lucrative world of ranching or farming, land is an anchor. As an investment it's fit only for millionaires or fools. Are you so blind you didn't see all the people whose investments in real property were completely wiped out during the crisis? How would you feel if you paid 200K cash for a nice house in a new neighborhood and then all your neighbors defaulted on their mortgages and your investment is now worth 40K? I saw that happen. It can happen anywhere, to farmland, to development sites, to downtown condos, to freaking harbor slips for boats. Anything.
Cars are even more foolish. Half the book value on a new car is gone the minute you sign the papers. The best case is actually living in a place with quality public transit [yes, I know this cuts back the choices but they are out there]. If you need to buy one get a quality model [say, an Elantra] pre-owned 2 years. Cuts the costs but still new enough so you DON'T have to pour more cash into fixing it regularly like a fool.
Traveling is fine, I do it myself. But have some self-control. 18 countries? Months with a backpack? Why do that? Don't be stupid. You can take a few weeks and still 'open your soul' or 'face your demons' or whatever mushy BS you are trying to pull off.
The reason you people can't get a decent job is because, by and large, you haven't been trained to DO anything of value in the modern American economy [excepting a few like cheezsteakwit or konglishman]. It IS tough. I am COMPLETELY aware of the challenge. But you've got to TRY if you want to make it. Don't come back and just burn off all your savings in some orgy of XBox and booze. Live in a cheaper area, get a marginal job, and spend the bulk of your time in training or education related to a PROPER job! That's how you'll get out of this.
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| I will just say the it is full of hypocracy, inequality, violence and people who hate their lives. |
Huh, take out the violence part, add something about ugliness, insularity and lousy food, and this sounds an awful lot like Korea to me. |
Frankly. I have degrees in two fields and the jobs in both of these fields pay like shit now. I am done with retraining. Been there, done that, got burned already.
I am currently working as a journalist. Professional job right? This is a "PROPER job" as you call it right? Yeah, but the pay is so low I might as well be working as a McDonalds manager.
That's the problem. Jobs that used to pay high, now pay like crap. Inflation and globalization has taken a toll on the US economy. Even if you are working a good job. Jobs that used to provide 45K salaries with full benefits are now paying 11$ per hour with shit benefits. This is how the fields I work in are.
I don't think that retraining yet again is the answer. For some people it is. But for others, going back to school and taking on more debts and leaving the workforce again to go be a student just isn't doable. At a certain point, you just have to make a stand with what you have. Especially as you get older, you will understand this.
You think buying land is foolish? You must be a total city boy If you live out in the country and you have land. You can do a lot of things with it to make money. Ranching, farming, renting, leasing, storage, etc. Not to mention staying on it rent-free, thus no longer needing to pay rent. When you go out in the country, the land-owners have a big advantage over those who do not own land. If you have land, it opens up lots of opportunities that a city boy can't even imagine. Land gives you a place where you can just do anything on you own space. The possibilities are vast.
As for my travel through 18 countries. I spent an amazingly low amount of money on that, and I was picking up work along the way. I taught short-term gigs in Thailand and Cambodia. I made money in Europe in ways that I will not elaborate on...
Travelling can be very, very cheap if you are savvy. I was often paying 2 or 3 bucks per night for lodging by finding the right places. After teaching for years in Korea, I had to do it. I couldn't just leave Asia without exploring it all the way.
I only spent a few thousand bucks on the travel overall. Waste of money? Not at all.
Travelling is one of the main reasons why we all go out to Asia. I think taking a backpacking trip around Asia is a must-do experience for someone who works there for a long time. It was worth every penny for me. It was something I just had to do. It is LAME when people go teach in Korea and they never travel while out there. Most folks I know backpacked after their contracts were up.
As for ESL being a loser-chump job. Trust me. Going to Korea and teaching English is really a fairly ambitious and dynamic thing for a person to do. Nothing loser about it. Losers are the ones who go work a shit job at home and never travel, never expand their horizons. I am surrounded by people like this right now. And they are all jealous of my travel stories.
Teaching ESL is a fine thing to do and nobody should be ashamed of this job. |
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