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Blind Willie



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PostPosted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 2:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hmm... multiple posts. I must be channeling Kwangju Chicken.
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itaewonguy



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PostPosted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 5:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

guess thats why korea has 588...
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Deconstructor



Joined: 30 Dec 2003
Location: Canada

PostPosted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 6:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There are probably more beautiful women in Korea per square kilometre than anywhere else in the world. When I was there I took full advantage of the bounty. And I did have a girlfriend back home. Monogamy is the biggest bullsh*t the human race has ever come up with. To be monogamous is unnatural designed by the jealously religiously insane who just couldn�t bear to hear the moans of the neighbour go at it with his/her partners. What does it prove to be monogamous? That I love my wife? You can be the vilest faithful husband/wife in the world. I don�t need my wife to be monogamous for me to feel that I am truly loved and respected. Love is a much more profound and existential experience and has very little to do with sex.

The body must be used to its full capacity. No holds barred� married or not. It always freaks my out when someone says that they are saving themselves. Saving for what? The worms?

Why is the human society so terrified of, and obsessed with, sex (monogamous or otherwise)? Why do we have so little respect for our sexuality and its role in our lives that we mystify it out of existence: force people to radically cover themselves, or mystify it through ubiquity on every billboard in the world and distort the very image of the body?

Did you guys know that during Victorian era piano legs were covered because they were considered too sexual? Now that�s what I call obsession!
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Homer
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PostPosted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 6:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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You're out of your gourd.


Have no gourd.

Hence can't be out of it.

Sorry. Laughing
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TheMrCul



Joined: 09 May 2003
Location: Korea, finally...

PostPosted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 11:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Deconstructor wrote:
There are probably more beautiful women in Korea per square kilometre than anywhere else in the world. When I was there I took full advantage of the bounty. And I did have a girlfriend back home. Monogamy is the biggest bullsh*t the human race has ever come up with. To be monogamous is unnatural designed by the jealously religiously insane who just couldn't bear to hear the moans of the neighbour go at it with his/her partners. What does it prove to be monogamous? That I love my wife? You can be the vilest faithful husband/wife in the world. I don't need my wife to be monogamous for me to feel that I am truly loved and respected. Love is a much more profound and existential experience and has very little to do with sex.

The body must be used to its full capacity. No holds barred?married or not. It always freaks my out when someone says that they are saving themselves. Saving for what? The worms?


Right...

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Why is the human society so terrified of, and obsessed with, sex (monogamous or otherwise)? Why do we have so little respect for our sexuality and its role in our lives that we mystify it out of existence: force people to radically cover themselves, or mystify it through ubiquity on every billboard in the world and distort the very image of the body?


Why are you so obsessed with it that you have to do it with people other that who you're married to? Isn't she enough?
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Daechidong Waygookin



Joined: 22 Nov 2004
Location: No Longer on Dave's. Ive quit.

PostPosted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 2:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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There are probably more beautiful women in Korea per square kilometre than anywhere else in the world. When I was there I took full advantage of the bounty. And I did have a girlfriend back home.


Now I see where you are coming from. Its a good thing you hate the Pope, because with your "values" it would be insulting to the Pope that you agree with him on anything.

Can I ask you something? Are you such a boy that you cant control your libido? I mean seriously, no one will look up to you for sleeping around. The sad, pathetic ones go whoring. Oh wait, thats you.

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. What does it prove to be monogamous?


That we love one person enough to ove ONLY them.

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That I love my wife? You can be the vilest faithful husband/wife in the world. I don뭪 need my wife to be monogamous for me to feel that I am truly loved and respected. Love is a much more profound and existential experience and has very little to do with sex.


If you sleep around, you WILL be the vilest husband around.


You really are one strange little boy. Seriously. We can now add a lack of sexual control to your moral relativism and your communism.
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Deconstructor



Joined: 30 Dec 2003
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PostPosted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 10:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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You really are one strange little boy. Seriously. We can now add a lack of sexual control to your moral relativism and your communism.



Listen, I can see you're dying a virgin. Yes, yes, you shall be eaten by the worms only.

I told you, you should get a job on Bill O'Reilly show. Whadya doing overseas? Oh, I forgot. You could never cut it in the West.
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Deconstructor



Joined: 30 Dec 2003
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PostPosted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 10:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

TheMrCul wrote:
Why are you so obsessed with it that you have to do it with people other that who you're married to? Isn't she enough?


I am by no means obsessed. I simply follow my needs. Sometimes she's not enough. Pardon the trite examples but, you don't eat the same food every day no matter how good it tastes. You don't watch the same movie over and over.

I feel monogamy is totalitarianism and immoral. What gave me the right to tell other people what they can do with their bodies? Why should I have that kind of say? It is out of respect that I let people I care about do what they feel is right. If they want to prove that they love me, all they gotta do is lend a helping hand when I need it and share some of their time with me. I ask for nothing more.
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Cedar



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PostPosted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 1:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Actually I felt a lot like Deconstructor until I met the right guy and REALIZED he was it.
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Homer
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PostPosted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 1:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Deconstructor,

Your morals are very elastic..... Laughing

My only gripe: following your needs is not what life is about my friend and one day you might figure that out.
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Daechidong Waygookin



Joined: 22 Nov 2004
Location: No Longer on Dave's. Ive quit.

PostPosted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 3:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Deconstructor wrote:
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You really are one strange little boy. Seriously. We can now add a lack of sexual control to your moral relativism and your communism.



Listen, I can see you're dying a virgin. Yes, yes, you shall be eaten by the worms only.

I told you, you should get a job on Bill O'Reilly show. Whadya doing overseas? Oh, I forgot. You could never cut it in the West.


Actually, unlike you, I took responsibility for my life and got married. While you are out hopelessly trying to score like a pathetic, lecherous creep, I am taking care of my family, like a MAN. Go away little boy.
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Harin



Joined: 03 May 2004
Location: Garden of Eden

PostPosted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 3:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Deconstructor wrote:
There are probably more beautiful women in Korea per square kilometre than anywhere else in the world. When I was there I took full advantage of the bounty. And I did have a girlfriend back home. Monogamy is the biggest bullsh*t the human race has ever come up with. To be monogamous is unnatural designed by the jealously religiously insane who just couldn뭪 bear to hear the moans of the neighbour go at it with his/her partners. What does it prove to be monogamous? That I love my wife? You can be the vilest faithful husband/wife in the world. I don뭪 need my wife to be monogamous for me to feel that I am truly loved and respected. Love is a much more profound and existential experience and has very little to do with sex.

The body must be used to its full capacity. No holds barred?married or not. It always freaks my out when someone says that they are saving themselves. Saving for what? The worms?

Why is the human society so terrified of, and obsessed with, sex (monogamous or otherwise)? Why do we have so little respect for our sexuality and its role in our lives that we mystify it out of existence: force people to radically cover themselves, or mystify it through ubiquity on every billboard in the world and distort the very image of the body?

Did you guys know that during Victorian era piano legs were covered because they were considered too sexual? Now that뭩 what I call obsession!


do you swing?
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Deconstructor



Joined: 30 Dec 2003
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PostPosted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 6:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Daechidong Waygookin wrote:
Actually, unlike you, I took responsibility for my life and got married. While you are out hopelessly trying to score like a pathetic, lecherous creep, I am taking care of my family, like a MAN. Go away little boy.


Wooooooo you�re a family man. Is that your wife on your avatar or a girl you fantasize about when you're in the shower? Maybe if you had done the horizontal samba with a gal or two before marrying the first one that came your way, you might not be so pathetically angry and lash out like a pit-bull. On second thought you did the right thing to get married; I don't think a conservative, one track mind, half wit like you stands much chance with a decent gal.

Ta ta!
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crazykiwi



Joined: 07 Jun 2003
Location: new zealand via daejeon

PostPosted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 7:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

guys, CALM DOWN! If decon wants to go whoring than thats his problem, eventually he'll find himself sad and alone, sitting in the corner of the bar, an old man, whilst the rest of us are having hanky panky with our partners in the comfort of our own homes. I dont know how old you are decon, but your imiturity is coming through loud and clear. I hope you find the happiness that one finds, when they realise they have found a life partner, instead of trying to fill the void you obviously have in your life.
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Daechidong Waygookin



Joined: 22 Nov 2004
Location: No Longer on Dave's. Ive quit.

PostPosted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 7:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Deconstructor wrote:
Daechidong Waygookin wrote:
Actually, unlike you, I took responsibility for my life and got married. While you are out hopelessly trying to score like a pathetic, lecherous creep, I am taking care of my family, like a MAN. Go away little boy.


Wooooooo you뭨e a family man. Is that your wife on your avatar or a girl you fantasize about when you're in the shower? Maybe if you had done the horizontal samba with a gal or two before marrying the first one that came your way, you might not be so pathetically angry and lash out like a pit-bull. On second thought you did the right thing to get married; I don't think a conservative, one track mind, half wit like you stands much chance with a decent gal.

Ta ta!


Ohh you are so cool. You think your little lifestyle makes you cool? Maybe it would in University, but man, didnt you graduate a while ago? What are you, like in your 30s? Normal people chase tail early on but eventually, they do something you obviously haven't. They grow up. Im gonna bring up Chris Rock and his joke. We all know the old guy at the club. He isnt really old, he's just too old for the club. Thats gonna be you. Or maybe it already is.

Id like your definition of a nice gal. Would that be someone you cheated and slept around on and then gave her some STD? What was it that you got lately? Shingles as you put it? hehehe I wonder what elese you have to give to decent gals. I sure dont wish you on any decent gal.
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