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hellofaniceguy · Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Location: On your computer screen!

[quote="adventuremanI broke up with that girl a little while ago. Since then I met a different girl, somebody i had known for a long time but was with another person up until recently. we met for coffee and she came over to my house a couple times. I bought her earrings and ccoked her dinner. The second time she came over she ended up staying the night. Right after that, she stopped calling for a week and bascially feel out of touch)[/quote]

The second time...she spent the night and has not called you since...obviously then...she had big expectations and was not happy with the end result��
Hey girls��tell us guys��if you are disappointed after the first night together��would you stop seeing the guy?
If I was not happy with the woman��I��d probably not see her again. Just wondering if women feel the same.

adventureman · Joined: 18 Feb 2003

rapier · Joined: 16 Feb 2003

The only way to win is to stop caring about them. Korean women are among the most childish wishy-washy bunch of narcisistic players on earth- when you finally call time out on their B.S and see them merely as a pain in the rear, then they'll suddenly be all over you. But by that time, whats the point? You genuinely are over them. there is no meeting in the middle here.
You are either the nice guy who gets nowhere, or the equally unsatisfied player who cares nothing for the shallow, unrewarding band of followers that cling on to you.
If you want women running after you, then yes, manipulate and mess them around, it gets their hormones and emotions fired up. But that likewise involves being unable to relax and just be yourself, a pretty unsatisfying state.

Daechidong Waygookin · Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 9:29 pm Post subject:

rapier · Joined: 16 Feb 2003

tommynomad · Joined: 24 Jul 2004 Location: on the move

Found one!

I've dated 3 women here, and fooled around a bit with another without dating. Not one fits the stereotypes listed above.

1. 29-yr-old who wore too much makeup and called it quits after a few dates, deciding I was a player based on my history.

2. 26-yr-old aspiring olympian (tae-kwon-do). Stunning face and body, we couldn't sustain a relationship due to her training commitments and total lack of English ability (and my lack of Korean).

3. 28-year-old co-worker who looks like a model and basically lives the life of a good catholic girl. Now in the states enjoying her freedom. Had to keep our hijinks a secret 'cause of work.

4. 24-year-old woman of my dreams. She lives alone, works a tough, unfulfilling job that pays her bills and lets her live independently in a big city away from the fam. We were friends (with and without benefits) for three years before falling for one another. She's nice and so am I, but we are far from boring.

All kinds of people in all kinds of places. The only thing a stereotype ever does is get disproven.

rapier · Joined: 16 Feb 2003

korean females are emotionally 13 yr olds transplanted into a womans body.
Mood swings,emotional ups and downs, tantrums, pouting...they are like loose cannons shuttling about the deck of a ship in a typhoon.

trigger123 · Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2005 4:45 am Post subject:

can i have a pint of bitter please rapier?

Tiberious aka Sparkles · Joined: 23 Jan 2003 Location: I'm one cool cat!

This site needs its own Dating and Love Advice Forum. Seriously.

Sparkles*_*

the_beaver · Joined: 15 Jan 2003

Tiberious aka Sparkles · Joined: 23 Jan 2003 Location: I'm one cool cat!

jajdude · Joined: 18 Jan 2003

At 35, I am feeling old here. I met more girls here when I was younger. Now it is harder, past that significant 30. Also knowing more about Korean culture I'm wary about where it would go anyway.

lastat06513 · Posted: Wed Apr 13, 2005 12:23 am Post subject:

I think this is the best place to announce this
But, gents....
I'm going stag
Wish me luck Wink

adventureman · Joined: 18 Feb 2003

Moldy Rutabaga · Joined: 01 Jul 2003 Location: Ansan, Korea

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