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What were the signs your marriage was over?
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NYC_Gal 2.0



Joined: 10 Dec 2010

PostPosted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 5:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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nukeday



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PostPosted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 8:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You weren't even married.

Stop hijacking the thread!
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ESL Milk "Everyday



Joined: 12 Sep 2007

PostPosted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 8:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think it was when she kept pretending that she didn't know me, not even acknowledging my presence when I was standing outside her window with my pants around my ankles, dating heaps of other guys, being afraid of me, waking up and screaming when I went into her room that one time... you know, the usual.
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Globutron



Joined: 13 Feb 2010
Location: England/Anyang

PostPosted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 8:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ESL Milk "Everyday wrote:
I think it was when she kept pretending that she didn't know me, not even acknowledging my presence when I was standing outside her window with my pants around my ankles, dating heaps of other guys, being afraid of me, waking up and screaming when I went into her room that one time... you know, the usual.


Happens to the best of us.
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conrad2



Joined: 05 Nov 2009

PostPosted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 8:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

NYC_Gal 2.0 wrote:
conrad2 wrote:
How exactly did your boyfriend lie? He had money. His money. Now its gone. And you know its gone. How did he lie? Since you were not married yet, does he have to keep you informed on how much he has in his bank accounbt?


So telling me he was doing one thing and doing something else while stringing me along wasn't lying? If that's not a lie to you, then you've got some different morality than most people. This was his REASON for being away most of the time.

I moved here to be with him and he lied about why he was away. He did lie. It may be his, but he lied about it. It's my right to end it for that reason.

I never asked about his finances--he provided lies unprompted. That is grounds for breaking up. How is this confusing to you?

When two people are together for that long, there's supposed to be trust. I didn't lie to him. I'm not broke, and he knew how much money I had. I never felt the need to lie. Apparently, he did. Good riddance.


I must have missed the posts where you talked about all that. I just read about how he spent a ton of his money, and you were upset because that somehow constituted a lie.
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NYC_Gal 2.0



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PostPosted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 9:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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wiganer



Joined: 13 Jul 2010

PostPosted: Mon Jan 10, 2011 12:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

madoka wrote:
NYC_Gal 2.0 wrote:
EDIT: He said he's bad with money, and won't admit any addiction or possible bastard child.


Truthfully, I am also a "retail therapy" addict. I force myself to work seven days a week and I make more than your ex, yet, I too have really nothing to show for it. Last month I spent over $17K on purely fluff stuff that I did not need. Stuff like over $2,000 of Shiseido face cream, $4,700 on airline tickets, a second Macbook Air (to go with my eight of other laptops), $1900 on premium leather bags, etc. Once you add in car insurance, mortgage payments, taxes, employees, utilities and other essentials, then I spent well over $35K last month.

As a result of my spending, my own parents are convinced that I have a gambling problem, because they just don't understand where all the money is going. Sometimes I'm just too embarrassed by how much of a spendthrift I am to correct them.

So in that way, I understand where your ex is coming from. While this maybe an unpopular opinion, you should consider working with him instead of dumping him. Perhaps you could take over his accounts as a condition of reconciliation.


Laughing


You wimp! Honestly - the one thing your lame parents should have done was drag your lame arse out of under your bed and into the army at 18 to do your military service.
Rolling Eyes

You answer to your parents about your spending but not your wife? Says it all Madoka.. it says it all.

Living with your mum and dad and still unmarried. Laughing There must be a cliff near you somewhere for you to throw yourself off. Post us another photo of your sports car - the one you don't have - just to make yourself feel better. Laughing
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fromtheuk



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PostPosted: Mon Jan 10, 2011 12:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Madoka - You spent 35k in one month? If you're female and pretty, please marry me and give me all of that money. What do you do for a living to earn so much money? More importantly, is it legal?!! Laughing
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conrad2



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PostPosted: Mon Jan 10, 2011 12:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

fromtheuk wrote:
Madoka - You spent 35k in one month? If you're female and pretty, please marry me and give me all of that money. What do you do for a living to earn so much money? More importantly, is it legal?!! Laughing


In almost every thread Madoka looks for a way to post how he earns a ton of money and owns a ton of things. Seems strange that a high flier such as himself would have so much time and/or interest to constantly post on a teachers' board.
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redaxe



Joined: 01 Dec 2008

PostPosted: Mon Jan 10, 2011 6:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

conrad2 wrote:
fromtheuk wrote:
Madoka - You spent 35k in one month? If you're female and pretty, please marry me and give me all of that money. What do you do for a living to earn so much money? More importantly, is it legal?!! Laughing


In almost every thread Madoka looks for a way to post how he earns a ton of money and owns a ton of things. Seems strange that a high flier such as himself would have so much time and/or interest to constantly post on a teachers' board.


Well, I guess everyone has to feel superior to someone in life.
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