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The end of the 'foreigner bar' in Itaewon?
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Mr. BlackCat



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 23, 2012 11:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Let me try to say this again for the nth time.

Someone posted here it was wrong for a Korean bar to not allow foreigners in. SR said because we are not Korean we don't have a right to fight it. I said that posting on the internet is not a political act. TUM said posting on the internet is weak. I said which one is it, a political act or weak?

I'm not the MLK of the internet. I never said I was anything of the sort. All I said is that individuals, no matter what country they live in, have a right to form opinions based on what they experience everyday. They may not have the right to form political groups, but they surely have a right to talk about their feelings on the internet. SR is saying we don't have a right to do that. TUM is saying only doing that is cowardly (my own word, but it was implied), and we should do more. I'm asking which one is it?

I'm not typing out a summary of the ideas at hand here for makoda, TUM and SR. Like I said, they start with a conclusion and work their ways backwards. But anyone else jumping in to read the last few posts deserves a breakdown.

Of course now that they've unleashed the time-tested "I'm rubber and you're glue" argument, I may be outgunned. I mean, no one can outsmart that kind of intelligent and mature counter-argument.
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Steelrails



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PostPosted: Mon Sep 24, 2012 1:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Remember Senor NegroGato, when everyone was dumping on Canadians and you were a voice in the wilderness, there was one other person on this board who said that that was nonsense and Canadians were getting a bum rap.

The same thing that made me do that is the same thing that makes me often defend Koreans on these boards. People take a small sample size and project it on larger populations. That, and they tend to ignore/forget about the stuff they do that might be perceived as "the same thing" the other way around.

Is it so hard to conceive the fact that racism in Korea isn't always a one way street? Is it so hard to grasp how unsettling it can be that some voices that complain about racism from Koreans are deafeningly silent when it comes to racism perpetrated against Koreans?

Case in point- look at the Dave's thread on Dating Korean Men. Already two posters have chimed in about the dangers of dating Koreans. Of course, when it comes to MBC or some random ajosshi doing it, that's racist. But on Dave's? It's just 'venting' or stating the facts.

And AGAIN, I didn't start the rumor about Sam Ryan's. There was another thread about it and another poster mentioned that. Go click on the thread and then check the person. I consistently mentioned that it was alleged. I consistently made it clear that I had no way to confirm or deny it beyond that thread. But if we take stories about discrimination at clubs towards foreigners at face value, I think we should take stories of discrimination at foreigner bars towards Africans at face value.

Or is it only okay to take stories of Korean racism at face value but to treat with skepticism stories about foreigner racism? That sounds to me a little...racist.
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Mr. BlackCat



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PostPosted: Mon Sep 24, 2012 7:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Steelrails wrote:
Remember Senor NegroGato, when everyone was dumping on Canadians and you were a voice in the wilderness, there was one other person on this board who said that that was nonsense and Canadians were getting a bum rap.

The same thing that made me do that is the same thing that makes me often defend Koreans on these boards. People take a small sample size and project it on larger populations. That, and they tend to ignore/forget about the stuff they do that might be perceived as "the same thing" the other way around.

Is it so hard to conceive the fact that racism in Korea isn't always a one way street? Is it so hard to grasp how unsettling it can be that some voices that complain about racism from Koreans are deafeningly silent when it comes to racism perpetrated against Koreans?

Case in point- look at the Dave's thread on Dating Korean Men. Already two posters have chimed in about the dangers of dating Koreans. Of course, when it comes to MBC or some random ajosshi doing it, that's racist. But on Dave's? It's just 'venting' or stating the facts.

And AGAIN, I didn't start the rumor about Sam Ryan's. There was another thread about it and another poster mentioned that. Go click on the thread and then check the person. I consistently mentioned that it was alleged. I consistently made it clear that I had no way to confirm or deny it beyond that thread. But if we take stories about discrimination at clubs towards foreigners at face value, I think we should take stories of discrimination at foreigner bars towards Africans at face value.

Or is it only okay to take stories of Korean racism at face value but to treat with skepticism stories about foreigner racism? That sounds to me a little...racist.


Steelie, I always give you the benefit of the doubt despite yourself. You're like a G20 protester who sets cars on fire. Heart is in the right place, but your actions aren't. It's not that you're always wrong, it's that you can't admit it when you are. No one is, so when someone tries so desperately to prove they are always right you start to reconsider everything they've said. You may have agreed with me on some points (not that I'm always right) but even a blind squirrel finds an acorn.

A Korean bar excluding foreigners is bad. An American bar excluding Koreans is bad, too. But one does not excuse the other. If you truly believe that homogenization of multicultural enclaves in whatever country is good if the market demands it then that's a reasonable disagreement we can have. But you can't claim moral superiority about it. You can't say I, or anyone else, MUST feel a certain way about it.

As for the other labelled apologists chiming in on this I can only use the Democrats and Republicans as an analogy. Rebubs will always have a robust base because they believe in a very rigid, unchanging line. The Dems include people from all walks of life, who will disagree on specifics. So, lefties in the US will always disagree on the public health option, drug laws, affirmative action, etc. The right, meanwhile, will always agree because it is the part of the extreme. To bring it to these boards, there is a bloc of posters (that have shown up here) with the same party line they will bring to every discussion. However, on the more reasonable side you will have dissent on every issue. Thus, on every issue that extreme bloc believes it is in the majority (while simultaneously thinking it's persecuted) because they have no deviation in thinking while the other side sees nuance and individuality in every argument. And so, the extremists are always louder. Look at this topic. Everyone else with a reasonable point has given up while the extremists have shown up to circle the carcass that was once known as reason. Every time.
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TheUrbanMyth



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PostPosted: Mon Sep 24, 2012 6:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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TheUrbanMyth



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PostPosted: Mon Sep 24, 2012 7:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mr. BlackCat wrote:
Let me try to say this again for the nth time.

(1) Someone posted here it was wrong for a Korean bar to not allow foreigners in. SR said because we are not Korean we don't have a right to fight it. I said that posting on the internet is not a political act. TUM said posting on the internet is weak. I said which one is it, a political act or weak?

(2) I'm not the MLK of the internet. I never said I was anything of the sort. All I said is that individuals, no matter what country they live in, have a right to form opinions based on what they experience everyday. They may not have the right to form political groups, but they surely have a right to talk about their feelings on the internet. SR is saying we don't have a right to do that. TUM is saying only doing that is cowardly (my own word, but it was implied), and we should do more. I'm asking which one is it?

(3) I'm not typing out a summary of the ideas at hand here for makoda, TUM and SR. Like I said, they start with a conclusion and work their ways backwards. But anyone else jumping in to read the last few posts deserves a breakdown.

(4) Of course now that they've unleashed the time-tested "I'm rubber and you're glue" argument, I may be outgunned. I mean, no one can outsmart that kind of intelligent and mature counter-argument.


(I took the liberty of numbering your points for greater clarity)



(1) Depending on the forum it is in (and I don't mean the forums on Dave's I mean forum in the wider media sense) it can be a political action or weak. It doesn't HAVE to be one or the other. It depends on circumstances. It's not so black and white as you seem to think.


2. Yes you never said you were the MLK of the Internet, that is true. But when you say stuff like (and I'm paraphrasing here) "Whenever I see injustice I stand up and speak about it", it leads one to think of strong specific actions. Not posting on an tiny discussion board under an fake name with a readership of maybe a couple hundred strong.

3. I'm not starting with a conclusion. I'm starting with YOUR OWN WORDS. You've already stated YOUR conclusions I'm just working with that.


4. Again I'm simply pointing out that your accusations about us could with even more justice be applied to you. That's not the "rubber/glue" argument...I'm asking why the hypocrisy.

Now if you're finished...let's get back to the closing of the bar. And as such I have a few questions for you.

If the market demands it why not?

Don't the owners of the property have a right to make as much money as they can?

If they perceive a wider market for a certain clientele why can't they change?

And lastly why are they or anyone else obliged in any way, shape or form to have a 'homogenous enclave' for foreigners?
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NYC_Gal 2.0



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PostPosted: Mon Sep 24, 2012 10:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's not homogenous. That's the beauty of it.

Of course Koreans are free to bring Korean-style establishments to Itaewon, as it is not illegal. They are being jerks, however, in banning people from being customers based on race. It may not be illegal, but it's nasty.

I wouldn't go to K-town in NYC and open up a BBQ joint called "Seoul Food" and say that it was for Americans only. Let's pretend it even was legal in NYC. It just wouldn't be nice.

That's the issue, in a nutshell. It's mean. I hope their business fails. I'm not going to rant and rave, saying that it's an injustice, because it happens to be legal here. I'm not going to start a protest. I'm just going to say, here on a forum, that it's nasty. **** them.
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Steelrails



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PostPosted: Tue Sep 25, 2012 12:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

All I ask is that everyone gets on the same page and agrees to the same things when it comes to the rules-

Want to "preserve Itaewon?" Fine, let Koreans "preserve" whatever crap they decide needs preserving from foreign influence.

Against racial discrimination, fine I want to see you protesting outside the places that ban Koreans or at least voicing serious concern.

So it's either accept the two things above or accept the status quo. Because most of us are short-term, perhaps sadly, we accept the status quo. But if people want to change things, then be fair and consistent. Otherwise you won't go far.
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fosterman



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PostPosted: Tue Sep 25, 2012 4:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

so when they say , NO FOREIGNERS does that mean the MP's are also banned? or do the military police have some special authority to walk into any establishment they wish regardless of signs?

If I put a sign up and say, NO POLICE, does that mean I am allowed to ban them from my bar after all, it's my bar, my rules.
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The Cosmic Hum



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PostPosted: Tue Sep 25, 2012 6:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

fosterman wrote:
If I put a sign up and say, NO POLICE, does that mean I am allowed to ban them from my bar after all, it's my bar, my rules.


yeah...sure...that's just what it means.
Give it a go some time.
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MetaFitX



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PostPosted: Tue Sep 25, 2012 6:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have no problem with Korean establishments doing this sort of thing (serious).

I'm all in favor of places barring military personnel from entering their premises and otherwise behaving like complete retards. God I can't wait until the American military leaves...

I'd be a hypocrite if I was in favor of barring foreign military and wasn't in favor of barring other particular "groups". If a Korean restaurant or club or whatever doesn't want any foreigners (as in...none whatsoever) than it generally isn't a place I'd want to be anyways.
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Died By Bear



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PostPosted: Tue Sep 25, 2012 10:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The Cosmic Hum wrote:
fosterman wrote:
If I put a sign up and say, NO POLICE, does that mean I am allowed to ban them from my bar after all, it's my bar, my rules.


yeah...sure...that's just what it means.
Give it a go some time.


Mine would say "NO UMBRELLA THIEVES" and there would be a designated area for cheap-ass Chinese made umbrellas, and well made British umbrellas. I would hire an adjoshi to guard the well made umbrellas and wipe off the water from their delicate handles so that when the folks wanted them back they would get a dry handle in their palms instead of wetness.
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fosterman



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PostPosted: Tue Sep 25, 2012 11:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Korean rapper Tiger JK has posted an apology on his Twitter account for the racist remarks against Caucasians he blurted out during a joint performance on Saturday.

�Once again my sincere apology goes out to all them good peoples, Peace,� he wrote on Tuesday, adding he can�t justify what went on that night.

According to Tiger JK�s recollection, some of the audience repeatedly requested him to dance the �horse dance� from choreography of another Korean rapper Psy�s worldwide hit �Gangnam Style.�

Tiger JK said this infuriated him.

�I told them I ain�t here to make you laugh, not here to dance for you, then it triggered something really dark in me,� Tiger JK said via Twitter.

Then the rapper said he cut all his songs short and went �crazy on all them white folks in the crowd.�

�To Fu** all y�all who think Asians are here to make you laugh by dancing my as*** off,� he said, accusing CNN and Hollywood of making Asians �comic relief.�

The rapper said he is �not proud of being a racist� and that the message could have been delivered without the offensive verbal abuse. But he maintained that he stood by everything he said.

The 38-year-old rapper -- whose real name is Seo Jung-kwon -- is regarded as one of the pioneers who introduced hip-hop music to Korea in the 1990s. He is married to another hip-hop musician Yoon Mi Rae.

The performance, sponsored by Intel and Vice magazine, is a global campaign that supports new and rising artists. While Saturday�s show also featured well-known musicians like Tiger JK and girl group 2NE1, the lineup consisted mostly of underground or alternate musicians.



but I am curious, if he is not there to sing or dance! then why is he there?
in case he forgot, he is an entertainer, his job is to sing and dance for people.
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Seoulman69



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 26, 2012 4:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If the argument is regarding bars dropping the western features that many of us foreigners enjoy, such as not having to order food, then I support you.

If it's just about Koreans patronizing foreign bars then I don't understand what you're upset about. I think the more Koreans and foreigners mix the better.
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Mr. BlackCat



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 26, 2012 8:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

TheUrbanMyth wrote:



(1) Depending on the forum it is in (and I don't mean the forums on Dave's I mean forum in the wider media sense) it can be a political action or weak. It doesn't HAVE to be one or the other. It depends on circumstances. It's not so black and white as you seem to think.


2. Yes you never said you were the MLK of the Internet, that is true. But when you say stuff like (and I'm paraphrasing here) "Whenever I see injustice I stand up and speak about it", it leads one to think of strong specific actions. Not posting on an tiny discussion board under an fake name with a readership of maybe a couple hundred strong.

3. I'm not starting with a conclusion. I'm starting with YOUR OWN WORDS. You've already stated YOUR conclusions I'm just working with that.


4. Again I'm simply pointing out that your accusations about us could with even more justice be applied to you. That's not the "rubber/glue" argument...I'm asking why the hypocrisy.

Now if you're finished...let's get back to the closing of the bar. And as such I have a few questions for you.

If the market demands it why not?

Don't the owners of the property have a right to make as much money as they can?

If they perceive a wider market for a certain clientele why can't they change?

And lastly why are they or anyone else obliged in any way, shape or form to have a 'homogenous enclave' for foreigners?


1. Uh, ok, but we're talking about a post here on this board. So, in this very specific instance is it a political act or cowardly? I'm still unclear.

2. I never said that whenever I see injustice I stand up and speak out against it. In fact, I never even commented on the specific bar that was banning foreigners brought up here. All I said was that people had a right to feel that it was wrong and to say so on an internet message board. Since you like using my words, please stop 'paraphrasing' and actually find anything close to what you say I said.

I actually don't care that the bar banned these people. I mean, it's wrong and everything but there are bigger fish to fry and if a bar doesn't want me I'll go elsewhere. I'm not black and it's not 1955 Alabama. But if others feel it's wrong and want to say so, you nor SR nor the other apologists here get to tell them they're wrong for doing so.
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Mr. BlackCat



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 26, 2012 8:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Steelrails wrote:
All I ask is that everyone gets on the same page and agrees to the same things when it comes to the rules-

Want to "preserve Itaewon?" Fine, let Koreans "preserve" whatever crap they decide needs preserving from foreign influence.

Against racial discrimination, fine I want to see you protesting outside the places that ban Koreans or at least voicing serious concern.

So it's either accept the two things above or accept the status quo. Because most of us are short-term, perhaps sadly, we accept the status quo. But if people want to change things, then be fair and consistent. Otherwise you won't go far.


1) Again, there's a difference between the majority wiping out the minority and the majority deciding for themselves to change. I don't like seeing traditional Korean things turn into Dukin' Donuts and Stabucks, but they're doing it to themselves.

2) So if you think it's wrong to discriminate based on race you MUST be seen outside every single establishment that is accused of doing so? That'd be time consuming. Again, all I said was that people have the right to post their disapproval of such policies on a message board. You and UM are the ones turning me into some Jesse Jackson of the waygookins of Korea. See what I mean about starting from a conclusion and working backwards?

3) I know you're trying desperately to find some way to prove I'm a hypocrite, and I suppose I am in many ways (aren't we all?). But you're just grasping at straws here. Again, you're starting from a conclusion: "Mr. BC doesn't object to discrimination against Koreans!" and then working your way backwards: "Mr. BC has started a revolution against Koreans discriminating against foreigners!" When in reality neither is true. I stated several times that I don't really care about this particular case, but in the larger picture I hate seeing Itaewon lose it's charm. I've also stated that if people do have a problem with this bar they're free to vent that frustration on the internet.

I'm just so confused by you guys. SR is saying posting something here is some overt political act that we have no right to engage in. UM chimes in and says it's a cowardly anonymous act and we should be out in the streets fighting for what we believe in. You're both saying I'm trying to be some internet revolutionary simply because I said people can complain about whatever they want, yet you guys have no problem using this site to complain (and attempt to feel superior to) other foreigners. You guys should really get your stories straight.
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