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Top-5 biggest regrets.........
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evilive



Joined: 01 Sep 2007
Location: England

PostPosted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 8:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

..having another year+ of uni on a course i cant find motivation for.

(sitting here reading this forum when i have about 3 weeks of work to catch up on for tomorrow..)
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travel zen



Joined: 22 Feb 2005
Location: Good old Toronto, Canada

PostPosted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 1:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I regret not having sex with many of the girls that I could have taken the opportunity with on my trips in Asia..but was shy about it. You know, they helped you, so why 'take advantage' of them ?

Now with hindsight, I see that they may have helped me becasue they wanted me to 'take advantage' of them !

Won't happen again Very Happy
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joebj1178514



Joined: 13 Nov 2007

PostPosted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 11:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

travel zen wrote:
I regret not having sex with many of the girls that I could have taken the opportunity with on my trips in Asia..but was shy about it. You know, they helped you, so why 'take advantage' of them ?

Now with hindsight, I see that they may have helped me becasue they wanted me to 'take advantage' of them !

Won't happen again Very Happy



Dog, they wanna marry you to get a citizenship. Let them, then divorce them and let them roam in your country. Then repeat.
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Faunaki



Joined: 15 Jun 2007

PostPosted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 12:29 am    Post subject: Sigh Reply with quote

Smoking. The hardest thing in the world to quit especially if you drink. Sigh.
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Easter Clark



Joined: 18 Nov 2007
Location: Hiding from Yie Eun-woong

PostPosted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 1:02 am    Post subject: Re: Sigh Reply with quote

Faunaki wrote:
Smoking. The hardest thing in the world to quit especially if you drink. Sigh.


You can do it if you really want to!

Regret is impossible (for me) because regretting something presumes that you wouldn't behave in exactly the same way under identical circumstances. Of course you would (unless you knew then what you know now, which you wouldn't), so let it go.

Now is all that matters.
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oldfatfarang



Joined: 19 May 2005
Location: On the road to somewhere.

PostPosted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 10:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

"Regrets are a waste of time. They are the past - crippling your future."

(Joseph Rudyard Kipling)
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big_blue_21



Joined: 02 Nov 2005

PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2008 1:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ahh, i'm pretty happy with where I'm at . . .

Last edited by big_blue_21 on Fri Jul 04, 2008 10:31 pm; edited 1 time in total
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Justin Hale



Joined: 24 Nov 2007
Location: the Straight Talk Express

PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2008 6:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

* too much booze and drugs. Mis-spent youth

* being an English teacher and not a rock star. Still, it's my fault for letting Tool and Pink Floyd steal my entire back catelog

* Countless embarrassing displays of insanity

* believing in conspiracy theories

* disliking Israel, and other silliness
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PRagic



Joined: 24 Feb 2006

PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2008 8:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Working when I did my dissertation, and during the semester breaks. We had the money, and could have comfortably relaxed the summers and winters away on a beach somewhere and seen some interesting places. I would have finished up my dissertation much faster, too!

In the end, nobody looks back and wishes they would have worked more.
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poet13



Joined: 22 Jan 2006
Location: Just over there....throwing lemons.

PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2008 9:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have had more regrets than I can possible count. Even as a non-believer in godmen and religions, I condemmed myself long ago to as many hells as is possible for one soul to occupy.

But....in true spirit of the butterfly effect, if I had changed even one event in my life, I quite possibly may not be where I am today, and more importantly, with who I am today, and without my son and another on the way.

For those, I can deal with what I deal with. So, no regrets.
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JustJohn



Joined: 18 Oct 2007
Location: Your computer screen

PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2008 11:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

poet13 wrote:
I have had more regrets than I can possible count. Blah blah blah... So, no regrets.


Hmmmm.
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JustJohn



Joined: 18 Oct 2007
Location: Your computer screen

PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2008 11:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

PRagic wrote:
In the end, nobody looks back and wishes they would have worked more.


I wish I had worked at least a moderate amount through high school and put it in savings. Would have been nice.
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nicholas_chiasson



Joined: 14 Jun 2007
Location: Samcheok

PostPosted: Thu May 08, 2008 12:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

all women. I regret not knowing better, or knwoing too well.
Women=pain and suffering
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Rae



Joined: 10 Oct 2007

PostPosted: Thu May 08, 2008 1:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Rae wrote:
I try to live a life with no regrets, but I have a few:

Not going with the boy whom I had the biggest crush on for the majority of my college years for someone whom I thought was "better". The guy was Korean (I'm not), the only child, and his parents knew about me. I didn't care enough about the Korean culture back then to understand that significance.

Declining admission to a top ranking university to be closer to home.

That's basically about it. Sure I could have made better decisions here and there but with everything else, I learned from. So it's 2 out of 5. I'm hoping it never reaches 5.


I cancel my first regret. It must have happened for a reason. There's noway I'd be here where I am now and getting to know the person that I'm appreciating at this moment, if it wasn't for the simple fact that I picked the absolute wrong guy back then.
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R-Seoul



Joined: 23 Aug 2006
Location: your place

PostPosted: Thu May 08, 2008 1:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Living for over a year in Korea and never taking advantage of this:
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/c/c1/Age_of_Consent_updated_for_Canada.png
Sad
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