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Vietnam brides - What age on average?
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ultra



Joined: 09 Nov 2007
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PostPosted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 1:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

http://www.thanhniennews.com/overseas/?catid=12&newsid=32266

The Korean government is planning to issue new laws and establish support centers to better protect foreign brides following the recent deaths of Vietnamese women caused by their Korean spouses.
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ultra



Joined: 09 Nov 2007
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PostPosted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 1:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

http://www.thanhniennews.com/overseas/?catid=12&newsid=30301

A Vietnamese woman is suing her South Korean ex-husband for marrying her merely to have children and divorcing her after she bore two to go back to another woman whom he could not impregnate for years.
T.H [name withheld], 24, has sued the 47-year-old man in a Seoul court to gain custody of her elder daughter. She said it was difficult for her to seek custody of both children since her financial situation was difficult.

The court called both parties for a meeting last Thursday but it did not materialize since, according to T.H�s lawyer So Ra Mi, it had become unnecessary after the husband recently confessed to the deceit.

However, despite the confession, getting custody of the child was not easy since the husband was in a better financial position to raise her, she added.

T.H could have visiting rights and compensation though South Korean law stipulated no penalties for the husband�s act.
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ultra



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PostPosted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 1:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

http://www.thanhniennews.com/society/?catid=3&newsid=30062

Another South Korean mail-order bride racket busted in Vietnam
Police in southern Vietnam caught red-handed Saturday two South Korean men and a woman selecting from a lineup of 67 mail-order brides for them and her clients.
The Ho Chi Minh City police were tipped off that a woman named B. had hired two buses in the city to leave for Long An province�s Duc Hoa district that night.

They secretly followed the vehicles and, with help from their Long An colleagues, nabbed the ring and fined three women for arranging illegal marriages.

Brokering marriages for money is illegal in Vietnam. Last May police raided a house in HCMC and found 18 young women waiting to be looked over by prospective South Korean bridegrooms.

Sources said the suitors even checked the girls for scars and birthmarks.

Last year a local newspaper reported on an occasion that dozens of Vietnamese girls were lined up in the Republic of Korea for selection by prospective husbands.
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ultra



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PostPosted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 1:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

http://www.thanhniennews.com/overseas/?catid=12&newsid=29922

Thirteen Vietnamese tourists were reported missing after arriving at the Republic of Korea�s Jeju island, said a Korean immigration agency who suspected the Vietnamese of illegal immigration.
The tourists disappeared from their hotel on Tuesday and local authorities have no information on their whereabouts, the agency said Wednesday.

Identities of the 13 persons have yet been released by relevant agencies.

South Korea has become a favorite destination for illegal Southeast Asian immigrants.

Four similar cases, in which a total of 18 travelers have gone missing, have already occurred in Jeju this year
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Atavistic



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PostPosted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 1:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Cheonmunka wrote:
I understand the forces that push us to an Asian bride, but I can't accept a relationship of a 45 year old man married with an 18 year old girl. Or 52yr/22yr for that matter.
It's legal so society accepts it. But, the role of the man is only as a sugar daddy. How can he sincerely love?


Isn't there a poster here who has clearly written that he will only seek younger and younger women as he gets older? He seemed to make it pretty clear that love had nothing to do with it, only his *beep*.
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goniff



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PostPosted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 6:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

why all the "angst" dear hearts?
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Kepler



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PostPosted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 10:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Here's another Vietnamese bride horror story:

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LAN, 22, jumped off the 14th floor of an apartment building in Kingman City, 400 kilometers south of Seoul, on February 6.

Her death came just 25 days after she went to South Korea with her husband Ha Jang Su, whom she had married last September.

Kim said that South Korean police were still investigating the cause of Lan�s suicide.

He said Lan�s family could submit further investigation requests to the South Korean government via the Vietnamese Embassy in Seoul.

Kim told Thanh Nien the Vietnamese Embassy in South Korea had sent a group to Kingman on Wednesday to investigate Lan�s story in detail.

At 9:35 a.m. on February 6, security guards at Kingman City�s Taeseongmansio apartment building discovered Lan�s body.

An autopsy revealed that Lan had died from the fall.

http://www.thanhniennews.com/overseas/?catid=12&newsid=36249

Now what brought her to the point of committing suicide after only living 25 days in Korea? Perhaps her ajossi husband was abusive and treated her like his toy. She may not have been able to communicate with anyone and she didn't have the option of doing a midnight run because she didn't have enough money. She may have felt that she didn't have anyone to turn to and felt that suicide was the only escape. That is all speculation but I know that Korean men certainly don't have a reputation for being the best husbands in the world neither do Koreans have a reputation for treating people of third world nations like human beings. I knew people in Seoul from places like Southeast Asia and Eastern Europe who said that their Korean employers made them work 12 hours a day 6-7 days a week for about a million dong each month. There was no reason for this except their Korean employers were taking advantage of them to maximize their profits.
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Tiger Beer



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PostPosted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 3:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Interesting story Kepler.

I heard of a Filipina woman who married a Korean man. They arrived in Korea, and he left her in Busan to take care of his parents. Then he went up to Seoul (where he lived), and told her he'd see her on Chuseok Holiday.

It didn't last. But I think Filipinas have pretty massive communities and take care of each other quite well, whereas I'm not too sure about Vietnamese.
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bassexpander



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PostPosted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 7:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You know darned well that these women who marry 50-something or 60-something year-old Korean guys aren't going to see a single won after the guy dies. The money will be whisked away by the family all legal-like. She'll go away poor, used up, and older.
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Kepler



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PostPosted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 12:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Cambodia is another country that South Korean men have been going to to find brides. Cambodia has temporarily banned Cambodian women from marrying all foreigners. This is in response to several cases of abuse involving South Korean men and their Cambodian brides and South Korean marriage agencies which make big profits from hastily arranging such marriages.

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PHNOM PENH (AFP) - Cambodia has suspended marriages between foreigners and Cambodians amid concerns over an explosion in the number of brokered unions involving poor, uneducated women, an official said Thursday.

The move follows an International Organisation for Migration (IOM) report highlighting the plight of an increasing number of Cambodian brides migrating to South Korea in marriages hastily arranged by brokers who make large profits.

Some 1,759 marriage visas were issued by South Korea in 2007, up from just 72 in 2004, the report said.

While no systematic exploitation was uncovered, several cases of abuse did raise a red flag with the government, said You Ay, secretary of state with the Women's Affairs Ministry.

"Seven women have returned from South Korea because they could not stand what happened to them there," You Ay told AFP.

"The government has temporarily suspended all (paperwork) for Cambodia women to marry foreigners," she said.

You Ay said the ban, which was approved last week, would be lifted after the government developed a legal framework to address mixed marriages.

"This suspension is to prevent human trafficking through marriage," she said, adding that while the brides often receive as little as 1,000 US dollars, agencies can make tens of thousands of dollars on each marriage.

"Cambodia is working to strengthen the laws on marriage," You Ay said.

IOM project coordinator John McGeoghan said that while the report targeted marriages between Cambodians and South Koreans, the potential for problems exists globally and that brokered unions needed to be better regulated.

Three South Korean marriage agencies have been closed down in Cambodia pending the government's decision on marriages to foreigners.

The South Korean embassy in Cambodia earlier this week halted issuing residency visas to Cambodian women wishing to marry Korean men.
http://news.yahoo.com/s/afp/20080403/wl_asia_afp/cambodiamarriage_080403144139
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nicholas_chiasson



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PostPosted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 12:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

An autopsy revealed she had died from the fall
-FROM THE 14TH STORY
I could have told them that without an autopsy, maybe they wanted to know if she was pushed...
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captain kirk



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PostPosted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 4:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dave's poster 'Ultra' = Dave's poster 'Real Reality'?
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asylum seeker



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PostPosted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 10:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Confucianism has a lot to answer for. All of this is happening because so many female fetuses were aborted to satisfy the son preference. Otherwise there would be enough available Korean women for these men to marry. In the last few years there have been less of these sex-selective abortions but its still going to be many years before this problem rights itself. This is the one aspect of life in Korea that really gets me down. In my hakwon for instance the ratio of male to female students is about 65-35%. I do realise that this could be due to other factors as well but I'd be surprised if the wider gender imbalance in society wasn't the main reason.
China, India and other Asian countries are in the process of creating their own gender imbalances and soon, as their economies grow they're going to be competing with Korea for the same available women from neighboring countries.
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cj1976



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PostPosted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 4:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I attend a Korean class and most of the other students are Vietnamese and Philipino women. I think the average age must be below 25 and they're all married to Korean men at least 10 years older. I talked to one girl who is 23 and her husband is 38. As I walked out of the class, I saw someone's husband waiting and he must have been in his early fifties.
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Tiger Beer



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PostPosted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 8:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

cj1976 wrote:
I attend a Korean class and most of the other students are Vietnamese and Philipino women. I think the average age must be below 25 and they're all married to Korean men at least 10 years older. I talked to one girl who is 23 and her husband is 38. As I walked out of the class, I saw someone's husband waiting and he must have been in his early fifties.

were they good-looking girls?
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