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Bucheonguy
Joined: 23 Oct 2008
Location: Bucheon
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| Gotta ask yourself something. If this private lesson chick, suddenly reached down your pants and started playing with your junk, would you stop her, could you stop her? If the answer is no, then you gotta think about either breaking up with your gf now or not doing the private lessons. Simple as that and your gf knows that and you honestly know that. Private lessons are synonymous with sex. |
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blaseblasphemener
Joined: 01 Jun 2006
Location: There's a voice, keeps on calling me, down the road, that's where I'll always be
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| Posted: Fri Jan 23, 2009 4:08 am Post subject: |
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| Wrong forum. Should be in General Discussion. |
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aboxofchocolates
Joined: 21 Mar 2008
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| Posted: Sun Jan 25, 2009 3:26 am Post subject: |
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You may as well give it up if your gf is Korean. They seem to get as jealous as hell.  |
While not trying to generalise, I think ALL women, to a degree, get jealous. It's not just a Korean girl thing. |
Absolutely. There is an element to estrogen that makes women bond more easily with their mate than men for longer periods- more "clingy" if you will. Scientists believe this is a survival mechanism causing them to attach to one partner for their protection and, by extention, the protection of their young. Fortunately the birth control pill regulates levels of estrogen and progesterone, creating a more even chemical brain chemistry and counteracting the jealousy factor. That's why western women tend to be more promiscuous- more "sluutty" if you will- than women from countries where birth control use is not as wide spread. |
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aboxofchocolates
Joined: 21 Mar 2008
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| Posted: Sun Jan 25, 2009 3:29 am Post subject: |
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| tzechuk wrote: |
| Bigfeet wrote: |
| You may as well give it up if your gf is Korean. They seem to get as jealous as hell. |
While not trying to generalise, I think ALL women, to a degree, get jealous. It's not just a Korean girl thing. |
Absolutely. There is an element to estrogen that makes women bond more easily with their mate than men for longer periods- more "clingy" if you will. Scientists believe this is a survival mechanism causing them to attach to one partner for their protection and, by extention, the protection of their young. Fortunately the birth control pill regulates levels of estrogen and progesterone, creating a more even chemical brain chemistry and counteracting the jealousy factor. That's why western women tend to be more promiscuous- more "sluutty" if you will- than women from countries where birth control use is not as wide spread. |
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Thewhiteyalbum
Joined: 13 Nov 2008
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| Posted: Sun Jan 25, 2009 10:13 am Post subject: |
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| aboxofchocolates wrote: |
| tzechuk wrote: |
| Bigfeet wrote: |
| You may as well give it up if your gf is Korean. They seem to get as jealous as hell. |
While not trying to generalise, I think ALL women, to a degree, get jealous. It's not just a Korean girl thing. |
Absolutely. There is an element to estrogen that makes women bond more easily with their mate than men for longer periods- more "clingy" if you will. Scientists believe this is a survival mechanism causing them to attach to one partner for their protection and, by extention, the protection of their young. Fortunately the birth control pill regulates levels of estrogen and progesterone, creating a more even chemical brain chemistry and counteracting the jealousy factor. That's why western women tend to be more promiscuous- more "sluutty" if you will- than women from countries where birth control use is not as wide spread. |
To a point, sure. But most of the women I have been with hated taking the pill because of its side effects. However, I hate that latent insecurity that shows itself in such outbursts as the op's and tend to go for women who are pretty secure. As such, I have never had to deal with any jealous episodes. If one of my g.f's has had a problem with me to do with other women, she has told me honestly what her deal is, and why she feels shitty about it and we have dealt with it and vice versa. My g.f's have had no problem with me interacting with other women because they are secure with themselves and understand that I love them and if I didn't love them (or at least like them a whole lot) I wouldn't be with them.
I am an adult and I refuse to deal with childish behaviour from grown women. |
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aboxofchocolates
Joined: 21 Mar 2008
Location: on your mind
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| Posted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 3:11 am Post subject: |
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| Thewhiteyalbum wrote: |
| aboxofchocolates wrote: |
| tzechuk wrote: |
| Bigfeet wrote: |
| You may as well give it up if your gf is Korean. They seem to get as jealous as hell. |
While not trying to generalise, I think ALL women, to a degree, get jealous. It's not just a Korean girl thing. |
Absolutely. There is an element to estrogen that makes women bond more easily with their mate than men for longer periods- more "clingy" if you will. Scientists believe this is a survival mechanism causing them to attach to one partner for their protection and, by extention, the protection of their young. Fortunately the birth control pill regulates levels of estrogen and progesterone, creating a more even chemical brain chemistry and counteracting the jealousy factor. That's why western women tend to be more promiscuous- more "sluutty" if you will- than women from countries where birth control use is not as wide spread. |
To a point, sure. But most of the women I have been with hated taking the pill because of its side effects. However, I hate that latent insecurity that shows itself in such outbursts as the op's and tend to go for women who are pretty secure. As such, I have never had to deal with any jealous episodes. If one of my g.f's has had a problem with me to do with other women, she has told me honestly what her deal is, and why she feels shitty about it and we have dealt with it and vice versa. My g.f's have had no problem with me interacting with other women because they are secure with themselves and understand that I love them and if I didn't love them (or at least like them a whole lot) I wouldn't be with them.
I am an adult and I refuse to deal with childish behaviour from grown women. |
If you're looking for a secure woman than you are likely looking for the "tomboy" type, or those who present traits that we associate with masculinity. This is because testosterone is the hormone that gives a person "confidence", which is basically just a lower scale form of aggression. People have done numerous studies with animals and human subjects using testosterone, and they've found higher levels of testosterone in more assertive men. Of course, high levels of testosterone can produce excessive aggressiveness like "roid rage" and even just increasing testosterone intake (through injection) can cause an average man to get into personal confrontations more frequently and even cause them to be more dangerous drivers. As people generally don't inject themselves with estrogen unless they believe their body has stopped producing the normal amount (say, after menopause) the data people have on the behavior of women with abnormally high levels of estrogen isn't as extensive as it is with men injecting themselves with testosterone. Of course, studies have been done on women during their monthly cycle when their bodies are naturally producing high levels of estrogen. They find that during these times these ordinarily stable women would participate in irrational behaviors like engaging in unnecessary confronations or driving more irratically. Hormones are like the brain's little backseat drivers, telling us how to behave to better survive! |
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Xuanzang
Joined: 10 Apr 2007
Location: Sadang
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| Posted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 7:22 pm Post subject: |
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Tell her this courtesy of Ari Gold.
You could have no private lessons if you want to live in Haebang f***ing chon, and go to Lottemart. But if you want a 40 pyung mansion and a Apujeung gym membership, and you want 3 weeks a year in a Thailand villa, than I�m gonna need to take a lesson when it comes in at noon on the motherf***ing subway. |
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Juregen
Joined: 30 May 2006
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| Posted: Mon Jan 26, 2009 9:04 pm Post subject: Re: Private lessons with the other sex? Hell No! |
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So I got a possible private lesson while riding the subway today. Frankly, I could use the extra cash and she just wants to improve her conversation so it would be easy as hell.
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I live with my girlfriend and she has big issues with me teaching women. I can not seem to reason with her about the issue and don't really want to do it if its going to cause problems. However, if she can't seem to trust me to go out, make some cash doing what it is I do I am afraid this is a problem that is bound to come up later on in our relationship (trust issues, insecurities, etc.)
I'm sure others have had experience in this. Please share. |
I had the same issue.
If you cherish your GF, don't do it. |
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