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banjois
Joined: 14 Nov 2009
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| Also, you can make coffee at home any time you like. And unlimited refills! OK, I've done this to death. Scene. |
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NovaKart
Joined: 18 Nov 2009
Location: Iraq
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| Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2010 11:43 am Post subject: |
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| I see the question boiling down to this: Do you betray your friend by revealing his secret? Or do you betray his gf by being the other woman? I'd say do neither. Don't have an affair with him and mind your own business. |
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Street Magic
Joined: 23 Sep 2009
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| Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2010 11:54 am Post subject: |
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| DorkothyParker wrote: |
| You should tell her... |
| kabrams wrote: |
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Dude, what's with all the sex narcs? Are these the same people who write down license plate numbers to report information about minor fender benders they weren't involved with? I wish people didn't care about everything so much. If you're going to be a vigilante, aim a little higher and close some unsolved murder cases... although even then, why do you have to go cramping the next Ted Bundy's style?
I mean, Jesus, stone throwing, without sin, etc. (and the Rabbi in question was talking about sins in general, not sins applicable to the circumstances of the sinner's transgression, so no, you aren't in the clear if you've never cheated before).
I guess people who rat out other people is my pet peeve. I kind of appreciate people who violate social niceties, imagined morality contracts, and the arbitrary laws of their region. I think it comes down to my personally hating the idea of being a part of some collective of other people (despite my usually left-winged arguments against the many libertarians of the Current Events board-- I'll chalk this up to the social/economic divide). Breaking rules is a great way to assert your individuality, while reporting other people for breaking rules is the best way to reinforce the power of the hive mind. |
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kabrams
Joined: 15 Mar 2008
Location: your Dad's house
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| Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2010 5:26 pm Post subject: |
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| Street Magic wrote: |
| DorkothyParker wrote: |
| You should tell her... |
| kabrams wrote: |
| I'd tell her... |
Dude, what's with all the sex narcs? Are these the same people who write down license plate numbers to report information about minor fender benders they weren't involved with? I wish people didn't care about everything so much. If you're going to be a vigilante, aim a little higher and close some unsolved murder cases... although even then, why do you have to go cramping the next Ted Bundy's style?
I mean, Jesus, stone throwing, without sin, etc. (and the Rabbi in question was talking about sins in general, not sins applicable to the circumstances of the sinner's transgression, so no, you aren't in the clear if you've never cheated before).
I guess people who rat out other people is my pet peeve. I kind of appreciate people who violate social niceties, imagined morality contracts, and the arbitrary laws of their region. I think it comes down to my personally hating the idea of being a part of some collective of other people (despite my usually left-winged arguments against the many libertarians of the Current Events board-- I'll chalk this up to the social/economic divide). Breaking rules is a great way to assert your individuality, while reporting other people for breaking rules is the best way to reinforce the power of the hive mind. |
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andrewchon
Joined: 16 Nov 2008
Location: Back in Oz. Living in ISIS Aust.
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| Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2010 6:17 pm Post subject: |
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OP:
Put some Potassium Nitrate in his coffee. Salt his nuts away. |
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reactionary
Joined: 22 Oct 2006
Location: korreia
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| Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2010 6:56 pm Post subject: |
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| Do it. It's "empowering." |
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Triban
Joined: 14 Jul 2009
Location: Suwon Station
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| Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2010 7:09 pm Post subject: |
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If you're really that bored...I'm bored too. Want to see what happens? Paint the town red, maybe start a fire in the oven?  |
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aboxofchocolates
Joined: 21 Mar 2008
Location: on your mind
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| Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2010 8:42 pm Post subject: |
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| Triban wrote: |
| If you're really that bored...I'm bored too. Want to see what happens? Paint the town red, maybe start a fire in the oven? |
I am not familiar with this euphamism 'fire in the oven'. Sounds painful. Is it curable? |
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aboxofchocolates
Joined: 21 Mar 2008
Location: on your mind
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| Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2010 8:45 pm Post subject: |
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| Moral of the story- my social life blows. Anyone else have fun 'might be getting some' stories they care to share? |
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canale226
Joined: 23 Jan 2010
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| Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2010 8:58 pm Post subject: |
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| What has this site degraded into, livejournal.com? Seriously, you are getting intimate with a "friend" - who you know has a girlfriend and you're looking for advice? Tiger Woods called, he needs his dignity back. Wait.... wrong number - you have no dignity. Have fun in hell. |
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kabrams
Joined: 15 Mar 2008
Location: your Dad's house
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| Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2010 10:03 pm Post subject: |
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| canale226 wrote: |
| What has this site degraded into, livejournal.com? Seriously, you are getting intimate with a "friend" - who you know has a girlfriend and you're looking for advice? Tiger Woods called, he needs his dignity back. Wait.... wrong number - you have no dignity. Have fun in hell. |
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NovaKart
Joined: 18 Nov 2009
Location: Iraq
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| Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2010 3:29 am Post subject: |
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| Street Magic wrote: |
| DorkothyParker wrote: |
| You should tell her... |
| kabrams wrote: |
| I'd tell her... |
Dude, what's with all the sex narcs? Are these the same people who write down license plate numbers to report information about minor fender benders they weren't involved with? I wish people didn't care about everything so much. If you're going to be a vigilante, aim a little higher and close some unsolved murder cases... although even then, why do you have to go cramping the next Ted Bundy's style?
I mean, Jesus, stone throwing, without sin, etc. (and the Rabbi in question was talking about sins in general, not sins applicable to the circumstances of the sinner's transgression, so no, you aren't in the clear if you've never cheated before).
I guess people who rat out other people is my pet peeve. I kind of appreciate people who violate social niceties, imagined morality contracts, and the arbitrary laws of their region. I think it comes down to my personally hating the idea of being a part of some collective of other people (despite my usually left-winged arguments against the many libertarians of the Current Events board-- I'll chalk this up to the social/economic divide). Breaking rules is a great way to assert your individuality, while reporting other people for breaking rules is the best way to reinforce the power of the hive mind. |
 sex narcs, I like that term.
I agree, I don't like narcs either unless someone is doing something seriously illegal. Or unless the person in question is a good friend or relative. I think it's best to stay out of other people's relationships. |
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NovaKart
Joined: 18 Nov 2009
Location: Iraq
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| Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2010 3:45 am Post subject: |
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| aboxofchocolates wrote: |
| Moral of the story- my social life blows. Anyone else have fun 'might be getting some' stories they care to share? |
My social life is pretty bad too. My BF and my boss got drunk and slept together. He only had like 3 or 4 beers but he's a lightweight. Needless to say, we broke up. My boss has been really apologetic though and I've got a pretty good job or else I'd quit. Anyway this guy I was with was pretty boring anyway. He was a good cook though but a bit of a neat freak and I'm more of a slob.
I've had a few dates since then but nothing serious. One was a Kurdish guy who had been deported from Germany for drugs he said. He's really into pot. He also had some small scars which he said were self inflicted. He's very nice looking and was really friendly but not into anything serious and I figure he's pretty dodgy anyway.
Another guy I met was very nice but he had the strangest stuff in his bedroom. There was a big doll of a witch, I think from the wizard of oz. he had a stuffed animal of a big bird and some other dolly knick-knack type things. Very strange for a grown man. I asked him if they were all his and he said yes. He's nice but not really my type.
Anyway, those are my getting some stories, not terribly interesting but I had to contribute. |
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morrisonhotel
Joined: 18 Jul 2009
Location: Gyeonggi-do
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| Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2010 4:48 am Post subject: |
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| NovaKart wrote: |
| aboxofchocolates wrote: |
| Moral of the story- my social life blows. Anyone else have fun 'might be getting some' stories they care to share? |
My social life is pretty bad too. My BF and my boss got drunk and slept together. He only had like 3 or 4 beers but he's a lightweight. Needless to say, we broke up. My boss has been really apologetic though and I've got a pretty good job or else I'd quit. Anyway this guy I was with was pretty boring anyway. He was a good cook though but a bit of a neat freak and I'm more of a slob.
I've had a few dates since then but nothing serious. One was a Kurdish guy who had been deported from Germany for drugs he said. He's really into pot. He also had some small scars which he said were self inflicted. He's very nice looking and was really friendly but not into anything serious and I figure he's pretty dodgy anyway.
Another guy I met was very nice but he had the strangest stuff in his bedroom. There was a big doll of a witch, I think from the wizard of oz. he had a stuffed animal of a big bird and some other dolly knick-knack type things. Very strange for a grown man. I asked him if they were all his and he said yes. He's nice but not really my type.
Anyway, those are my getting some stories, not terribly interesting but I had to contribute. |
Where the hell are you socialising to meet such fine gentlemen? |
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kinerry
Joined: 01 Jun 2009
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| Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2010 7:18 am Post subject: |
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Honestly, I believe all of this is human nature.
Everyone cheats, some people just have more integrity and never get caught and/or admit to it.
We aren't built to have just one companion in our lives, so why fight it?
Then again, if someone is getting hurt, it's time for a new situation.
Sounds like you guys need to have an open/poly relationship or to end it to keep things drama-free and safe.
People cheat to fulfill needs, that doesn't make them "immoral", it does make them an asshole if it's at the cost of someone else though. |
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