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goat



Joined: 23 Feb 2010

PostPosted: Fri Jul 25, 2014 4:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

AfroBurrito wrote:
I was going to have my baby in Korea but things didn't work out between my son's father and I so I returned home and am set to deliver in November.

I would look into Mediflower in Seoul. I saw them for a while and was very pleased with the quality of care and felt confident that my objections or requests as to treatment would be heeded. It's pricier than other places, but worth the expense. I had to pay out of pocket because of poor private insurance, but the care I received was in some ways much better than what in have received here in Texas.


Your baby's daddy still in Korea?
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laynamarya



Joined: 01 Jan 2010
Location: Gwangjin-gu

PostPosted: Mon Jul 28, 2014 5:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would say that most hospitals (especially the larger ones) definitely do routine shaving, enemas, and episiotomies.

This will probably be the first and last time I disagree with something ttompatz says, but as someone who's actually given birth, I'm going to claim authority over his.

All the afore-mentioned items, shaving, enemas, episiotomies, and also scheduled c-sections, having women lie on their backs while giving birth, pushing on a woman's stomach to make the baby come out faster, happen very frequently in Korea, and they are ALL for the doctor's convenience.

They are also MUCH more likely to cause a new mother a great deal of stress, pain, and fear, and cause distress in the newborn.

I hope that you would not wish such things on your wife or baby (or yourself, if you're the new mom).

There are a few places that you can go to avoid these things. One is Mediflower (great but expensive), one is Yeon and Nature (great but expensive), and one is Soonchunhyang University (SCH), which was very reasonably priced, though with less frills, I suppose. I had my first baby there and plan to give birth there again when our second is born. Dr. Choi is especially great.

Some smaller birthing centers will also allow you to give birth your own way, depending on the doctor. I know some folks who have had great experiences at small clinics and some who have had nightmare experiences.

Good luck! Do your own research, and I hope you find a great place to welcome your new kiddo into the world.
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PatrickGHBusan



Joined: 24 Jun 2008
Location: Busan (1997-2008) Canada 2008 -

PostPosted: Tue Jul 29, 2014 7:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

That is pretty distressing for expecting mothers.

My wife (she is Korean) gave birth to our son in Korea in the early 2000s and none of the procedures outlined in the previous post were forced upon her.

I guess we lucked out with the hospital and medical staff!
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ttompatz



Joined: 05 Sep 2005
Location: Kwangju, South Korea

PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2014 5:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Our daughter was also born here and I was present the entire time or I wouldn't have said anything.

We started at the Samsung Women's hospital (next down the street from Home-plus) in Yeongtong dong in Suwon and when we moved to Bundang (Seohyun dong) we used the Cheil Women's Hospital there (across from the big public hospital.

The service and doctors were excellent. The prenatal care was great and the birthing and after-birth care we also good (by western standards).

We had insurance and the costs were reasonable. Our total bill for prenatal care was about 550k won and we paid about 500k won for the birth and 3-day stay (private room with western meals).

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Lazio



Joined: 15 Dec 2010

PostPosted: Thu Jul 31, 2014 7:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ttompatz wrote:
Our daughter was also born here and I was present the entire time or I wouldn't have said anything.

We started at the Samsung Women's hospital (next down the street from Home-plus) in Yeongtong dong in Suwon and when we moved to Bundang (Seohyun dong) we used the Cheil Women's Hospital there (across from the big public hospital.

The service and doctors were excellent. The prenatal care was great and the birthing and after-birth care we also good (by western standards).

We had insurance and the costs were reasonable. Our total bill for prenatal care was about 550k won and we paid about 500k won for the birth and 3-day stay (private room with western meals).

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With all due respect, Don't throw numbers here without mentioning that it was nearly a decade ago. Those figures are very outdated and could confuse someone looking into this for the first time.
1 day post-natal stay in a private room at a big university hospital is around 500,000Krw now. Private clinics are cheaper though but they would still charge a lot more than what you paid.
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naturegirl321



Joined: 18 Jul 2006
Location: Home sweet home

PostPosted: Mon Sep 08, 2014 7:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm a certified childbirth educator and postpartum doula, and in the process of becoming a lactaction educator counselor and La Leche League leader. I believe that a lot of what you get in Korea is due to what you know and planning. The c-section rate is high, but it's just as high as the USA. There are a lot of interventions done here as well as in other countries, but you can avoid this by going to good places such as MediFlower or Yeon and Nature both of which are about two mil if you have insurance.

If you're on FB check out the group called Expat Parents Korea! For info about good hospitals and birthing centers and more.

Get a doula.

Have a birthing plan. Have your doctor sign and stamp it. Have a back up plan. Be prepared to give and take.

Talk to your doctor and change hospitals if necessary.

Take a child birthing class.

I've got a list of birthing centers, hospitals, doulas, birthing classes, breastfeeding support, and more info about pregnancy, birthing, and postpartum that I'd be happy to send anyone. I also have sample birth plans in English and Korean.

Do your research and be prepared, you'll be glad you did.
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harringt



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PostPosted: Tue Jun 07, 2016 11:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I read a post somewhere else that the only epidurals in Korea are "walking" epidurals and thus they're not as effective as the epidurals in other countries? Is this true? Can anyone who has had an epidural for labor in Korea comment on her experience?
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naturegirl321



Joined: 18 Jul 2006
Location: Home sweet home

PostPosted: Wed Jun 08, 2016 7:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

harringt wrote:
I read a post somewhere else that the only epidurals in Korea are "walking" epidurals and thus they're not as effective as the epidurals in other countries? Is this true? Can anyone who has had an epidural for labor in Korea comment on her experience?


Go to the FB group, Pregnant in Korea, https://www.facebook.com/groups/567164683422324/ and ask there.

It's going to depend on your doctor. I've heard from dozens of women and it varies. You'll get some doctors who will constantly top it off and give it to you when you're 9cm and you have others that give a lighter amount and will wait for it to wear off and won't give it to you after 7cm. It's usually not as strong as the US.

It also depends on you yourself. Your built and your tolerance to drugs. I've had one friend who was given two epidurals back-to-back and could still feel everything. The doctor couldn't give her anymore due to risks to her health. You get other people who get a little and are fine.
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World Traveler



Joined: 29 May 2009

PostPosted: Fri Jun 10, 2016 2:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

T-J wrote:
youtuber wrote:
Do you know how awful children's lives are in Korea?
What an ignorant statement.

Well, there's this:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuroplastic_effects_of_pollution
Something to consider anyways. For that reason I wouldn't want to raise a baby in Korea. Not these days as the pollution has gotten worse. The tinier the body, the greater the potential harm.
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