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recessiontime
Joined: 21 Jun 2010
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mathematical equation? I'm not sure what you're talking about. I'll just leave you with some advice your mom would leave you then..
"just be yourself" |
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machoman
Joined: 11 Jul 2007
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| Posted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 9:32 am Post subject: |
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| recessiontime wrote: |
mathematical equation? I'm not sure what you're talking about. I'll just leave you with some advice your mom would leave you then..
"just be yourself" |
unfortunatley recessiontime is correct. the "game," for the most part works. but this whole "pick up artist" crap has got to stop. |
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hellakitty
Joined: 15 Sep 2007
Location: Variable
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| Posted: Wed Nov 03, 2010 3:18 pm Post subject: |
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| As a woman (Western) I would say at this point all is not lost. It doesn't take much to call a girl - and maybe she thinks you're just looking for some "fun". If you are REALLY into her give it another shot- I'm not suggesting getting all clingy stalker on her, but call her again with a set date in mind (i.e. set restaurant, movie, activity, whatever) and ask if she'd like to join you. If she says no or gives any excuse then she is likely not interested and you should move on. But from experience I would say that if you are really are into someone to the point where you "can't stop thinking about them" give it another go and show her that that. Good luck! |
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Koveras
Joined: 09 Oct 2008
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| Posted: Thu Nov 04, 2010 3:22 pm Post subject: |
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I think you should wait until your group gets together again, then try to build her interest in you (without games). Then remeasure it, and act accordingly.
Who knows, maybe she's already interested, and truly was sick. My concern right now is that if you chase her, and she's on the fence, she might scare and hop off the other side.
But I don't really know. Maybe you should just call her again. |
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Koveras
Joined: 09 Oct 2008
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| Posted: Thu Nov 04, 2010 3:36 pm Post subject: |
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| recessiontime wrote: |
| actually yeah it does sound like that, which is why it is so funny. Not only is it funny and not serious, it's sub-communicates to the woman the idea that I'm higher value than her. Girls want to date guys that are equal or higher value to them. |
Why not become actually valuable, instead of trying merely to seem it? This PUA stuff is so degenerate. |
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chellovek
Joined: 29 Feb 2008
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| Posted: Thu Nov 04, 2010 3:41 pm Post subject: |
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| Koveras wrote: |
| recessiontime wrote: |
| actually yeah it does sound like that, which is why it is so funny. Not only is it funny and not serious, it's sub-communicates to the woman the idea that I'm higher value than her. Girls want to date guys that are equal or higher value to them. |
Why not become actually valuable, instead of trying merely to seem it? This PUA stuff is so degenerate. |
Sage advice, man. |
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SeoulFinn
Joined: 27 Feb 2006
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| Posted: Thu Nov 04, 2010 4:53 pm Post subject: |
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What do you mean by valuable? I'd guess being trustworthy, reliable, caring, considerate etc. Good BF material, right? Tread carefully! You may end up in the so called friend zone and be treated accordingly.
When you are in the blasted friend zone, you are doomed. There's no escape or possibility to improve your status. (Well, there is at some rare occasions, but most women will see you as a friend for all the eternity and won't date you.) This has happened to me few times. The times it really shouldn't have happened. *sigh* As a result I have quite a few good female friends, who come to me for advice and _platonic_ consolation when some interesting "bad boy" broke their hearts.
It's not few times that I have heard, "I really should have picked you and not him!" Oh, well... |
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recessiontime
Joined: 21 Jun 2010
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| Posted: Thu Nov 04, 2010 5:59 pm Post subject: |
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| Koveras wrote: |
| recessiontime wrote: |
| actually yeah it does sound like that, which is why it is so funny. Not only is it funny and not serious, it's sub-communicates to the woman the idea that I'm higher value than her. Girls want to date guys that are equal or higher value to them. |
Why not become actually valuable, instead of trying merely to seem it? This PUA stuff is so degenerate. |
you mad? |
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Koveras
Joined: 09 Oct 2008
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| Posted: Fri Nov 05, 2010 6:47 am Post subject: |
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| What do you mean by valuable? . . . Good BF material, right? |
That's not what I mean, no. |
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Draz
Joined: 27 Jun 2007
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| Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 4:42 am Post subject: |
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| SeoulFinn wrote: |
It's not few times that I have heard, "I really should have picked you and not him!" Oh, well... |
They don't really mean it. |
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