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IPayInCash



Joined: 27 Jul 2013
Location: Away from all my board stalkers :)

PostPosted: Tue Oct 22, 2013 11:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

creeper1 wrote:
IPayInCash wrote:
Who are the trolls? The only person I see trolling is Dodge7, who has already admitted to using a sock in Nolos.


You are the biggest and worst troll I ever seen on any internet forum ever.

Why are you bothering with us when you could be spending some time with that smoking hot girlfriend of yours?


You seem mad.
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cam83



Joined: 27 Jan 2013
Location: Seoul, South Korea

PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 12:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

IPayInCash wrote:
creeper1 wrote:
IPayInCash wrote:
Who are the trolls? The only person I see trolling is Dodge7, who has already admitted to using a sock in Nolos.


You are the biggest and worst troll I ever seen on any internet forum ever.

Why are you bothering with us when you could be spending some time with that smoking hot girlfriend of yours?


You seem mad.


Wait... What?! He asked a fairly simple question with no malice at all and your brain translated that as someone who seems mad?
Shocked

I personally don't think you're a troll. I think your posts often contain valid points, but more often than not you lack the ability to address issues without revealing personal insecurities (you seem to need to validate your life choices and perceived happiness to yourself, which is then amplified when you use it to compare yourself with others).

This type of attitude will often bring out the worst in some people on here which, amongst other things, leads to derailed threads and more negative than positive as a result. For someone who has built his success through hard work and acquired a hot girl (well at least by your standards) one would think you'd have a more positive attitude towards how you interact with those who are less fortunate or simply don't have the same drive as you do here. Most of the successful people i know who started with nothing generally have a humble approach towards life and don't insult others in the manner in which i have seen you do on here. Without the cheap insults I imagine most people on here would have you down as one the funniest/more entertaining posters on here!

Im not sure how long you've been in Korea IPIC, but 5yrs ago Dave's was a goldmine for good advice, good banter and a place where people could even network through events and such.

Ps, I'm a psychologist - the first session is free... get in touch.

Pps, no I'm not but I do hope my dry British humour translates well as it was intended as a joke (the ps part, Im serious about the rest) so please don't think I'm mad.
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byrddogs



Joined: 19 Jun 2009
Location: Shanghai

PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 3:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

IPayInCash wrote:
creeper1 wrote:
IPayInCash wrote:
Who are the trolls? The only person I see trolling is Dodge7, who has already admitted to using a sock in Nolos.


You are the biggest and worst troll I ever seen on any internet forum ever.

Why are you bothering with us when you could be spending some time with that smoking hot girlfriend of yours?


You seem mad.


He is mad and is a troll himself. Must suck to not meet the requirements to go back to the land he has such a hard-on for. Laughing
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IPayInCash



Joined: 27 Jul 2013
Location: Away from all my board stalkers :)

PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 6:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

cam83 wrote:
IPayInCash wrote:
creeper1 wrote:
IPayInCash wrote:
Who are the trolls? The only person I see trolling is Dodge7, who has already admitted to using a sock in Nolos.


You are the biggest and worst troll I ever seen on any internet forum ever.

Why are you bothering with us when you could be spending some time with that smoking hot girlfriend of yours?


You seem mad.


Wait... What?! He asked a fairly simple question with no malice at all and your brain translated that as someone who seems mad?
Shocked

I personally don't think you're a troll. I think your posts often contain valid points, but more often than not you lack the ability to address issues without revealing personal insecurities (you seem to need to validate your life choices and perceived happiness to yourself, which is then amplified when you use it to compare yourself with others).

This type of attitude will often bring out the worst in some people on here which, amongst other things, leads to derailed threads and more negative than positive as a result. For someone who has built his success through hard work and acquired a hot girl (well at least by your standards) one would think you'd have a more positive attitude towards how you interact with those who are less fortunate or simply don't have the same drive as you do here. Most of the successful people i know who started with nothing generally have a humble approach towards life and don't insult others in the manner in which i have seen you do on here. Without the cheap insults I imagine most people on here would have you down as one the funniest/more entertaining posters on here!

Im not sure how long you've been in Korea IPIC, but 5yrs ago Dave's was a goldmine for good advice, good banter and a place where people could even network through events and such.

Ps, I'm a psychologist - the first session is free... get in touch.

Pps, no I'm not but I do hope my dry British humour translates well as it was intended as a joke (the ps part, Im serious about the rest) so please don't think I'm mad.


Whats it like knowing I didnt read any of that?
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thegadfly



Joined: 01 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 6:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

[quote="lemak"][quote="thegadfly"][quote="lemak"][quote="PatrickGHBusan"]Why on earth could you not name another forum?


Gorf started his forum and advertised that here with no problems.

Wayguk.org is another option.

There are few more out there and I do not see why naming them would pose a problem.[/quote]

test...

www.eslcafe.com

(*edit* that's what comes up when you type in one of the other Korean expat forum addresses.....automatically changes it to the address of this site.)

Agree with what you wrote too, Pat...I don't see why naming these forums should pose a problem. I guess some mods are seeing trolls and boogey men under their beds at night.[/quote]

Well, considering that there is no "mod edit" note on the original post, and the fact that you CAN post other sites, and that the nature of the "edit" is smarmier than mod edits here tend to be, it is clear that "[color=red][b]SORRY, CAN'T SAY, VERBOTTEN[/b][/color]" was what was originally posted...so FDNY either self-censored, or [i]wanted [/i]other folks to think he was censored....[/quote]

I don't care about FDNY's edit notes. I wasn't making any reference to that. I was replying to Patrick who said links to other Korean esl sites aren't blocked, and I guess I'll reply to you likewise since you didn't understand what I was saying. See what happens when you type the full address for exp[i][/i]atkorea.com...it will automatically edit itself to www.eslcafe.com

Quite clearly you CAN'T link to all other esl sites and stating otherwise is either being ignorant or deliberately attempting to mislead.[/quote]

http://www.teacheslkorea.com/

http://www.esljobskorea.com/

http://www.planetesl.com/

http://www.worknplay.co.kr/

http://koreaesl.com/index.php

http://www.englishclub.com/tefl

http://www.waygook.org/

Um...one site you mentioned got changed, and a large number I just googled don't...so one site is blocked, not all of them, nor even many of them.
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cam83



Joined: 27 Jan 2013
Location: Seoul, South Korea

PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 4:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

IPayInCash wrote:
cam83 wrote:
IPayInCash wrote:
creeper1 wrote:
IPayInCash wrote:
Who are the trolls? The only person I see trolling is Dodge7, who has already admitted to using a sock in Nolos.


You are the biggest and worst troll I ever seen on any internet forum ever.

Why are you bothering with us when you could be spending some time with that smoking hot girlfriend of yours?


You seem mad.


Wait... What?! He asked a fairly simple question with no malice at all and your brain translated that as someone who seems mad?
Shocked

I personally don't think you're a troll. I think your posts often contain valid points, but more often than not you lack the ability to address issues without revealing personal insecurities (you seem to need to validate your life choices and perceived happiness to yourself, which is then amplified when you use it to compare yourself with others).

This type of attitude will often bring out the worst in some people on here which, amongst other things, leads to derailed threads and more negative than positive as a result. For someone who has built his success through hard work and acquired a hot girl (well at least by your standards) one would think you'd have a more positive attitude towards how you interact with those who are less fortunate or simply don't have the same drive as you do here. Most of the successful people i know who started with nothing generally have a humble approach towards life and don't insult others in the manner in which i have seen you do on here. Without the cheap insults I imagine most people on here would have you down as one the funniest/more entertaining posters on here!

Im not sure how long you've been in Korea IPIC, but 5yrs ago Dave's was a goldmine for good advice, good banter and a place where people could even network through events and such.

Ps, I'm a psychologist - the first session is free... get in touch.

Pps, no I'm not but I do hope my dry British humour translates well as it was intended as a joke (the ps part, Im serious about the rest) so please don't think I'm mad.


Whats it like knowing I didnt read any of that?


Translation: I actually read ALL of that but I'm emotionally torn between offering a seemingly witty/sarcastic/insulting reply to keep my reputation intact and acknowledging that you may have a point. Therefore my initial response is to pretend that I have no idea what's going on here.

This is a classic step 1 response, denial. But the good news is that you took the first step... it'll get better I assure you. Seriously, you don't have to live behind this online persona... no-one will judge for just being polite, clearly you are successful and as I already mentioned you offer many valid points in this forum often in a humourous manner.

So, on to step 2... try using your knowledge, humour and experience for good by offering ONE piece of sound advice WITHOUT being condescending or insulting (and if possible not involving your personal success)... start small, in any thread and let me know how it feels to help others with a positive attitude.

We should be friends, you get free social interaction lessons and in return, I'll steal your hot gf (I'm a model from London, who speaks Korean and has his own fashion company).

Ps, that last part was another joke... I'd give her back eventually.

Pps, thanks for not reading this Smile
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IPayInCash



Joined: 27 Jul 2013
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 4:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Let it all out man. I'm here for you. Laughing
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cabeza



Joined: 29 Sep 2012

PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 4:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

uh oh IPIC I think he has your number!
The house of cards is coming tumbling down!! Dodge7 shall have his revenge.
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IPayInCash



Joined: 27 Jul 2013
Location: Away from all my board stalkers :)

PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 5:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

He seems very obsessed. Must have slept with the guys sister or something.

And Dodge7? That guy hates me. I exposed him as Nolos. True story. Laughing
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Lucas



Joined: 11 Sep 2012

PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 5:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
clearly you are successful and as I already mentioned you offer many valid points in this forum often in a humourous manner.


Psychology one-o-one gain their trust before you slip rohypnol into their drink and rape them!

I know what you are trying to do OP! Smile

IPIC is wise to your motives too. He swore that he'd never get tricked again after the last time!

But being a Psychologist, you should know often abuse breeds abuse. I think IPIC is relying on his smoking hot gf to subdue his lust for anal destruction (and revenge against the Psychology community).

Be careful, otherwise you'll end up wearing nappies and being incontinent for the rest of your life!

If you do meet up to 'council' him do it in a public place!
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transmogrifier



Joined: 02 Jan 2012
Location: Seoul, South Korea

PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 5:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

And this thread itself provides a neat little microcosm of why Dave's is withering on the vine.
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Mr. BlackCat



Joined: 30 Nov 2005
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 8:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't think this site is much more useless/useful than it has ever been since I've been here. Maybe it's all just perceptions?

A few years ago, c. 2009, there was an army of vile and nasty Korean apologists who would blanket threads, threaten people and take it to a whole new level. The Mods did nothing about it for months/years. I would say those days were way worse than it is now. I'm talking disgusting PMs, open threats of physical violence and swear words magically being allowed by these people yet being blocked by others.

In any event, I acknowledge that when I have free time at work (as with the last few weeks) I come here and stir the pot a bit with the usual characters. However, the reason the guys I'm talking about (who will remain nameless, but we all know who they are) are on every thread is because they do their best to shut down every discussion. I'd rather have trolls and lame-o's going on and on about stupid stuff than have 2-4 posters who get to shut down every conversation on this site, which apparently is their goal.

What I also think the problem is is that today's trolls are really, really lame. Trolls here in the past have been witty, funny, strange, performance artists. Now it's just lame "jokes" and talking about smoking hot girlfriends every post. It's a lot less entertaining. Anyone who's been here long enough, compare fromtheuk to IPIC. It's like comparing Louis CK to a kindergarten talent show.
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Steelrails



Joined: 12 Mar 2009
Location: Earth, Solar System

PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 8:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Blackcat, voicing an opinion that differs from yours is not "shutting down discussion." If you can't handle opposing views, and people disagreeing with you, then I'm sorry.

I never accuse you of attempting to shut down discussion. You have a right to your opinions and they stir the pot. I don't have personal issues and vendettas with other posters. I don't PM anyone to get personal, and I really do my best to adopt a "live and let live" attitude towards the arguments here. I like to argue, but I don't really see why things should be personal.

Frankly, I think the worst attempt to stifle discussion here in recent memory was the whole "You're a Korean/gyopo" bit that was being used to invalidate a person's points, ironically from supposedly "tolerant" posters, upset at racism and superficiality in Korean culture.
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IPayInCash



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PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 8:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The man has a point. Blackcat certainly makes things personal more often than SR. I think Blackcat has mentioned SR's being adopted and a gyopo more than SR himself has. Thats pretty messed up.
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knee-highs



Joined: 15 Feb 2007
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 8:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

A Montage of Mendacity. The middle-class antics which fill this thread and the equally scintillating collection of threads on this site are wonderful examples of the petty concerns of the less fortunate.

Oh, the Korea Times blah blah blah..!

Oh, my web forum is slowing down!

Oh, my salary is larger than yours!

Oh, I have a cute girlfriend...

As if this endless stream of inane rhetoric and juvenile punditry really makes any difference to the top 1 %.

Still, I once again find my eyes drawn to your tedious attempts at puerile mendacity under a cloak of sagacity. If it were not beneath my status I’d have young Jeong, my manservant, run over to Kim the Oddmongers and purchase some mind altering refreshments to help one decipher the inner workings of your charmingly naive thought processes.
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