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northway
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Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2014 12:13 pm Post subject: |
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| Chaparrastique wrote: |
| northway wrote: |
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| Don't have private conversations in public spaces. |
Korea does not afford any private moments. Everything is conducted under the gaze or hearing of everyone else.
e.g. try to find the right moment to say something private to one of your co-workers? Its virtually impossible. There is barely a second in the day where Koreans are not in a group or talking on the phone. |
Funny, as this is actually one of my favorite aspects of Korean culture. |
it reminds me of waiting for the right moment to ask out a co-worker in a hogwon back in 2007. On the extremely rare moments she was on her own, either her phone rang or other people walked in just as I opened my mouth.
I dedicate this to Ji-Eun.
You don't know how long I have waited
and I was going to tell you tonight
But the secret is still my own
and my love for you is still unknown
Alone
How do I get you alone
How do I get you alone |
This is where another favorite aspect of Korean culture comes into play: the work outing. |
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Squire

Joined: 26 Sep 2010 Location: Jeollanam-do
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Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2014 3:41 am Post subject: |
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| Now I think of it the loudest and most obnoxious Yanks (deal with it) I've came across tended to be from the east coast, with the southerners and west coasters being more laid back and not always speaking with an outside voice. Maybe that's a coincidence but it's just my own experience. |
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cj1976
Joined: 26 Oct 2005
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Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2014 7:26 am Post subject: |
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I haven't found Americans to be any more obnoxious and opinionated than people of other nationalities. There are tools all over the world.
Saying that, they are definitely the loudest and most talkative I have ever met. For a lot of Brits, being too open about your feelings and thoughts is a big no-no, whereas Americans don't seem to have that clause in their social contract.
I sat on a flight to Italy last summer, and behind me were two young Americans. They were not offensive in any way, but they simply could not shut the *beep* up. I kid you not, everyone in that section was eyeballing them as if to say 'give it a rest guys', but they yapped the most banal 'oh my god. Hilarious, dude' crap the entire 4 hour flight.
Americans - generally good people but I wish they came with a mute button sometimes. |
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yodanole
Joined: 02 Mar 2003 Location: La Florida
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wishfullthinkng
Joined: 05 Mar 2010
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Posted: Sun Jun 29, 2014 5:35 pm Post subject: |
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i had a guy i was talking to in south africa call americans yanks. he held a high disdain for them.
but yes, the general consensus is that americans, australians and canadians tend to be loud, yappy and interrupting. |
General consensus of which group? |
in my travels, universal. and i've been to almost every continent. |
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drcrazy
Joined: 19 Feb 2003 Location: Pusan. Yes, that's right. Pusan NOT Busan. I ain't never been to no place called Busan
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Posted: Sun Jun 29, 2014 9:05 pm Post subject: |
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I, an American, have been in a gazillion department meetings over my many years in Korea. I have found that regardless of nationality, they all, except for me, tend to be quite equal in how much the talk/butt in. In my case, I try to wait for a pause before saying something in order to be polite. Therefore, I have rarely ever said a thing at a meeting.  |
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Stain
Joined: 08 Jan 2014
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Posted: Mon Jun 30, 2014 6:11 am Post subject: |
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| wishfullthinkng wrote: |
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| wishfullthinkng wrote: |
i had a guy i was talking to in south africa call americans yanks. he held a high disdain for them.
but yes, the general consensus is that americans, australians and canadians tend to be loud, yappy and interrupting. |
General consensus of which group? |
in my travels, universal. and i've been to almost every continent. |
Ok, agreed. But only those countries? |
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