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10 months in, I feel like a failure.
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brento1138



Joined: 17 Nov 2004

PostPosted: Sun Jan 15, 2006 7:28 pm    Post subject: Re: 10 months in, I feel like a failure. Reply with quote

You aren't a horrible teacher. Language is a hard thing to learn. In a way, I am much like that little kid you bumped into on your walk to work. I take Korean classes, and learn all these neat little phrases. In class, I can perform OK... not amazing, but I can at least repeat, then say, and sometimes even correctly respond to the teacher in Korean.

However, when I find myself trying to use it in daily life, I too freeze up and forget exactly what I am supposed to say. Learning a language is tough stuff, at least for most people... don't worry, your student must have been out of the classroom environment and couldn't switch to "english thinking mode" quick enough.
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jajdude



Joined: 18 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 4:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

10 months in and feel like a failure? Not a big deal.

Now if you are like me, and over 8 years in, and know you are failure, ..... may be a problem.
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Wrench



Joined: 07 Apr 2005

PostPosted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 4:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

jajdude wrote:
10 months in and feel like a failure? Not a big deal.

Now if you are like me, and over 8 years in, and know you are failure, ..... may be a problem.


LOL
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Rteacher



Joined: 23 May 2005
Location: Western MA, USA

PostPosted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 5:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've concluded that most students learn very little from my explanations presented from the front of class unless I go up to each kid one-on-one to make sure they're getting it (while engaging the rest of the class in some busy activity...)
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jajdude



Joined: 18 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 4:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wrench wrote:
jajdude wrote:
10 months in and feel like a failure? Not a big deal.

Now if you are like me, and over 8 years in, and know you are failure, ..... may be a problem.


LOL


Also, when I look in the mirror, I say..... Damn who is that ugly basturd
?

And I would have called in sick but could not find the phone. Or may have gotten up early but could not find the floor.
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UncleAlex



Joined: 04 Apr 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 6:10 am    Post subject: A Total Failure? Reply with quote

If it's any consolation, high school students are the same.
The problem is that students are set in a passive mode of
learning here at a very young age. The school system has
taught them just to listen to what is being said by the master
or mistress of the classroom. As a result, the children here
lack the discipline to formulate their own thoughts and express
what they know by synthesising the information they have been
exposed to. Active learning and creative activity is scarce in
Korean elementary schools and practically non-existent in the
secondary sector. When we try to engage in a relatively lengthy
conversation with our students, it's not just shyness or the fear
of making boo boos, but a feeling of strangeness, that bottles the
kids up. It's our job not just to teach English, but to teach kids
how to learn English or any second language for that matter. Cool
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib

PostPosted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 8:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, lately I've been loading up my classes with questions. I ask a million and one questions, and insist that the better students do not translate for the weaker ones. To my surprise, the students are doing pretty well. I think perhaps I was just blowing everything out of proportion.

Even the student I mentioned in the OP has been very responsive. I saw her again today on the way to school and she was playing with friends. I asked if she was having fun and she said, "Yeah!" So, that's a good sign. Perhaps the other time, she was just out of it since it was still early.

So, I'm gonna keep asking more questions. Questions galore.
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Yu_Bum_suk



Joined: 25 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 3:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Argh, yesterday another huge disappointment. I was getting my hair cut at one of my student's mother's shop and my student just flat-lined in front of her mother. She's one of my grade one vocational students who's not too bad for a vocational student and usually tries hard and is eager to participate in class. I was hoping that she could at least translate a few basic instructions but no, I was stuck to miming again.

Then right afterward I ran into the vice-principal's daughter and we had a two-minute conversation. Have to take the good with the bad, I guess.
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I_Am_Wrong



Joined: 14 Sep 2004
Location: whatever

PostPosted: Thu Jan 19, 2006 10:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's interesting how it works, sometimes the very best students simply "forget" outside of the classroom because they haven't had the out of class practise.

I won't forget the worst grade 5 student at my Elementary School last year in Suwon. He was a nice kids (as they generally are), however, he never listened to any teachers in the school. His writing on the desk was so problematic that his homeroom teacher eventually glued thick cardboard paper to his desk so he couldn't write on it etc.

One day after school I was waiting at a crosswalk and he ran up and was waiting too. I said "hello" to him and he replied with "annyeong haseyo teacha." I then asked him, "What are you doing?" He turned to me with a huge smile, pointed across the street and said, "I go to PC room!!!" Not perfect, not great, but I was amazed that this kid that every teacher in the school has written off as a failure understood me without a problem and even gave an answer almost as good as students that did pay attention and study.

Don't worry about it and don't see yourself as a failure.
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aisainmind



Joined: 08 Jan 2006

PostPosted: Thu Jan 19, 2006 12:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't worry about it, and most of all don't blame yourself, she is just a kid. What do you want her to say to her teacher? How was breakfast? Think about what you said to your teachers in the hallway when you were in grade 6. Don't blame yourself, you sound like a great teacher.
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Zaphirelee



Joined: 09 Dec 2005

PostPosted: Thu Jan 19, 2006 4:24 pm    Post subject: Games Reply with quote

There is actually a large body of research that shows that games can be an effective teaching tool in the classroom. Students who are more relaxed actually learn more than students who aren't. I teach young learners but even older learners enjoy the occassional game. If you link what you are teaching to the game it is often easier to get the students to pay closer attention to the other student's conversation practice.
My students from four years ago come up to me and initiate full conversations about their current lives. Some of these students haven't seen me for two years, but they can tell me about the things they think are important.
Other students also embarrass me by forgetting how to say hello, but those students have only been studying English for a few months. Time, experience, and good teaching make a difference. Middle School students tend to be shy and if Mom is there, forget it.
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