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oldtactics
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| Wait, what? Did your girlfriend take all 21 pills at once? |
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Fishead soup
Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea
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| Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 7:33 pm Post subject: |
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Best form of birth control
CIM |
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mayorgc
Joined: 19 Oct 2008
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| Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 8:31 pm Post subject: |
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haha, just kidding.
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Fishead soup
Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea
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| Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 9:03 pm Post subject: |
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| mayorgc wrote: |
she's not late. the problem is that we were fooling around without rubbers way too close to the date of her eggs being released.
I wasn't able to get the otc stuff to her, the 3 day period has come and gone. I'm just gonna give her the otc stuff for next time, incase something similar happens. But i ain't ever gonna let something like this happen again. and i think the otc stuff was just birth control pills or something. i have no clue, they're in korean.
and CIM isn't an option for me. I don't think she'd be down with that. CIB though........
haha, just kidding. |
Don't give up on the idea. Almost anything is possible. |
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RJjr
Joined: 17 Aug 2006
Location: Turning on a Lamp
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| Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 11:35 pm Post subject: |
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As a guy who has been there done that, try not to sweat it too much. Yet anyway.
Looking back on any of your conversations with her, do you feel like she might be trying to get pregnant? With the economy getting bad, she might be looking to trap a sugar daddy. Again, been there done that got the t-shirt.
Folks here are right when they say that you should wear condoms. And don't just rely only on condoms. Guys who bust nuts up in chicks, even with condoms, are crazy too. Wearing protection and pulling out is the way to go.
If it ends up that she's pregnant, I'd wait to before telling your parents. One of my buds had a girlfriend that was pregnant. He's really open-minded, so she was comfortable with him knowing she other boyfriends, but the other two guys thought they were her one and only. He and his brother had never met their father, so my friend was going to be at the hospital to always be there for his kid from the start if it was in fact his. Well, the other two guys were there too, so there were three men and one mama. The other two guys got upset and the scene got so ugly that all of them, except for the mom and baby, got thrown out of the hospital. It ended up not being his.
Women sleep around like crazy. They're almost as bad as we are. |
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mayorgc
Joined: 19 Oct 2008
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| Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 11:43 pm Post subject: |
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a ho or anything.
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tzechuk
Joined: 20 Dec 2004
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| Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 12:48 am Post subject: |
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Are you old enough to be a sugar daddy?
LOL. |
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Xuanzang
Joined: 10 Apr 2007
Location: Sadang
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| Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 1:02 am Post subject: |
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| RJjr wrote: |
As a guy who has been there done that, try not to sweat it too much. Yet anyway.
If it ends up that she's pregnant, I'd wait to before telling your parents. One of my buds had a girlfriend that was pregnant. He's really open-minded, so she was comfortable with him knowing she other boyfriends, but the other two guys thought they were her one and only. He and his brother had never met their father, so my friend was going to be at the hospital to always be there for his kid from the start if it was in fact his. Well, the other two guys were there too, so there were three men and one mama. The other two guys got upset and the scene got so ugly that all of them, except for the mom and baby, got thrown out of the hospital. It ended up not being his.
Women sleep around like crazy. They're almost as bad as we are. |
Sounds like a more interesting version of Three Men and a Baby. |
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aboxofchocolates
Joined: 21 Mar 2008
Location: on your mind
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| Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 3:24 am Post subject: |
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Condom's a guy's only version of birth control that I know of. They won't give you a vasectomy until you're older (go ahead and ask just to find out). If I was a guy I'd wear a full body condom holding hands at the movies. Not to mention the whole trust issue. Trust is about time (or VD tests). I figure the more innocent/ignorant the woman, the more danger there is she did not protect herself during her "one and only" indescretion and it is more likely she is too ashamed to tell other people about it. If she's hot and balsy enough to date a foreigner, condoms or VD test. But I bet you thought of that, so look up IUD- I think I read on a thread here someone got one at yongsei hospital. And do panic. It's good for the soul and it will get you internet searching birth control options.
Are there any forms of birth control out there for guys? |
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Xuanzang
Joined: 10 Apr 2007
Location: Sadang
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| Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 4:30 am Post subject: |
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| haha I dont think asking a girl to do a STD test will go down very well. |
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aboxofchocolates
Joined: 21 Mar 2008
Location: on your mind
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| Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 9:06 am Post subject: |
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| Xuanzang wrote: |
| haha I dont think asking a girl to do a STD test will go down very well. |
Definitely not a request you make on the first date. Korea seems like a time bomb of STD potential, though. Most guys hate using condoms, women are submissive and lie about their sexual experience (hymen replacement used to outnumber eye jobs in plastic surgeries) and some other pseudo-fact to make three reasons because three reasons sounds better. It's just nerve wracking hearing my guy friends say they are suprised this girl or that girl would sleep with them, she seemed like such an innocent girl. And that they're not worried about STDs because she told him he was his first or she only had one other partner or some such nonesense. Yikes. If a person is willing to sleep with you without a condom or an STD test, then you need a condom. It's the catch 22 of the sexually active world. Hey, maybe the woman is honest and only did sleep with one other guy, but he could be a cheater. Or she could have been sexually assaulted and is too ashamed or confused to admit it. and so on. Point is, you don't want a VD, use a condom or get a test. |
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mole
Joined: 06 Feb 2003
Location: Act III
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| Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 10:07 am Post subject: |
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Been a while, but one K-gal I dated admitted one time that she and her friends believed until COLLEGE that babies are delivered through the navel.
Naive. For sure. |
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cdninkorea
Joined: 27 Jan 2006
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 11:08 pm Post subject: |
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| RJjr wrote: |
As a guy who has been there done that, try not to sweat it too much. Yet anyway.
Looking back on any of your conversations with her, do you feel like she might be trying to get pregnant? With the economy getting bad, she might be looking to trap a sugar daddy. Again, been there done that got the t-shirt.
Folks here are right when they say that you should wear condoms. And don't just rely only on condoms. Guys who bust nuts up in chicks, even with condoms, are crazy too. Wearing protection and pulling out is the way to go.
If it ends up that she's pregnant, I'd wait to before telling your parents. One of my buds had a girlfriend that was pregnant. He's really open-minded, so she was comfortable with him knowing she other boyfriends, but the other two guys thought they were her one and only. He and his brother had never met their father, so my friend was going to be at the hospital to always be there for his kid from the start if it was in fact his. Well, the other two guys were there too, so there were three men and one mama. The other two guys got upset and the scene got so ugly that all of them, except for the mom and baby, got thrown out of the hospital. It ended up not being his.
Women sleep around like crazy. They're almost as bad as we are. |
You have such great stories, RJjr. You need to write a book or make a blog or something. Like this guy: http://www.tuckermax.com |
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Jammer113
Joined: 13 Oct 2008
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| My girl isn't ovulating yet |
How will you know when she's ovulating? That's the whole problem to begin with. She SHOULD start ovulating on day 14-17. It's COMMON to ovulate day 11-21. It's POSSIBLE to ovulate at any time (information courtesy of the internet).
The only way you know is by checking daily temperatures, checking the cervix, or perhaps by checking hormone balances (not sure if it's possible). An ultra-cool way to know would be to set up little mini-cameras next to the ovaries, and watch for eggs to come out. |
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aboxofchocolates
Joined: 21 Mar 2008
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| Posted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 5:26 pm Post subject: |
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| Jammer113 wrote: |
| An ultra-cool way to know would be to set up little mini-cameras next to the ovaries, and watch for eggs to come out. |
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