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ldh2222
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| Give her swine flu. I kid. |
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AmericanExile
Joined: 04 May 2009
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| Posted: Tue May 26, 2009 11:58 am Post subject: |
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| I think the OP is only giving us one side of the story. HIS side. |
There aren't two sides to "I don't wish to live with someone anymore."
It is the expression of a personal desire. She might be the best human being to walk the planet (if you could judge such things), but so what? |
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oldfatfarang
Joined: 19 May 2005
Location: On the road to somewhere.
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I got rid of a K. 'visa' girl simply by not eating with her. Refusing to eat with an Asian is a huge insult (and serious loss of face). It took a while for her to get it, i.e., me not wanting to go into restaurants, her ordering restaurant food and then me leaving her to eat it alone (in public), and me eating my dinner alone at home (with her having to order in K food). Eating alone is 'social death' for Koreans (and also in many other Asian cultures.)
Sounds cruel, but I was painfully aware of the trouble she could have caused me in my small town private school (everybody's related around here).
Op., remember: "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" or, as a K. woman once told me, "Korean women can make it snow in summer!" Be warned, and good luck. |
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Robot_Teacher
Joined: 18 Feb 2009
Location: Robotting Around the World
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| Posted: Wed May 27, 2009 1:49 am Post subject: |
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Careful, now she's on a vindictive war path and you're it. Heads up. Best of luck to you in your single life.  |
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Xerxes
Joined: 10 Jan 2006
Location: Down a certain (rabbit) hole, apparently
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Wow, Keepongoing, I bow in thy general direction. A troll of greater ability and luck I have not seen. OP a week ago and not one reply since. The guy wrote this at 3am. You have these flashes in the morning after, when the �oh, my God, what did I do� or �Why do I put up with this sh!t� sinks in. Not at 3am, probably after a probing.
Shhhhsh, scatttttt, shoooooo
Away with you, troll. |
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Cheonmunka
Joined: 04 Jun 2004
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| Posted: Wed May 27, 2009 1:50 pm Post subject: |
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Naivety is a word.
I agree with your sentiments btw.
I remember when I was young and naive had the stalker girlfriend and if I found it hard to say 'no' and didn't know how to lickedy-split would have ended up in a really morose situation.
It's like, you don't realise at first how odd the person is. She becomes that way only after the fact when it's almost too late. |
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Mr. Pink
Joined: 21 Oct 2003
Location: China
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So what happened?
I don't like to say it, but the way I got rid of a Korean gf was by telling her I was going back home forever. She didn't live with me, though she certainly spent every damn holiday sleeping 24hrs in my apartment.
My past experience and stories on this board make me realize my wife is a gem of a Korean woman. A very rare find. No psycho or abnormal crap in almost 10yrs of marriage. |
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Sector7G
Joined: 24 May 2008
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| Posted: Wed Jun 03, 2009 6:30 pm Post subject: |
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| AmericanExile wrote: |
| 3MB wrote: |
| I think the OP is only giving us one side of the story. HIS side. |
There aren't two sides to "I don't wish to live with someone anymore."
It is the expression of a personal desire. She might be the best human being to walk the planet (if you could judge such things), but so what? |
True! |
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