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CentralCali



Joined: 17 May 2007

PostPosted: Fri Jul 03, 2015 2:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Who's Your Daddy? wrote:
Really, audited? I sent a few hundred thousand dollars to Canada in one transaction when I left, and nothing happened.


California's not Canada. Canada, of course, being a much nicer outfit to deal with.
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Died By Bear



Joined: 13 Jul 2010
Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee

PostPosted: Fri Jul 03, 2015 3:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

hogwonguy1979 wrote:
dhan89 I love your attitude, came in explored made some good coin, discovered what you didn't like about the place and how those cons outweighed the pros and decided to take the money and run,

you don't sound regretful you sound like you had a decent time but realized it wasn't your cup of tea, have no regrets coming or going.

for that I raise my bottle of Gatorade to you. You had a great learning experience.

cheers!!!!



AGREED. Great posts, thanks for being honest, good luck and glad you're 'goin back to Cali...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FdizL4on-Rc
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IBD



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 03, 2015 10:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Malislamusrex wrote:
You seem being bitter because you failed. I'm amused with your thread trying to convince everyone Korea isn't a good place because you didn't have what it takes.

dhan89 wrote:
Malislamusrex wrote:
dhan89 is the coolest. He said so. It must be true. I am now so envy.


hahaha. i'm officially done with this thread... have a good one guys.

Don't be a sour puss. At the end of the day, you sleep alone with your thoughts...

GYOPO, OUT.


He "FAILED"?
REALLY?

He failed by not staying in Korea and teaching English as a lifetime career.

Wow....just......wow..... "failed"......wow....literally no words.


Yikes.

I think anyone can teach conversational English in Korea. The OP didn't fail as I'm sure he could have continued to teach somewhere (but unlike the majority of lifers he had better options back home). After all the requirements are rock bottom for a reason. That was the root cause as to why I left. No matter how good I got at my job or how much money I made, I was still in the same boat as socially inept Scott from manitoba with his distance MA TESOL from nowhere university or Mike the kindy teacher alcoholic frat boy from Atlanta that spent 3-4 days a week getting lit up. I applaud the OP. He came, experienced, saved and left which is what most Koreans expect of waeguks anyway. That is, you LEAVE. You don't unigwon teach for a decades expecting K society owes you something and that is what a lot of lifers unfortunately do when in reality, they are screwed for job prospects in any developed country.

The OPs tone may be a little immature but the hater fest that ensued says a lot more about the numerous losers that post on this forum.
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dhan89



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 04, 2015 11:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

bump Smile

all the guys who seem to have a rational mind and response, thank you for your input...

all the guys who are bitterly attacking me and trying to falsify my claims and experiences, that's fine, too... just plz remember that Koreans there don't really care at all about your unwavering support to their system of literally scraping the bottom of the barrel to find the least qualified people to teach English.

That's not to say that only basic educated individuals come to Korea... I think a lot of smart and intelligent and educated people come here only to realize that most places don't really care about the active enrichment of students english education... priority is on money and parents and the eternal show... this, I find, is the biggest disillusionment.... but some people actually enjoy the drab work environment because all you need to do is speak english and make kids happy...

As an expat, you realize that these Koreans will never give you the proper respect as a teacher because to their eyes you are all replaceable... always. because there are always younger and newer and naive people to find.... so if you don't follow their system, then they'll be happy to replace you.... but you still gotta suck it up and accept it because it is your job...

I mean if you guys even watch the Korean drama Misaeng, you will see how ridiculous Korea is... even if this drama is entertainment, people watch this and accept this as that status quo of korean work environment, OUTDATED Confucius ideology warped up in modernization... this is how Koreans think.... everything about korea sucks and it begins with the people>communication>work environment..... again, if you love Korea, that is awesome, seriously, I'm glad for you...

I knew this coming into all of this, I know Koreans..... and I had never ever had the intentions to do like a 3-5 year stint. are you crazy? I'd kill myself.. I had a good 10-12 month opportunity here so I just did that... Sure, I could've done another year but why the F would in my right mind do that when I could go back home with the money I made and continue with the life I had in California...

I don't think most people find teaching english in Korea as a forever thing... sure, you can if you want but why would you???? Korea sucks in so many ways compared to America and that's not to just rub it in people's faces. If you disagree that's fine but I'd recommend going to psychiatrist to get checked up for masochism...


All the comments about "I failed....", "I couldn't handle it...." makes me lulz so hard because it only proves that you have some hardcore internal cognitive dissonance going on.... I am openly saying that this was my own experience and yet you are saying that it wasn't my own experience because you're adding your own set of reality and opinion into my own experience.... it makes no sense.... and yes the only way I can express this is that you are HARDCORE HATING..... so stop the lulz, save some cash, and hopefully make it back in one psychologically fit piece..

payce.
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trueblue



Joined: 15 Jun 2014
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 05, 2015 12:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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bump Smile

all the guys who seem to have a rational mind and response, thank you for your input...

all the guys who are bitterly attacking me and trying to falsify my claims and experiences, that's fine, too... just plz remember that Koreans there don't really care at all about your unwavering support to their system of literally scraping the bottom of the barrel to find the least qualified people to teach English.

That's not to say that only basic educated individuals come to Korea... I think a lot of smart and intelligent and educated people come here only to realize that most places don't really care about the active enrichment of students english education... priority is on money and parents and the eternal show... this, I find, is the biggest disillusionment.... but some people actually enjoy the drab work environment because all you need to do is speak english and make kids happy...

As an expat, you realize that these Koreans will never give you the proper respect as a teacher because to their eyes you are all replaceable... always. because there are always younger and newer and naive people to find.... so if you don't follow their system, then they'll be happy to replace you.... but you still gotta suck it up and accept it because it is your job...

I mean if you guys even watch the Korean drama Misaeng, you will see how ridiculous Korea is... even if this drama is entertainment, people watch this and accept this as that status quo of korean work environment, OUTDATED Confucius ideology warped up in modernization... this is how Koreans think.... everything about korea sucks and it begins with the people>communication>work environment..... again, if you love Korea, that is awesome, seriously, I'm glad for you...

I knew this coming into all of this, I know Koreans..... and I had never ever had the intentions to do like a 3-5 year stint. are you crazy? I'd kill myself.. I had a good 10-12 month opportunity here so I just did that... Sure, I could've done another year but why the F would in my right mind do that when I could go back home with the money I made and continue with the life I had in California...

I don't think most people find teaching english in Korea as a forever thing... sure, you can if you want but why would you???? Korea sucks in so many ways compared to America and that's not to just rub it in people's faces. If you disagree that's fine but I'd recommend going to psychiatrist to get checked up for masochism...


All the comments about "I failed....", "I couldn't handle it...." makes me lulz so hard because it only proves that you have some hardcore internal cognitive dissonance going on.... I am openly saying that this was my own experience and yet you are saying that it wasn't my own experience because you're adding your own set of reality and opinion into my own experience.... it makes no sense.... and yes the only way I can express this is that you are HARDCORE HATING..... so stop the lulz, save some cash, and hopefully make it back in one psychologically fit piece..

payce.


BOOOOM!

Well said.
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CentralCali



Joined: 17 May 2007

PostPosted: Sun Jul 05, 2015 12:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

dhan89 wrote:
bump Smile


That's twice (at least) you've been back after you were "Out of here [the thread]".

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all the guys who are bitterly attacking me and trying to falsify my claims and experiences, that's fine, too...


And why did you "bitterly attack" others when you first came to this site?

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just plz remember that Koreans there don't really care at all about your unwavering support to their system of literally scraping the bottom of the barrel to find the least qualified people to teach English.


That's something that only a pretentious jerk would post.

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I knew this coming into all of this, I know Koreans


No. As a gyopo, you merely think you know Koreans.

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All the comments about "I failed....", "I couldn't handle it...." makes me lulz so hard because it only proves that you have some hardcore internal cognitive dissonance going on


Do yourself a favor. Make a two-column chart. In one column, list your attacks on others when you first appeared on this site. In the other column, list the attacks on you in this thread. Then go get some help.

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I am openly saying that this was my own experience and yet you are saying that it wasn't my own experience because you're adding your own set of reality and opinion into my own experience.... it makes no sense.... and yes the only way I can express this is that you are HARDCORE HATING..... so stop the lulz, save some cash, and hopefully make it back in one psychologically fit piece..

payce.


More pretentious jerk writing.

By the way, a number of us came into the field of teaching English as a second or even third career, after doing well in the previous career(s). A number of us enjoyed our time in Korea, for the most part. And a number of us are quite happy with our current situation. You, on the other hand, seem to have some need to over-generalize in your comments about non-gyopos. Maybe that should tell you something.
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trueblue



Joined: 15 Jun 2014
Location: In between the lines

PostPosted: Sun Jul 05, 2015 1:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

O.P., don't mind Central Cali...he is just too awesome for you.
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Malislamusrex



Joined: 01 Feb 2010

PostPosted: Sun Jul 05, 2015 2:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I agree with what Cali said. Every single paragraph is a passive aggressive 'you are in Korea and a pathetic English teacher'. The comment I made, 'you failed' is exactly what dhan89 has been trying to say about every English teacher.
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swashbuckler



Joined: 20 Nov 2010

PostPosted: Sun Jul 05, 2015 6:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

CentralCali wrote:
And a number of us are quite happy with our current situation.


If so, then why do you thing (and others) feel the need to log into an anonymous internet forum everyday to defend it against others? That in itself reeks of insecurity. If you (and others) so "happy" here and truly enjoy living in Korea then can't you (or others) find more interesting things to do in your free time?
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CentralCali



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 05, 2015 7:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

^Try again, this time making sense.
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PRagic



Joined: 24 Feb 2006

PostPosted: Sun Jul 05, 2015 5:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

A couple of points require some clarification. First, there seems to be a pervasive misconception that 'lifer' ESL teachers are for some reason losers who couldn't find jobs, and by extention, careers, in their home countries.

There are two problems with this: first, teaching ESL is by nature a field in which you go where the students and the jobs exist. Sure, there are ESL teaching jobs in N. American, Europe, Australia, etc, but by and large the bulk of the jobs are overseas. It stands to reason that many ESL teaching professionals work abroad long term, particularly if they can make and bank more, and take advantage of other opportunities afforded by expat life. Not all jobs are overseas, and, indeed, there are a great number of ESL teachers working at the primary, secondary, and post secondary levels back in their home countries, or in language institutes there.

Second, the asssumption, particularly on this thread, is that all lifers are stuck in a kindy or kiddy teaching rut out of which there is no escape. Again, not true. Some do teach in institutes for personal or professional reasons, but many get qualified, get experienced, and do entire careers teaching at the university level; some even take it a step further and go on to become head teachers or program directors.

So comparing the OP with 'lifer' professionals here is comparing apples and oranges. The OP had no related degree, no qualifications, and no experience, so he took an entry level gig teaching kids that paid well enough but piled on the hours and BS (e.g. dealing with parents and the hagwon market in general). He had an entry and exit strategy, and is now back 'home' presumably pursuing his original career path. Good on him. Most of the 'lifers', however, and this is 100% the case with the people I know in the field, have or get related degrees, including MAs, plus additional certifications, and choose to make teaching a career. Good on them, too.

If you shape your career tradjectory, there is no reason to assume a salary cap given the myriad possibilities available here and in other ESL markets (e.g. writing, editing, recording, privates), and many prefer the free time afforded by teaching compared to, say, working a 9-5 (best case scenario for those making actual money in corporate land).

As for living in Korea? Ask ten people and get ten different opinions. Personally, the culure, the language, and the food all work for me. Plus, we can travel extensively given the nature of my job, as can most working in university, and to a lesser extent, public school. I've said it before: Korea has been VERY good to us, and it has been very good to a great number of my 'lifer' friends.

I've also known a number of people who took the OP's route; they came over, did a year or two, banked some case and paid off some student loans, then went back home and got into their chosen career fields. Most are doing remarkably well, and all have good memories of the time they spent here. Korea was good to them, too, just shorter term. One guy is a regional marekting director with a Fortune 500 computer firm, one is a VP at one of Canada's largest banks, one tree-hugger runs his own spa and retreat with his better half, and a couple are ESL program directors at unviersities in the US and Canada. I've known a couple, including myself, who transitioned out of ESL after a few years and into main stream academe.

What's the common thread? Don't put anyone down because of the career they've chosen if they're happy with their decision. Horses for courses. Different strokes for different folks. Not everywhere is for everyone, and not every job is for everyone. Optimistically, anyone can build upon their education, experience, and networks, and hope to earn more as their career progresses. But not everyone is overly converned with 'earining more', and we get that. That's cool, too.
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 05, 2015 6:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

A assume OP is a Californian Gyopo.
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PRagic



Joined: 24 Feb 2006

PostPosted: Sun Jul 05, 2015 7:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

No need to assume. He was forthcoming with that information.
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dhan89



Joined: 24 May 2012
Location: Los Angeles

PostPosted: Sun Jul 05, 2015 10:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

PRagic wrote:
A couple of points require some clarification. First, there seems to be a pervasive misconception that 'lifer' ESL teachers are for some reason losers who couldn't find jobs, and by extention, careers, in their home countries.

There are two problems with this: first, teaching ESL is by nature a field in which you go where the students and the jobs exist. Sure, there are ESL teaching jobs in N. American, Europe, Australia, etc, but by and large the bulk of the jobs are overseas. It stands to reason that many ESL teaching professionals work abroad long term, particularly if they can make and bank more, and take advantage of other opportunities afforded by expat life. Not all jobs are overseas, and, indeed, there are a great number of ESL teachers working at the primary, secondary, and post secondary levels back in their home countries, or in language institutes there.

Second, the asssumption, particularly on this thread, is that all lifers are stuck in a kindy or kiddy teaching rut out of which there is no escape. Again, not true. Some do teach in institutes for personal or professional reasons, but many get qualified, get experienced, and do entire careers teaching at the university level; some even take it a step further and go on to become head teachers or program directors.

So comparing the OP with 'lifer' professionals here is comparing apples and oranges. The OP had no related degree, no qualifications, and no experience, so he took an entry level gig teaching kids that paid well enough but piled on the hours and BS (e.g. dealing with parents and the hagwon market in general). He had an entry and exit strategy, and is now back 'home' presumably pursuing his original career path. Good on him. Most of the 'lifers', however, and this is 100% the case with the people I know in the field, have or get related degrees, including MAs, plus additional certifications, and choose to make teaching a career. Good on them, too.

If you shape your career tradjectory, there is no reason to assume a salary cap given the myriad possibilities available here and in other ESL markets (e.g. writing, editing, recording, privates), and many prefer the free time afforded by teaching compared to, say, working a 9-5 (best case scenario for those making actual money in corporate land).

As for living in Korea? Ask ten people and get ten different opinions. Personally, the culure, the language, and the food all work for me. Plus, we can travel extensively given the nature of my job, as can most working in university, and to a lesser extent, public school. I've said it before: Korea has been VERY good to us, and it has been very good to a great number of my 'lifer' friends.

I've also known a number of people who took the OP's route; they came over, did a year or two, banked some case and paid off some student loans, then went back home and got into their chosen career fields. Most are doing remarkably well, and all have good memories of the time they spent here. Korea was good to them, too, just shorter term. One guy is a regional marekting director with a Fortune 500 computer firm, one is a VP at one of Canada's largest banks, one tree-hugger runs his own spa and retreat with his better half, and a couple are ESL program directors at unviersities in the US and Canada. I've known a couple, including myself, who transitioned out of ESL after a few years and into main stream academe.

What's the common thread? Don't put anyone down because of the career they've chosen if they're happy with their decision. Horses for courses. Different strokes for different folks. Not everywhere is for everyone, and not every job is for everyone. Optimistically, anyone can build upon their education, experience, and networks, and hope to earn more as their career progresses. But not everyone is overly converned with 'earining more', and we get that. That's cool, too.


Thank you.. you kind of took what was at the tip of my tongue but couldn't really elucidate. That's what I'm trying to say as well.... My experience is nowhere near the ideal or holy grail of experience... it was just a personal experience which I wanted to share and gloat some whatever.... and I am proud of it because I stuck with the general plan I had... that being said, it may have come off like I was putting down all lifers... but the negativity here made me more akin to want to put the lifers down... but seriously, like you said... all experiences are apples and oranges. our backgrounds and goals are so different that you can't really compare... I'm just hoping some gyopo kid out of college will read some of these posts 2-3s after this thread and realize that there is a potential that he/she could experience the type of salary, work environment, social communications I had in Korea.... and use it to his/her benefit.... maybe they'll never experience any negative aspects of korea... maybe they will... but at least they'll be aware of another persons experience..

I don't mind the contradictions faced in this thread. For every 100 positive posts about korea, there's always a few that'll question those aspects and I don't mind being the one bringing them up.

But the gist of this all is that hopefully you guys can all fulfill whatever goals and plans you have set from the onset of your careers... good luck,.
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 07, 2015 10:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

dhan89 wrote:
As an expat, you realize that these Koreans will never give you the proper respect as a teacher because to their eyes you are all replaceable... always. because there are always younger and newer and naive people to find.... so if you don't follow their system, then they'll be happy to replace you.... but you still gotta suck it up and accept it because it is your job...


You must be in your 20s. In a few years, you'll realize that your paragraph is true everywhere, whether you're a teacher at Wonderland or a running back for the Cleveland Browns. Eventually, you'll be an older man and you'll sound like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o6O0Q-8-QB4

Until you work for yourself, what you experienced in Gangnam is going to be what you'll experience in California and anywhere else. I'm sure CentralCali didn't get to call the shots during his first 10 months in the US military. He probably had to hear a lot of yelling by drill instructors and do exactly what he was told or face the consequences. When I worked in Corporate America, I wasn't hired on to call the shots. I was hired on to do what I was told to do. I sometimes had to do total bullshit, but I had to do that total bullshit to the best of my ability. Shit rolls downhill and the forces of gravity work the same in California as they do in Gangnam. You'll see.
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