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Fishead soup
Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea
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 Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 6:12 pm Post subject: |
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| Patong Dong wrote: |
Endo:
But again, I'm prefectly willing to admit my own ognorance and if there was a place to meet regular (i.e. non-working girls) in Thailand I'd be pleased.
But so far my sorry ass hasn't.
Well if you're open to this liklehood, why did you feel comfortable calling out the Thais on this matter? Are you impling hooker hill or the anma's have an age matching policy? Call up an escort agent in North America and see if they ask your age or your credit card#. It's everywhere. Buddha bless the Thais for not feeling the need to hide it.
IF there was a place to meet regular girls in Thailand? Did you really think that because you didn't find one as a tourist it didn't exist?
I hope your are sincere in regards to your ignorance on the matter, and as a means to opening your eyes check out some of the aforementioned bars, or if you're a young buck go try your luck in RCA. That's where "regular" young Thais often go to meet. It'll be interesting to see if you're impressed or disappointed by the fact most of them will be there to meet other Thais rather than get swooped up by you. |
I believe that Stickman has written quite a lot about finding regular non working girls in Thailand. Knowing at least some of the language is a plus.
Being a permanent resident is also a plus. The wage of an EFL teacher is pretty low about $500-800 $ a month plus no free apartment. This might take the" handsome man" out of your approach. |
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Scotticus
Joined: 18 Mar 2007
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| Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 8:09 pm Post subject: |
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| Fishead soup wrote: |
If you consider these men losers you would also have to consider Pablo Picasso a loser. He did the first cubist painting after contracting clap in a whorehouse. You might also have to consider Hemingway, James Joyce,
Henry Miller, Vincent Van Gaugh and Edvard Munch as losers. These men all paid for sex numerous times throughout their careers. |
Wow, that is the stupidest argument I've heard to support prostitution yet. That's like saying Michael Vick was a shitty football player because he killed dogs. Or Pete Rose was a bad baseball player because he gambled. One has no connection with the other. Hemingway fucking a *beep* has nothing to do with his quality as a writer.
And I find your comment ironic, especially in Van Gogh's case. By all accounts, he WAS a loser. He was insane and died in poverty. But, once again, his being a loser doesn't change that he was a genius as an artist. |
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kiknkorea
Joined: 16 May 2008
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| Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 9:04 pm Post subject: |
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| Scotticus wrote: |
| Hemingway fucking a *beep* has nothing to do with his quality as a writer. |
I'm curious as to what you were bothering to *beep* out!  |
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Scotticus
Joined: 18 Mar 2007
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| Posted: Wed Feb 18, 2009 8:25 pm Post subject: |
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| kiknkorea wrote: |
| Scotticus wrote: |
| Hemingway fucking a *beep* has nothing to do with his quality as a writer. |
I'm curious as to what you were bothering to *beep* out! |
I didn't bleep it out. Dave's filter is shit. "Fucking" can get through but w-h-o-r-e gets censored. *shrug* |
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crusher_of_heads
Joined: 23 Feb 2007
Location: kimbop and kimchi for kimberly!!!!
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| Posted: Thu Feb 19, 2009 4:32 am Post subject: |
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| Scotticus wrote: |
| Fishead soup wrote: |
If you consider these men losers you would also have to consider Pablo Picasso a loser. He did the first cubist painting after contracting clap in a whorehouse. You might also have to consider Hemingway, James Joyce,
Henry Miller, Vincent Van Gaugh and Edvard Munch as losers. These men all paid for sex numerous times throughout their careers. |
Wow, that is the stupidest argument I've heard to support prostitution yet. That's like saying Michael Vick was a shitty football player because he killed dogs. Or Pete Rose was a bad baseball player because he gambled. One has no connection with the other. Hemingway fucking a *beep* has nothing to do with his quality as a writer.
And I find your comment ironic, especially in Van Gogh's case. By all accounts, he WAS a loser. He was insane and died in poverty. But, once again, his being a loser doesn't change that he was a genius as an artist. |
Wow! Speaking of stupid arguments!
Try reading for context, man. |
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tommy1
Joined: 17 Feb 2008
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| Posted: Thu Feb 19, 2009 6:17 pm Post subject: |
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I'm proud to be a sex tourist! Going to Pattaya next week for a week of debauchery. There is nothing wrong with banging a prostitute if that's your thing. Hey, I meet regular, non-working girls too. I love the ladies  !!!
O.P., get off your moralistic high-horse and enjoy yourself! You'll feel a lot better. Try visiting Pattaya; you'll love it! |
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MissMaggie
Joined: 23 Jan 2009
Location: Jeju
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| Posted: Sun Feb 22, 2009 11:59 pm Post subject: |
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Ideally single digets with a maximum of nine.
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wow. This sentence is amazing. |
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Yu_Bum_suk
Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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| Posted: Mon Feb 23, 2009 10:17 pm Post subject: |
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| This thread's pretty funny. Average Joe with a typical 20-something western dating life, banging an OK but demanding bird, goes to Thailand and sees that any fat, old slob with money can have a way hotter chick than his who'll do whatever he likes. |
I do have to agree with some of what you just said here.
But I am a lot more than your Average Joe as I do quite well for myself with the ladies. Not trying to tute my own horn too much, but that's what makes it more frustrating.
In the normals scheme of things in a place like Seoul I can do quite well. But in Bangkok where there are equally beautiful women, my normal game just doesn't work here.
I'm lost and my inability to taste the forbidden fruit has refocused my negative energy on to the fat slobs with the hot chicks.
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I had a loser friend like the OP describes. Divorced, depressed, having quit a job he was tired of, not highly employable, he went to LOS and fell in love with the first bargirl he met and got engaged. Good Lord, I thought, this poor guy must be falling to pieces.
Fast-forward a few years and he owns a house on the Mekong River, has a PT job that pays the bills and allows them to live comfortably, and a 28-year-old wife who WON'T LET him do the cooking, cleaning, or laundry. I went to visit him and I'm not joking. Meanwhile I'm freezing my ass off in the ROK teaching Korean teenagers the difference between R and L. I have to say that while I'm not quite willing to take that kind of plunge myself, he's a pretty enviable loser. |
Just because I choose to label these guys as losers, it doesn't mean I don't think they could be nice people.
And I hope he's happy......
But I don't know how I could marry a woman who potentially had sex with hundereds of different men. |
You're pretty funny indeed. You say 'I don't know how I could marry a woman who potentially had sex with hundereds of different men' but also 'I am a lot more than your Average Joe as I do quite well for myself'. So, um, do you plan to marry a chick who's also 'done quite well' for herself, and has perhaps slept with hundreds, or at least scores, of other men? Or will you continue to 'do quite well for yourself' and then marry a virgin? Has it ever occured to you that a guy who's slept around an awful lot may also be less desireable to certain types of women looking to marry?
The thing with the touristy areas of Thailand is that the big, young, sexy, charming hunk like you and the fat, bald, divorced loser are basically batting the same odds of scoring a hot chick: 1.000 so long as you've got the cash, less so for you if he's throwing more cash around.
But hey, you're learning a very useful lesson for later in life back in the west. When you're a decade older and thinking of hitching up and starting a family, and when the attractive women who are interesting in doing likewise are apparently staring at your ass, it's probably because they're curious about how thick your wallet is, not what's any further underneath your pants. |
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tiger fancini
Joined: 21 Mar 2006
Location: Testicles for Eyes
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| Posted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 12:48 pm Post subject: |
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| Yu_Bum_suk wrote: |
But hey, you're learning a very useful lesson for later in life back in the west. When you're a decade older and thinking of hitching up and starting a family, and when the attractive women who are interesting in doing likewise are apparently staring at your ass, it's probably because they're curious about how thick your wallet is, not what's any further underneath your pants. |
Well put. My older brother says, "You always pay for it." |
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itaewonguy
Joined: 25 Mar 2003
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| Posted: Sat Mar 07, 2009 4:53 pm Post subject: |
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Everyone is a loser in some way or another!
we are all going to point the finger at someone and call him a loser for what reason springs to mind!
if a widowed man, or a divorced man, or perhaps a fat man who never managed to get a girl during his career back in germany or england or where ever he comes from, comes to thailand and finds a girl who is 20 years old and pays her for companionship then so be it! whats wrong with that! as long as she is not a child.. then so be it..
both are profiting from the relationship!
Im sure if you ask these Thai hookers who they prefer they will probably say almost every time "we like fat old guy" kind, buy me many things and No BOOM BOOM too mut" .
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Fishead soup
Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea
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| Posted: Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:59 pm Post subject: |
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| No one has pointed out that the title of this post is totally wrong. I'm assuming it's about foreigners going to Thailand for sex and not the other way around. The title of this post is assuming that Thai's go to foreign countries for sex. Which the vast majority of them can't afford to do. |
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ReeseDog
Joined: 05 Apr 2008
Location: Classified
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| Posted: Sun Mar 15, 2009 7:31 pm Post subject: |
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You, sir, are a knobber of the highest proportions.
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What's a knobber? |
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Undercover
Joined: 14 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 4:09 pm Post subject: |
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I have a few things to say here.
First, as other posters have mentioned, how do you really know what is going on? You don't, so it is best not to judge. I don't like to give money to the children begging on the street and so once I offered to buy food for a young girl who asked me for money, and I was almost assaulted for doing so. I guess someone like you just got the wrong idea.
Second, I have dated Thai women. I tend to find that the younger women make better girlfriends. They date older men because they want someone who is serious, and someone who will not cheat on them. The women I have dated who are closer to my age often carry too much baggage. Most have difficulty being honest and are usually working an angle.
Just my experience. |
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Undercover
Joined: 14 Nov 2007
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| Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 4:41 pm Post subject: |
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If you want to meet good Thai girls just go to the business district at lunchtime and eat at one of the local Thai outdoor restaurant stalls. There are thousands of good Thai girls who are secretaries, accountants, bookkeepers, etc.
And usually the English is good or good enough. |
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RJjr
Joined: 17 Aug 2006
Location: Turning on a Lamp
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| Posted: Thu Apr 16, 2009 12:34 am Post subject: |
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If a 60 year old man with a hotass 22 year old hooker is a loser, who his age is the winner? Some 60 year old man with a 60 year old fat wife with less hair than he has and poops into a colostomy bag?
There's nothing wrong with going to the massage parlor: wonderful massage, good sex, cold beer, and restful sleep.
As much as I like to have girlfriends, a hooker has never made me sit through a Keanu Reeves movie. A hooker has never told me what she wants for Christmas. A hooker has never told me she wants us to have kids. A hooker has never gotten mad at me and left angry messages on my answering machine. A hooker has never stalked me. A hooker might have kids, but I've never had to be around them. And BEST OF ALL, a hooker has never called me and told me, "I'm late on my period."
There must be something in the human DNA that makes us want to have regular girlfriends in spite of all the bullshit, but the guys banging hoes (especially the old fat guys) are using logic. |
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