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How have we changed?
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How have we changed?
1 year and learning or leaving - ok, but still/ hate
17%
 17%  [ 6 ]
2nd year - know whats going on - more open, but!
11%
 11%  [ 4 ]
3rd year - settling, but still not sure if I am a lifer
20%
 20%  [ 7 ]
4th year - problems? Yeah I had them but!
14%
 14%  [ 5 ]
5th - 100th year - hmm not sure what to say.
35%
 35%  [ 12 ]
Total Votes : 34

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Summer Wine



Joined: 20 Mar 2005
Location: Next to a River

PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 6:26 am    Post subject: How have we changed? Reply with quote

I have changed a lot, I would be willing to make a wager that those who knew me for the first few years would not recognise me if they just heard the conversation today.

I have moved from an agressive to a relaxed position in the years I have been here. Reading other peoples writings on Daves, I thought about my changes and wondered who else has changed.
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RACETRAITOR



Joined: 24 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul, South Korea

PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 6:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've changed very little in my time here. I see it as validation of the person I was four years ago.
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yingwenlaoshi



Joined: 12 Feb 2007
Location: ... location, location!

PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 6:46 am    Post subject: Re: How have we changed? Reply with quote

Summer Wine wrote:
I have changed a lot, I would be willing to make a wager that those who knew me for the first few years would not recognise me if they just heard the conversation today.

I have moved from an agressive to a relaxed position in the years I have been here. Reading other peoples writings on Daves, I thought about my changes and wondered who else has changed.


People don't change. After all, you still think too much.
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Summer Wine



Joined: 20 Mar 2005
Location: Next to a River

PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 6:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
People don't change. After all, you still think too much.


Laughing
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Ginormousaurus



Joined: 27 Jul 2006
Location: 700 Ft. Pulpit

PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 6:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I chose the fourth year option even though it doesn't quite apply to me. Yes, I've been here a little over four years, but I haven't really had any problems.
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as-ian



Joined: 04 Sep 2007
Location: Busan, South Korea

PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 8:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ginormousaurus wrote:
I chose the fourth year option even though it doesn't quite apply to me. Yes, I've been here a little over four years, but I haven't really had any problems.


Ditto. ^_~
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Demophobe



Joined: 17 May 2004

PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 3:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

RACETRAITOR wrote:
I've changed very little in my time here. I see it as validation of the person I was four years ago.


Or a sign of retarded growth. It's unnatural not to change as life goes on, regardless of your environ.
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RACETRAITOR



Joined: 24 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul, South Korea

PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 5:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Demophobe wrote:
RACETRAITOR wrote:
I've changed very little in my time here. I see it as validation of the person I was four years ago.


Or a sign of retarded growth. It's unnatural not to change as life goes on, regardless of your environ.


Why change perfection?
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englishiscrazy



Joined: 17 Jul 2007

PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 5:44 pm    Post subject: i've changed a lot. Reply with quote

i've changed a lot.
positives:
i've adopted some korean traits that i think are good, like family values and staying busy.
living here has given me a better understanding of who i am in this world and the country i came from.
also i'm now addicted to spicy food Very Happy

negatives:
have become more impatient with people that aren't curteous or polite. i have become more synical of koreans' generosity(bribes)
have become more concious of hygene and just won't eat in certain places
Embarassed
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pest2



Joined: 01 Jun 2005
Location: Vancouver, Canada

PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 6:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

88% of the people who voted in this poll have been here longer than a year, but the median amount time the average English teacher makes it in Korea is less than a year... interesting.
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Natalia



Joined: 10 Mar 2006

PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 6:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm from an expat family, so being in Korea didn't really change me - I was prepared for the cultural differences and annoyances (and after India, Korea seemed pretty perfect sometimes...)



I think most people who go to Korea to teach have no plans to stay long term. It's an experience, but not a life change.

I never intended to stay in Korea - there are too many places to visit to get stuck there. I have used my experience teaching in Korea to find ESL work more suitable to my interests in other countries.
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Letiz7



Joined: 29 Jan 2007

PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 6:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Came here early May. Hate it. Leaving on Monday. Byeeeeee.
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Bondrock



Joined: 08 Oct 2006
Location: ^_^

PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 6:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Demophobe wrote:
RACETRAITOR wrote:
I've changed very little in my time here. I see it as validation of the person I was four years ago.


Or a sign of retarded growth. It's unnatural not to change as life goes on, regardless of your environ.


Retarded growth???? what a laugh.
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I'm gonna stick my neck out here and say that like Racetraitor, I have not changed much in my 7+ years in Korea.

Actually, I found that my time in Korea has validated much of who I am and what I espouse.

Subtle change always happens, but once you been through a few big moments and passed the age of idiocy your character becomes pretty entrenched.

I have long passed the age of idiocy: Unlike some who insist on adolescent hate diatribes in their signature-lines.
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Demophobe



Joined: 17 May 2004

PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 7:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Bondrock wrote:

Retarded growth???? what a laugh.


Yeah...English....look into it.
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colonel sanders



Joined: 14 Jun 2007
Location: the middle of the middle of nowhere

PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 8:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

2nd year.

The biggest change for me was being able to redifine myself when I first moved here. I gave up a ton of bad habits for a more healthy lifestyle. If I could only stop binge drinking.........that will never happen in korea.

My disdain for american culture has grown enormously too. I'm not a lifer in korea, but doubt I'll move back to america for any long period of time.
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