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519forlife



Joined: 26 Sep 2006

PostPosted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 12:02 am    Post subject: Why are the doctors here so rude Reply with quote

I went to the hospital and the doctor didn't even want to hear my questions, he just gave me a shot in the butt and said to come back in 3 days for another, he had good English skills so he could have told me what was going on but just brushed me off. Why is that is it the cultural differences?
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The_Eyeball_Kid



Joined: 20 Jun 2007

PostPosted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 12:04 am    Post subject: Re: Why are the doctors here so rude Reply with quote

519forlife wrote:
I went to the hospital and the doctor didn't even want to hear my questions, he just gave me a shot in the butt and said to come back in 3 days for another, he had good English skills so he could have told me what was going on but just brushed me off. Why is that is it the cultural differences?


He maybe didn't like the look of you.
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kermo



Joined: 01 Sep 2004
Location: Eating eggs, with a comb, out of a shoe.

PostPosted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 12:05 am    Post subject: Re: Why are the doctors here so rude Reply with quote

519forlife wrote:
I went to the hospital and the doctor didn't even want to hear my questions, he just gave me a shot in the butt and said to come back in 3 days for another, he had good English skills so he could have told me what was going on but just brushed me off. Why is that is it the cultural differences?


How many times has this happened to you as a percentage of the total?
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Hanson



Joined: 20 Oct 2004

PostPosted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 12:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It has happened to me several times, but I've been here a while. I chalk it up to a sense of entitlement, an affront ('How dare he question me!') and/or a fear of being asked to actually explain something (even in Korean to a Korean), and not being able to.
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RACETRAITOR



Joined: 24 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul, South Korea

PostPosted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 12:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I find Korean doctors to usually be pleasant, and I go to doctors a lot.
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CentralCali



Joined: 17 May 2007

PostPosted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 12:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've been to three different doctors here and all three have been quite pleasant.
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Ya-ta Boy



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994

PostPosted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 12:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Like most of the others, nearly all the doctors I've dealt with have been friendly and happy to explain what was going on...but there was one (from Severance) who was a total jerk. He was visibly offended when I asked him the details of the surgery he was proposing.

Ultimately, he did the surgery and 6 weeks later I had to have another doctor repeat the surgery because the first one didn't complete the job. My conclusion was always that the insecure ones don't like questions because they take it as an afront to their less-than optimum skills.
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boatofcar



Joined: 20 Dec 2006
Location: Sheffield, UK

PostPosted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 12:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I like my doctor here.
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Alyallen



Joined: 29 Mar 2004
Location: The 4th Greatest Place on Earth = Jeonju!!!

PostPosted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 1:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

boatofcar wrote:
I like my doctor here.


Me too...
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Atavistic



Joined: 22 May 2006
Location: How totally stupid that Korean doesn't show in this area.

PostPosted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 1:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's much harder to find a GOOD doctor here than back home in my experience. I've been to countless doctors (moved a lot) and only TWO ever asked me if I had any drug allergies. Ask them what the hell is in the butt shot or packet of five pills they give you and most of them clam up. Ask them ANY sort of question about your health and they act like you've offended them somehow.

I had one doctor say I had unknowingly been infected with Hep (A I think). I said, "I had a vaccine for that, is that what's showing up on the blood test?"

"NO! NO VACCINE! You've had Hep!"

I call bullshit on that doc.

OP, I feel you. Most doctors here are shit.
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Homer
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 3:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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It has happened to me several times, but I've been here a while. I chalk it up to a sense of entitlement, an affront ('How dare he question me!') and/or a fear of being asked to actually explain something (even in Korean to a Korean), and not being able to.


On the track to understanding this behaviour right there...well said Hanson.

I will ad that my current doc (family doc) is great but he is younger too....(early 40s).

My first couple of doctors were older (mid-late 50s) and they worked in the old tradition where a doctor is not to be challenged/questioned. He expects patients to accept his diagnostics and prescriptions out of trust and respect for his knowledge. This is shocking for many of us who are used to docs back home who explain it all in detail and answer any and all questions!!

Just chalk it up to differences in culture and look for a doctor that suits you better! It is not considered rude for the doc by the way so you migth be wasting your outrage here....frustrating but true.
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boatofcar



Joined: 20 Dec 2006
Location: Sheffield, UK

PostPosted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 3:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Homer wrote:

I will ad that my current doc (family doc) is great but he is younger too....(early 40s).

My first couple of doctors were older (mid-late 50s) and they worked in the old tradition where a doctor is not to be challenged/questioned. He expects patients to accept his diagnostics and prescriptions out of trust and respect for his knowledge. This is shocking for many of us who are used to docs back home who explain it all in detail and answer any and all questions!!


I'm sure that has a lot to do with it. My doctor is a young(er) guy too.
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nobbyken



Joined: 07 Jun 2006
Location: Yongin ^^

PostPosted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 5:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Like in Elem. school, the prinvipal is considered big shot number 1.
Many hospitals, especially bigger ones, can have doctors and nurses walking about like big shots who own the place.

In Korea it's considered OK by some old fashioned people to treat people younger, foreign or a lesser job with total contempt.
It can be ignored that you are even a human being.

But more than half the people you meet are fantastic people.

Look for a recommended hospital which puts patients as important customers, and not a hospital which doctors and nurses use as a platform for their outdated ideology.
Many nice doctors out there too.

The rest of the world is the same, to differing extents.
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blaseblasphemener



Joined: 01 Jun 2006
Location: There's a voice, keeps on calling me, down the road, that's where I'll always be

PostPosted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 5:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

my aunt died of breast cancer thanks to a doctor who was too stupid or lazy to do a mamogram on a lump. After that, all regard to doctors as "gods" went in the bin. If I ever get a doctor with a god complex, I'll just assume he's too stupid to know he's not a god, and will find another doctor.
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mole



Joined: 06 Feb 2003
Location: Act III

PostPosted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 5:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think Hanson's right. My first year, a doctor gave me those colorful, yet unidentified packets of pills.
I was asking what each was and what it was for. My Korean coworker looked horrified and said, "Don't question the doctor."
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