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Cheonmunka

Joined: 04 Jun 2004
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 11:55 pm Post subject: Mini-Skirts, and Male Pervs. |
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Summer revisited ...
Just a question which I've always been curious about.
When a woman wears a short skirt, and a guy kind of looks too long or even looks - he might say, 'nice legs' - he will be considered a pervert - the woman might put her hand over her skirt or give him a nasty look. Maybe he'll even get a slap.
Then, why do women wear such short skirts if this is the typical response? I mean, every man and his dog is kind of that way inclined. If they are not worn for the purpose of posing, why are they worn?
Enlighten me, please.
PS: I personally never look. I'm too afraid for that.
PPS: I also don't believe it's because the weather is 'hot.' There are other items of clothes that can be worn, like shorts or long thin-fabric pants. |
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renzobenzo1
Joined: 08 Sep 2007 Location: Suji, Yongin
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Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 12:06 am Post subject: |
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Ummm lemme guess....fashion, for attention from people other than the male species.
To get a cold so she can get time off school/work. |
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rockstarsmooth

Joined: 01 Aug 2006 Location: anyang, baybee!
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Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 12:12 am Post subject: |
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i like to wear short skirts for 2 reasons.
1. i think i look good in them and i like to look good.
2. other people think i look good in short skirts.
i don't mind appreciative glances, but people totally perving out on me? nope. don't like that so much. just 'cause i'm showing some leg doesn't mean i'm gonna show my snatch too.
usually.
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Hank the Iconoclast

Joined: 08 Oct 2007 Location: Busan
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Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 12:44 am Post subject: |
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I think girls like appreciative glances. Gawking is another thing. |
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eamo

Joined: 08 Mar 2003 Location: Shepherd's Bush, 1964.
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Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 2:08 am Post subject: |
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I get a kick out of the girls holding their purse over their ass when going up the subway steps. Like we're all looking. Which, of course, we are!!!
But, sometimes, the skirt isn't even short yet she's protecting her modesty with the purse.
And, I kid you not, I saw one girl wearing jeans do the purse on the bum thing!!! Really! What's going on there?!! |
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butlerian

Joined: 04 Sep 2006 Location: Korea
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Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 2:13 am Post subject: |
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eamo wrote: |
I get a kick out of the girls holding their purse over their ass when going up the subway steps. Like we're all looking. Which, of course, we are!!!
But, sometimes, the skirt isn't even short yet she's protecting her modesty with the purse.
And, I kid you not, I saw one girl wearing jeans do the purse on the bum thing!!! Really! What's going on there?!! |
I know...it's a shame. Nothing wrong with trying to look a bit sexy at times  |
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blurgalurgalurga
Joined: 18 Oct 2007
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Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 3:01 am Post subject: |
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I don't get it...how is admiring the miniskirted a 'perv' thing? As long as one isn't drooling or threatening about it, where's the harm?
'Pervert' is term I reserve for subway frotters, rapers, or those who like dressing up in bit and bridle while squashing hamsters with their bum and getting spanked by a shaved rhesus monkey in a wedding dress.
If somebody wants to pay me a lascivious gaze because I look fine to them, well, whatever. They might be dreaming, but as far as I know that's not illegal yet. |
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BigBuds

Joined: 15 Sep 2005 Location: Changwon
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Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 12:45 pm Post subject: |
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blurgalurgalurga wrote: |
or those who like dressing up in bit and bridle while squashing hamsters with their bum and getting spanked by a shaved rhesus monkey in a wedding dress. |
That made me laugh . |
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SuperFly

Joined: 09 Jul 2003 Location: In the doghouse
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Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 1:18 pm Post subject: |
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eamo wrote: |
And, I kid you not, I saw one girl wearing jeans do the purse on the bum thing!!! Really! What's going on there?!! |
I don't even want to go there.  |
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darkcity

Joined: 13 Sep 2007 Location: SF, CA
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Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 1:20 pm Post subject: |
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i enjoy the occasional mini skirt, provided she's not a fatass, but staring can be a problem. putting myself into a girl's shoes for a moment, i'd be a bit scared if a guy can't take his eyes off me. guys see it as "appreciating the female form" but maybe girls would perceive you as a guy who hasn't been laid in a long, long time and is on the verge of committing rape.
girls seem to have excellent peripheral vision too...when some hot girl in a short, tight dress walks into a room with her head high and gaze locked forward, somehow they can tell in an instant which guys are checking her out...so play her own game...use your own peripheral vision to see if a hot girl walks in the room...purposefully don't bother looking at her. this will piss her off and make her feel unwanted, and in her own stupid attention seeking nature, she'll probably sit next to or near you to make sure you know she exists. at that point, you can start offering her free english lessons if she promises to wear that dress. (kidding)
anyway, it's honestly just a healthier way of life to not check out every girl showing some leg. trust me, i was a big time perv in high school.
and provided you're not actually a creep, the whole "pervert!" response from the girls is just a defense mechanism/insecurity thing...they don't want to admit they're dressing provocatively and that they're TRYING to get a guys attention. they want to think it was all just one big accident and they can't help but be irresistible. girls are so messed up in the head.
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SuperFly

Joined: 09 Jul 2003 Location: In the doghouse
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Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 1:21 pm Post subject: |
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As long as you don't sniff all up inside there, I think looking is fine.  |
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Horangi Munshin

Joined: 06 Apr 2003 Location: Busan
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Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 4:17 pm Post subject: |
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darkcity wrote: |
i enjoy the occasional mini skirt, provided she's not a fatass, but staring can be a problem. putting myself into a girl's shoes for a moment, i'd be a bit scared if a guy can't take his eyes off me. guys see it as "appreciating the female form" but maybe girls would perceive you as a guy who hasn't been laid in a long, long time and is on the verge of committing rape.
girls seem to have excellent peripheral vision too...when some hot girl in a short, tight dress walks into a room with her head high and gaze locked forward, somehow they can tell in an instant which guys are checking her out...so play her own game...use your own peripheral vision to see if a hot girl walks in the room...purposefully don't bother looking at her. this will piss her off and make her feel unwanted, and in her own stupid attention seeking nature, she'll probably sit next to or near you to make sure you know she exists. at that point, you can start offering her free english lessons if she promises to wear that dress. (kidding)
anyway, it's honestly just a healthier way of life to not check out every girl showing some leg. trust me, i was a big time perv in high school.
and provided you're not actually a creep, the whole "pervert!" response from the girls is just a defense mechanism/insecurity thing...they don't want to admit they're dressing provocatively and that they're TRYING to get a guys attention. they want to think it was all just one big accident and they can't help but be irresistible. girls are so messed up in the head. |
There is something to the peripheral vision thing. My photography tutor said women have better peripheral vision and did a quick test with those of us in the class. That was holding out both arms straight with thumbs up and moving your arms backward until they're on the edge of your sight (while you look straight ahead) Some of the women could get there arms well past their shoulders. While us guys could maybe come close to in front of our shoulders. |
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djsmnc

Joined: 20 Jan 2003 Location: Dave's ESL Cafe
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Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 4:44 pm Post subject: |
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darkcity wrote: |
girls seem to have excellent peripheral vision too...when some hot girl in a short, tight dress walks into a room with her head high and gaze locked forward, somehow they can tell in an instant which guys are checking her out...so play her own game...use your own peripheral vision to see if a hot girl walks in the room...purposefully don't bother looking at her. this will piss her off and make her feel unwanted, and in her own stupid attention seeking nature, she'll probably sit next to or near you to make sure you know she exists. at that point, you can start offering her free english lessons if she promises to wear that dress. (kidding)
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I've found that a little glimpse and acknowledgement works as well. It can't be a hip-hop video thug glare though. That only works on ghetto chicks. It has to be a "You wore that because you knew you might run into a guy like me" look. You can't say that though, or you'll be a dork. Staring is tactless and only brings discomfort. Of course, if you know you aren't going to stand any inkling of a chance, I say stare incessantly. If it's the closest you know you're going to get, might as well delight in your own fantasies.
Sorry ladies, that's how some guys minds work. If you don't like it, wear a khemar.
It works both ways as well. When I dress all pretty and metro, I have Asian girls give me that look too. I'm very perceptive though. I read eyes like a hawk. It's so intense that I easily get giddy inside. It can be hard to keep my cool without going all Clark Kent.
When I dress more masculine, I seem to attract more western ladies.
By the way, I'm full of myself. Only on ESL cafe though...usually... |
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kreitler7
Joined: 07 Jan 2005 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 6:19 pm Post subject: |
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OP, I agree 100%.
Obviously we all know that there are some crazy mo' fo' guys out there. Especially in a big city. Why would girls expect that the crazies will be reserved when they can see half of her a*s? Long-stares and gawking are to be expected. Even rude comments should be expected. It's not nice, but it happens. Girls know it happens, but they dress like that anyway. It's so funny when they get pissed off. They are part of the problem. If you don't want negative attention, cover up. But the answer is obvious: girls LOVE the attention. They WANT people gawking at them, because aint' nobody goin' to be doin' that when they are 60.
The reason girls dress in panty-skirts is the same reason that old bald guys drive sports cars: attention.
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kreitler7
Joined: 07 Jan 2005 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 6:32 pm Post subject: |
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And another thing...
Obviously, when guys look at girls wearing a short skirt, we are thinking about sex. Am I right? We're thinking "Man I'd like to tap that!" Am I right?
I would guess that most girls know that guys are thinking that. But the girls say they don't want sex. But they are dressed like a hooker. In many cases, those girls dress the same way that someone who sells sex does.
So, what is it? Why do they do it? A TEASE? That's all it is. Those girls are f*cked in the head. |
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