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Rock
Joined: 25 Feb 2005
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 3:57 am Post subject: You Can't Go Home Again |
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Been over here so long home is really being no where for me. Just wondering, do any of you plan to return to your native home when you finally leave here? How about if all your family had moved elsewhere?
This is what's happened to me. I kind of have roots in Florida but haven't planted any long enough to nourish. My hometown is in Illinois, my second hometown in Seattle, and my third in Florida. But my parents live in Florida and are getting up there, may need to get assistant living soon.
I contemplate James Joyce's novel quite a bit, the one that I think is titled 'You Can't Go Home Again.' |
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Boodleheimer

Joined: 10 Mar 2006 Location: working undercover for the Man
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 4:00 am Post subject: |
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yeah, my parents have each moved around. i don't really have a house that's a home, if you know what i mean. (oh, and my dad's wife is evil. mom's other half doesn't seem too bad, but i don't know him too well.) |
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Boodleheimer

Joined: 10 Mar 2006 Location: working undercover for the Man
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 4:01 am Post subject: |
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oh, and read some Alberto Moravia. same 'can't go home again' idea. |
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Ya-ta Boy
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Established in 1994
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 4:36 am Post subject: |
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Thomas Wolfe's novel of the same name is great. |
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bejarano-korea

Joined: 13 Dec 2006
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 4:42 am Post subject: |
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Also in the Morrissey video 'suedehead' |
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Bibbitybop

Joined: 22 Feb 2006 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 5:33 am Post subject: |
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...where I lay my head is home... |
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silver_butterfly
Joined: 12 Nov 2006 Location: South Korea
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 5:36 am Post subject: |
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I don't have any roots back in my home town, my intention was to emigrate and residing away from my home country was my way of getting my foot in the door to that dream...I just haven't decided where I want to immigrate to yet!! Was thinking Canada........ |
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faster

Joined: 03 Sep 2006
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 6:57 am Post subject: |
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America: Love it or leave it.
I may not stay here, but I'm not going back there most likely. |
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Tiger Beer

Joined: 07 Feb 2003
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 7:29 am Post subject: |
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Ya-ta Boy wrote: |
Thomas Wolfe's novel of the same name is great. |
One of my favorite books. Love the beginning part where Wolf's hometown friends and family are buying up all kinds of real estate by easy-to-get-loans. Then the Great Depression hit.
Great book in general, and I'd agree you 'can't go back home again'.
Everytime I've went back to live in the U.S., I've chosen and new and different city. I'm thinking of Honolulu, Los Angeles or Las Vegas the next time. I'll never go back to my home state of 'Michigan'. |
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Boodleheimer

Joined: 10 Mar 2006 Location: working undercover for the Man
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 4:29 pm Post subject: |
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what i think totally sucks is getting homesick and not having any place to really think about.
yes, that's been happening to me of late. |
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ceesgetdegrees
Joined: 12 Jul 2007
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 4:40 pm Post subject: |
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I like it though, no ties or attatchments, nothing to worry about. It's a bit like that 80's kids show "the littleist hobo" except instead of going round helping people, i'm going round getting drunk and projectile vomiting on them. |
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oldfatfarang
Joined: 19 May 2005 Location: On the road to somewhere.
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 5:45 pm Post subject: |
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"Nothing but the dead and dying in my little town." (Paul Simon). |
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normalcyispasse

Joined: 27 Oct 2006 Location: Yeosu until the end of February WOOOOOOOO
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 6:57 pm Post subject: |
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I probably wouldn't go back to the States but my wife is close to her family there, so I'm sure we'll end up back in America at some juncture. For me, though, the concept of "home" is nebulous at best. |
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lastat06513
Joined: 18 Mar 2003 Location: Sensus amo Caesar , etiamnunc victus amo uni plebian
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 7:20 pm Post subject: |
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I am home now and I hate every second of being here.
I know that as soon as I finish with school, I am gone and I have no plans on ever coming back here ever again...not even if my parents pass away. I know it seems harsh to say something like that, but I am here to try to make the most out of having both of them alive now, so when they die, I will have no regrets.
When I was working in Kuwait, I worked with these two elderly men in their 60's. They're both Americans, but none of them had seen the US since the 1980's and they both have homes in Europe (one lives in Paris and the other in Rome).
That would be the life! |
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silver_butterfly
Joined: 12 Nov 2006 Location: South Korea
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 10:00 pm Post subject: |
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KWhitehead wrote: |
what i think totally sucks is getting homesick and not having any place to really think about.
yes, that's been happening to me of late. |
Seconded! |
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