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kemcdonald
Joined: 29 Oct 2007
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 6:18 pm Post subject: How are women treated in South Korea? |
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I understand that south korea is a very male dominated society. Can someone tell me how women are treated/expected to act? Also I have a physical disability. Would Koreans care? |
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nateium

Joined: 21 Aug 2006 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 6:41 pm Post subject: |
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Women are treated like children. The disabled are treated like an embarrassment. |
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spliff

Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Location: Khon Kaen, Thailand
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 6:43 pm Post subject: |
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The above is not at all true. Women are treated very well indeed as equals and the handicapped are well looked after and have access to the public. |
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kimcheechochy
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 6:46 pm Post subject: |
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Well, not many women have positions of power here for one thing. Women don't smoke in public. Mothers stay at home and are in charge of all household finances.
It seems to be ok for girls to wear miniskirts, but any kind of clevage seems to be a no-no.
Also, kissing and hugging in public is generally not tolerated.
As for your disability, it shouldn't be a problem. Koreans are generally quite helpful for people with disabilties (holding doors, ect) There is even a "phone taxi" service that will come right to your house and pick you up. There are many elevators, and they even have floor markings everywhere for blind people. Up until a while ago, only blind people were allowed to be licensed to practice massage therapy. What kind of disability is it if you don't mind my asking? Then I can give you more useful information maybe.
I think it would be prudent of you to inform your potential employer that you have a disability. You don't need to do this in the west, but I think it would be a good idea here. It will prevent any unwanted "surprised reaction" by your employer. |
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kimcheechochy
Joined: 22 Nov 2007
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 6:49 pm Post subject: |
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nateium wrote: |
The disabled are treated like an embarrassment. |
I disagree. I was on crutches for a long time in Korea, and Koreans were very accomodating for me. The kids were really great too with helping out with things. Why did you say that? |
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Milwaukiedave
Joined: 02 Oct 2004 Location: Goseong
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 7:25 pm Post subject: |
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The treatment of women is getting a lot better. That's not to say that there are still areas that can be improve because there are.
I've heard mixed stories about the disabled. In public, I've seen very few diasabled people. Often it will be someone in a wheelchair or a blind person with a cane. In both of those situation, the person seems to be getting around fine without help. I have also heard there are group homes for severly disabled people and knew someone who volunteered at one. |
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ella

Joined: 17 Apr 2006
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 7:50 pm Post subject: |
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Being on crutches might not be looked at as a disability since that can happen to anyone. I don't know for certain but I don't think Koreans consider someone with a broken ankle in the same category as a paraplegic, for example.
As for the treatment of women, do you mean Korean women or foreign women? And foreign women with what skin color? There's a difference. |
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RACETRAITOR
Joined: 24 Oct 2005 Location: Seoul, South Korea
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 8:07 pm Post subject: |
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Women are not permitted to smoke in public. You can do it but you'll get a lot of angry glares. An ex-coworker was told by her boss that if she wanted to smoke she'd have to go to either a cafe or a washroom.
Also, women aren't quite as well protected by law. Violence against women isn't taken very seriously by the legal system, and there aren't many men who'd risk much to protect a woman. |
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Vicissitude

Joined: 27 Feb 2007 Location: Chef School
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 8:53 pm Post subject: |
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nateium wrote: |
Women are treated like children. |
A large percentage of the young women certainly act like children with constant whining like a toddler. They develop a princess syndrome with an explosive temper that is often set off at the slightest whim. Not all of them are like this, but I'd say most. When they get a bit older and settle down, they tend grow up and start acting like an adult. |
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jvalmer

Joined: 06 Jun 2003
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 9:23 pm Post subject: |
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I'd say in most countries, women are treated not as bad as you think and not as well as you'd like... |
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mistermasan
Joined: 20 Sep 2007 Location: 10+ yrs on Dave's ESL cafe
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 9:29 pm Post subject: |
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i have not seen a single person in a wheelchair in taiwan. maybe i am not looking hard enough. but wow.
the buses are not equipped for wheel chair bound folks.
how do wheelchair folks take the subway? |
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whatever

Joined: 11 Jun 2006 Location: Korea: More fun than jail.
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 9:30 pm Post subject: |
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kimcheechochy wrote: |
nateium wrote: |
The disabled are treated like an embarrassment. |
I disagree. I was on crutches for a long time in Korea, and Koreans were very accomodating for me. The kids were really great too with helping out with things. Why did you say that? |
Yeah, but you're a celebrity, Vanilla.
Wow, a lot of assuming that the OP is a smoker. Top-notch advice. |
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Scotticus
Joined: 18 Mar 2007
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 10:30 pm Post subject: |
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Honestly, I'd say the physical handicap (depending on how severe it is) would be your biggest issue in Korea. Although there is SOME accommodation for people in wheelchairs and the like, it's not exactly a friendly city for people whose modes of transport are hindered. My gf had a hell of a time getting anywhere when she had her foot in a cast.
And in response to the person who said how nice people were to him when he was in a cast, I'd say we had about the opposite experience. She had one cabbie who was a really nice guy and helped her out but, hell, even when she initially fell (when she hurt herself) people didn't do shit to help her, they just gave her a look (seriously, no joke here) like she was being an asshole and getting in their way. It takes a special kind of asshole to give someone who just broke their ankle a dirty look like she was doing something wrong. |
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twg

Joined: 02 Nov 2006 Location: Getting some fresh air...
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 10:47 pm Post subject: Re: How are women treated in South Korea? |
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kemcdonald wrote: |
Can someone tell me how women are treated/expected to act? |
Like second class citizens. But as a foreigner, you don't have to deal with that shit if you don't want to.
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Also I have a physical disability. Would Koreans care? |
Yes. It may even keep some jobs out of your hands. |
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nateium

Joined: 21 Aug 2006 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 11:17 pm Post subject: |
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kimcheechochy wrote: |
nateium wrote: |
The disabled are treated like an embarrassment. |
I disagree. Why did you say that? |
This is why.
Milwaukiedave wrote: |
In public, I've seen very few disabled people. |
Unless they collect money for the mob (not verifiable) |
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