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South Korea Rethinks Asia's Preference for Sons

 
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Tiger Beer



Joined: 07 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 12:01 am    Post subject: South Korea Rethinks Asia's Preference for Sons Reply with quote

http://www.asianoffbeat.com/default.asp?display=1208

Male/Female ratios in Asia.. and how Korea is setting the trend to reverse the thinking in other similar Asian countries - China, Vietnam, India, etc.
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Ilsanman



Joined: 15 Aug 2003
Location: Bucheon, Korea

PostPosted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 4:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have heard this view as well. People say daughters are more dutiful and sons are neglectful.

I also heard a joke about a 'point system' of 2 children.

1. Daughter then a son = 200

2. Son then a daughter = 100

3. Son then a son = 100

4. Daughter then another daughter = 0.

Thr reasoning is that the older daughter can help raise the 'little prince'.
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jvalmer



Joined: 06 Jun 2003

PostPosted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 8:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There is a teacher in my school that has 3 sons all under the age of 6. He tells me often that he wished that he had 2 daughters and 1 son instead. He just wants the one son to continue his branch and that's all. Otherwise, he thinks most boys are pretty useless.
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oldfatfarang



Joined: 19 May 2005
Location: On the road to somewhere.

PostPosted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 7:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes, we've all heard this before, "Korea's not like that anymore - Korea's changing). Hmmmmm.

Korea's Confucian culture prefers sons. Period (reasons = traditional ancestor worship rites and sons are parent's prefered pension funds).

If you think attitudes to female abortions are changing (and you work at a public school) ask the Korean teachers who there children are. Invariably you'll see that many Koreans still have a 'miracle' gene that only produces sons.
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Ilsanman



Joined: 15 Aug 2003
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PostPosted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 1:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have only noticed so in very rich people. I teach some rich kids 1-1 lessons, and many of them have no siblings.
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spliff



Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Location: Khon Kaen, Thailand

PostPosted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 1:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Most rich family's I teach have all sons and they are proud of them. Why not, they are good kids.
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peppermint



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PostPosted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 4:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I used to teach a girl, she mentioned having 6 sisters, and then a brother
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RACETRAITOR



Joined: 24 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul, South Korea

PostPosted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 5:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Everyone knows women in this country are harder workers, and do it for less pay than men.
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nicholas_chiasson



Joined: 14 Jun 2007
Location: Samcheok

PostPosted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 4:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

RACETRAITOR wrote:
Everyone knows women in this country are harder workers, and do it for less pay than men.

not a situation I'd limit to Korea, or even Asia in general. Russia was that way. And the Middle East? All arab men do is smoke and eat nuts.
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