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22tea77
Joined: 22 Oct 2007 Location: United States
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 11:45 am Post subject: Bringing Gifts to Korea for EPIK Co-teacher, Principal, etc. |
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Will be starting in the Public School(s) March 1.
I currently know nothing about my future Co Teacher(s) or even the specific location of the school(s)
Is it a good idea to bring gifts for my unknown future co-workers/bosses? Is it customary to do so, or considered over the top?
All ideas on this are welcome and appreciated! Thanks |
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Darkness
Joined: 12 Oct 2006
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 12:06 pm Post subject: |
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It's over the top imo |
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Insidejohnmalkovich

Joined: 11 Jan 2008 Location: Pusan
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 12:12 pm Post subject: |
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My guess is that you are a very sociable person, the kind who rushes to the hospital to visit their ex-boyfriend's cousin and has a gazillion digital camera photos, in which case, sure buy presents.
If you are just thinking about it because someone told you it is the "right" thing to do, skip, no one else get presents for their boss. |
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Oreovictim
Joined: 23 Aug 2006
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 1:40 pm Post subject: |
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I'll just say this: If you're from Canada, don't bring maple syrup. It's been done before. Oh yeah, don't bring any Rush C.D.s, either. Koreans can't stand Geddy Lee's voice. |
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bassexpander
Joined: 13 Sep 2007 Location: Someplace you'd rather be.
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 1:44 pm Post subject: |
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I know a lot of people might scoff at it, but to be honest, it might be helpful in creating a good first-impression. Just a small gift is fine. I'd suggest something with the name of your home state on it, or something of that nature. Dressing well is another tip for creating a good first-impression. Koreans are big on dressing well.
Oh, and a cultural hint for you -- when giving gifts to coworkers, always make sure the boss has the nicest gift. My Korean wife always tells me this is important in Korea. If you give the same gift to a general coworker that you give to your boss, it could actually be offensive to your boss. |
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KYC
Joined: 11 May 2006
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 1:48 pm Post subject: |
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bassexpander wrote: |
I know a lot of people might scoff at it, but to be honest, it might be helpful in creating a good first-impression. Just a small gift is fine. I'd suggest something with the name of your home state on it, or something of that nature. Dressing well is another tip for creating a good first-impression. Koreans are big on dressing well.
Oh, and a cultural hint for you -- when giving gifts to coworkers, always make sure the boss has the nicest gift. My Korean wife always tells me this is important in Korea. If you give the same gift to a general coworker that you give to your boss, it could actually be offensive to your boss. |
really?? I just got back from vacation so I thought I would bring back something for the vp and principal. This is the first time I'll be giving them gifts too. I got them both the same thing........ |
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bassexpander
Joined: 13 Sep 2007 Location: Someplace you'd rather be.
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 1:50 pm Post subject: |
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KYC -- Just add a little something extra on the side of the principal's gift, and you'll be good. Even if it's a small extra. I added a small candle to a gift for a similar reason, once.
On a side note, I know a guy who got fired from a public school job where I used to work. He was in trouble for several things, but when I asked my former co-worker about it, one of the things she mentioned was that he gave the principal, teachers, and students the same gift once. That was a minor thing by comparison, but something she remembered, none-the-less. |
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22tea77
Joined: 22 Oct 2007 Location: United States
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 2:15 pm Post subject: |
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bassexpander wrote: |
On a side note, I know a guy who got fired from a public school job where I used to work. He was in trouble for several things, but when I asked my former co-worker about it, one of the things she mentioned was that he gave the principal, teachers, and students the same gift once. That was a minor thing by comparison, but something she remembered, none-the-less. |
Wow! Seems like the possibility of inadvertently offending someone might actually outweigh the possibility of making a favorable first impression!
Perhaps I should rephrase my original question.
If I show up at my new job without any gifts for anyone, will this be considered offensive? |
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nomad-ish

Joined: 08 Oct 2007 Location: On the bottom of the food chain
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 2:46 pm Post subject: |
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i brought gifts when i started at my PS. wish i hadn't
just dress nicely and be respectful, that'll make them happy |
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bassexpander
Joined: 13 Sep 2007 Location: Someplace you'd rather be.
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 2:57 pm Post subject: |
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If I were you, I'd just bring one for the boss. You don't know the teachers yet. |
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22tea77
Joined: 22 Oct 2007 Location: United States
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 3:09 pm Post subject: |
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bassexpander wrote: |
If I were you, I'd just bring one for the boss. You don't know the teachers yet. |
Sounds like a pretty safe solution...THANKS. |
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Binch Lover
Joined: 25 Jul 2005
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 3:27 pm Post subject: |
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When I came, I brought a bottle of Irish whiskey for the principal and some chocolates for my co-teacher. I really think it's VERY important to make a good first impression. They were very pleased with the gifts and the principal shared out the whiskey at our first staff dinner together.
On a side-note, I would advise you to attend any staff dinners or social invitations in your first month. It will help you to get to know your coworkers better and create a better atmosphere. After you settle in, you can skip them if you feel like it. Public school life is harder to settle into than hagwon, so that first month is crucial. |
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22tea77
Joined: 22 Oct 2007 Location: United States
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 3:37 pm Post subject: |
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Binch Lover wrote: |
When I came, I brought a bottle of Irish whiskey for the principal and some chocolates for my co-teacher.. |
Not having been to Korea yet, is there any chance of having a non-drinking boss that would not appreciate being handed a bottle of alcohol as a gift?
As first impressions are going to be so important, I'm trying hard to avoid any "Mistakes"
Thanks to everyone who's chimed in here with their ideas! |
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littlelisa
Joined: 12 Jun 2007 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 3:44 pm Post subject: |
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Hahaha, in Korea?
Don't worry about it. |
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KYC
Joined: 11 May 2006
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 4:49 pm Post subject: |
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bassexpander wrote: |
KYC -- Just add a little something extra on the side of the principal's gift, and you'll be good. Even if it's a small extra. I added a small candle to a gift for a similar reason, once.
On a side note, I know a guy who got fired from a public school job where I used to work. He was in trouble for several things, but when I asked my former co-worker about it, one of the things she mentioned was that he gave the principal, teachers, and students the same gift once. That was a minor thing by comparison, but something she remembered, none-the-less. |
Wow I find that incredibly PETTY if she remembered something like that. To me, a gift is a gift. It's a nice gesture no matter what the gift is. I guess the adage "it's the thought that counts" means nothing in Korea.
When a Korean teacher gave me a pencil when she came back from her vacation I still thought it was nice of her. I mean it's her vacation. I didn't expect her to be spending her time picking individualized gifts for everyone! I didn't bother with it either when I was on my vacation! I got the vp and principal the exact same gift. I also brought a snacking item that I plan to give to all of the teachers. I guess this is a bad idea too...since they'd all have to SHARE it! |
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