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Countrygirl



Joined: 19 Nov 2007
Location: in the classroom

PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 10:26 pm    Post subject: They're watching me! Reply with quote

I�m aware that everyone in my community watches me, but this weirded me out.

A mother from my school who wants to practice her English on me came into my office for a chat. Within a 10 minute conversation she tells me that she knows how long my family plans to stay in Korea, my husband's job status, and that my family always goes to bed early Shocked . The thing is, she never found out any of these things from my husband or me. She seemed a bit put out that some of her info was not as up-to-date as she thought it was. I�m wondering if I am taking it the wrong way and that she is just trying hard to make conversation in bad English. But I think it is just creepy that she knows so much about my family.

I think the next time I drink soju I�ll have to do it in the dead of night with the blinds drawn, the soju bottle concealed by a brown paper bag, sitting on the floor of the bathroom with the one bare bulb shining from above.


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xingyiman



Joined: 12 Jan 2006

PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 10:40 pm    Post subject: Re: They're watching me! Reply with quote

Countrygirl wrote:
I�m aware that everyone in my community watches me, but this weirded me out.

A mother from my school who wants to practice her English on me came into my office for a chat. Within a 10 minute conversation she tells me that she knows how long my family plans to stay in Korea, that my husband is recently unemployed, and that my family always goes to bed early Shocked . The thing is, she never found out any of these things from my husband or me. She seemed a bit put out that she didn�t know that my husband already has a new job. I�m wondering if I am taking it the wrong way and that she is just trying hard to make conversation in bad English. But I think it is just creepy that she knows so much about my family.

I think the next time I drink soju I�ll have to do it in the dead of night with the blinds drawn, the soju bottle concealed by a brown paper bag, sitting on the floor of the bathroom with the one bare bulb shining from above.
Get used to it. Nothing in your life is sacred.
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crusher_of_heads



Joined: 23 Feb 2007
Location: kimbop and kimchi for kimberly!!!!

PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 10:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I want someone to tell me they know I make breakfast on the weekends, wash dishes, make the bed, dust and hang clothes on Saturdays buff naked-I have been waiting for awhile now!
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poet13



Joined: 22 Jan 2006
Location: Just over there....throwing lemons.

PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 11:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Last Saturday I had ice cream with two first year high school girls who had been in my middle school camp last summer.
Anyways, we were sitting in the window of Baskin Robbins and everybody stopped to have a stare. By the time I got home an hour or so later, I had an email from my co-teacher saying please dont' have relationship with high school girls. Rolling Eyes
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it's full of stars



Joined: 26 Dec 2007

PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 11:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't you know you can't have a platonic friendship with the opposite sex? It must be something more...
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ED209



Joined: 17 Oct 2006

PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 11:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

poet13 wrote:
I had an email from my co-teacher saying please dont' have relationship with high school girls. Rolling Eyes


You'll be back in a month wondering why you were fired and why the police took away your computer.

Or

You'll finally be accepted as one of the regular male staff at your middle school.
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nomad-ish



Joined: 08 Oct 2007
Location: On the bottom of the food chain

PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 11:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

don't worry about it, this is normal (for korea anyway).

all the teachers (english or not) tend to know things about me that i've never told them... somethings that are false too. i've even had people looking come to my door looking to convert me or for a foreign "friend". i have no idea how they found out i live at that exact number since at that time i had never seen any of my neighbours so they couldn't have mentioned it to anyone
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poet13



Joined: 22 Jan 2006
Location: Just over there....throwing lemons.

PostPosted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 12:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

"Don't you know you can't have a platonic friendship with the opposite sex? It must be something more..."

Damn! Busted! There is something more.... they are also language leeches.
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bassexpander



Joined: 13 Sep 2007
Location: Someplace you'd rather be.

PostPosted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 12:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you are noisy at night, everyone knows about it.

Rest assured.
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spliff



Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Location: Khon Kaen, Thailand

PostPosted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 12:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

bassexpander wrote:
If you are noisy at night, everyone knows about it.

Rest assured.


Really. I must be famous... Very Happy
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Yu_Bum_suk



Joined: 25 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 1:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

poet13 wrote:
Last Saturday I had ice cream with two first year high school girls who had been in my middle school camp last summer.
Anyways, we were sitting in the window of Baskin Robbins and everybody stopped to have a stare. By the time I got home an hour or so later, I had an email from my co-teacher saying please dont' have relationship with high school girls. Rolling Eyes


My town's small enough (no Baskin Robins) that I can take my girls out for dinner and the ajuma comes over and calls me seonsaengnim in front of everyone, so there are no worries there. Another time I was walking home from the bus terminal with a student who was going in the same direction. We passed a group of women, one of whom gave me a really strange and surprised look and looked at her friend. 'Yeo-gyo yeong-eo seonsaengnim eeda' the other one, one of my former student's mothers, replied to her.
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nicholas_chiasson



Joined: 14 Jun 2007
Location: Samcheok

PostPosted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 2:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm so popular in my tiny town I thought English teacher in Korean was "you-ship-sae-kki." Now I know what they are thinking of me, cheeky bastards.
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cdninkorea



Joined: 27 Jan 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 2:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

poet13 wrote:
Last Saturday I had ice cream with two first year high school girls who had been in my middle school camp last summer.
Anyways, we were sitting in the window of Baskin Robbins and everybody stopped to have a stare. By the time I got home an hour or so later, I had an email from my co-teacher saying please dont' have relationship with high school girls. Rolling Eyes


About two years ago I was sitting on the subway studying from my Korean notes. The high school girl next to me struck up a conversation about my notes, helping me with a few things and asking me a few things about English.
I've never had so many stares and glares on the subway before or since that time- all but everyone looked at me like I was some kind of pervert, with the ajushis giving me especially suspicious looks.
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yingwenlaoshi



Joined: 12 Feb 2007
Location: ... location, location!

PostPosted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 3:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote



"It's so great! It's so great!"
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Michelle



Joined: 18 May 2003

PostPosted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 4:32 am    Post subject: Ahhh reminiscing... Reply with quote

That reminds me of my old haggie days...


I accidentally left my fluro bedroom light on while sleeping, much to my disgust in the morning.

When I went to the hagwon, my boss said my light was on at 2 in the morning and what was I doing?

Shocked

She had been visiting someone next door, like this made it her business.

Should I be able to look back and Laughing
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