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seoulman1

Joined: 02 Feb 2007 Location: Jamsil
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 5:28 pm Post subject: Did you get a 'culture shock' when you got back home? |
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People keep telling that when I get back home to Australia I will get a huge culture shock but I keep thinking no way that is going to happen. When I get home im spending 90% of my time lying on the beach, how will that be shocking for me?
Did anyone get culture shock when they got back home after living in an Asian country for a long time? Or was it smooth sailing |
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blaseblasphemener
Joined: 01 Jun 2006 Location: There's a voice, keeps on calling me, down the road, that's where I'll always be
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:13 pm Post subject: |
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You will indeed be shocked by:
people smiling
people not littering
seeing men with their families in parks
not having to eat gochucheong at every meal
not seeing "hilarious" korean game/talk shows on every channel, with laugh tracks
seeing non-korean cars
not being able to see the air
not seeing beautiful women hork up loogies in the middle of the day
not paying astronomical prices for fruit and veg
having good bread
having good beer
I truly hope you can deal with these cultural shocks. |
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SuperFly

Joined: 09 Jul 2003 Location: In the doghouse
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:15 pm Post subject: |
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It's called reverse culture shock. Yes, I experienced it too. |
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SeoulShakin

Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:17 pm Post subject: |
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I did a little bit. It was kind of weird.
I found myself thinking "you b*tch" when the cashier at the airport in Toronto just put my change on the counter, rather than handing it to me with both hands.
I went to Walmart with my Mother to get some cleaning stuff, dog food, etc., and was completely overwhelmed by all the conversations around me that I actually didn't have to struggle to understand. It was almost like white noise. I then went into the candy/snack aisle to get myself a treat, and ended up standing there for about 20 minutes just looking at everything. I was so overwhelmed by the sheer number of choices I had, that I ended up getting nothing because I couldn't decide.
I got over it pretty quickly, but it was weird for like 3 days. I also bowed to someone as I walked into a convenience store. That was odd. |
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blaseblasphemener
Joined: 01 Jun 2006 Location: There's a voice, keeps on calling me, down the road, that's where I'll always be
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:17 pm Post subject: |
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SuperFly wrote: |
It's called reverse culture shock. Yes, I experienced it too. |
where were you returning to? If it was to buttlick Canada or America or England, that I could understand. But to Australia? That's hard to imagine. |
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sjrm
Joined: 27 Jul 2005
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:19 pm Post subject: |
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or....
not having groups of teens screaming "hieeeeeeeeeeeee" and giggling
not the start to every conversation being "where are you from?"
not having to travel two hours to find a restaurant that serves pizza without corn
not having to dodge motorcycles on the sidewalk |
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blaseblasphemener
Joined: 01 Jun 2006 Location: There's a voice, keeps on calling me, down the road, that's where I'll always be
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:22 pm Post subject: |
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[quote="sjrm"]or....
not having groups of teens screaming "hieeeeeeeeeeeee" and giggling
not the start to every conversation being "where are you from?"
not having to travel two hours to find a restaurant that serves pizza without corn
not having to dodge motorcycles on the sidewalk[/quote
I've never dodged one. Just stick your arm out in an authoritative manner, and they will move to the side. |
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mrsquirrel
Joined: 13 Dec 2006
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:22 pm Post subject: |
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How farking tall people are.
I went back to Newcastle a couple of years back. Went around some of my old haunts and was scared of the really big scary looking people that I used to be friends with.
Everywhere massive giants towering over me, big tall women, dogs the size of horses.
I was uncomfortable walking around the city. SPent the rest of my trip hiding in the countryside,normally in churches where I knew there would be small old people to make me feel safe. |
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RJjr

Joined: 17 Aug 2006 Location: Turning on a Lamp
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:29 pm Post subject: |
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No. It was as if I had never left. Even driving a car on the first day back seemed like I had driven the day before. |
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blaseblasphemener
Joined: 01 Jun 2006 Location: There's a voice, keeps on calling me, down the road, that's where I'll always be
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:29 pm Post subject: |
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mrsquirrel wrote: |
How farking tall people are.
I went back to Newcastle a couple of years back. Went around some of my old haunts and was scared of the really big scary looking people that I used to be friends with.
Everywhere massive giants towering over me, big tall women, dogs the size of horses.
I was uncomfortable walking around the city. SPent the rest of my trip hiding in the countryside,normally in churches where I knew there would be small old people to make me feel safe. |
You're from Newcastle! That explains alot. (great beer btw) |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:34 pm Post subject: |
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- such polite drivers
- such slovenly looking people
- such expensive restaurant food and booze
- such a marvelous selection at the supermarket - row after row of food I actually want to eat
- people who generally act grown-up
- so little to do with no car |
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Dome Vans Guest
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:45 pm Post subject: |
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mrsquirrel wrote: |
How farking tall people are.
I went back to Newcastle a couple of years back. Went around some of my old haunts and was scared of the really big scary looking people that I used to be friends with.
Everywhere massive giants towering over me, big tall women, dogs the size of horses.
I was uncomfortable walking around the city. SPent the rest of my trip hiding in the countryside,normally in churches where I knew there would be small old people to make me feel safe. |
When I walk around Newcastle, I'm just happy not to be punched by the geordies drinking wife beater. When I go back home I'm always wondering if there's something in the water that the girls drink that makes them so unappealing. Especially after coming back to England from Sweden. Where the smiley happy people who say "Hej" all the time when you walk into the shop. Or the girl at WH Smiths at the airport just throws your change at you. "Thank You" Never hear this anymore.
Going to the local pub, I feel like an exchange student ordering drinks. All the locals talking in dialect and joking about who nailed who's bird and how fat their girlfriends are etc. Did I lose something when I left! Or has the sense of humour moved on from lowbrow comments like this?
Generally when I go home, I see the bits about England which remind me why I left and the bits of Korea that wouldn't go amiss there. But conversely I see bad bits in Korea that could use a little of the 'Englishee' touch. But I suppose that's what is so fun about living abroad. Difference.
I am planning at christmas to fix my guts. I doubt my chilli levels at the moment are really that good for my intestines etc. So time just to let them settle down. |
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Privateer
Joined: 31 Aug 2005 Location: Easy Street.
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:56 pm Post subject: |
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'a' culture shock?  |
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ajgeddes

Joined: 28 Apr 2004 Location: Yongsan
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 7:00 pm Post subject: |
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blaseblasphemener wrote: |
You will indeed be shocked by:
people smiling
not seeing "hilarious" korean game/talk shows on every channel, with laugh tracks |
Yep, I was shocked by people actually being polite and friendly looking. Also, the fact that TV didn't suck and that there were so many choices. By the time I scanned all the channels at home, half an hour had gone by and it was time to start again. |
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Young FRANKenstein

Joined: 02 Oct 2006 Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 7:03 pm Post subject: Re: Did you get a 'culture shock' when you got back home? |
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seoulman1 wrote: |
Did anyone get culture shock when they got back home after living in an Asian country for a long time? |
I did push someone out of the way to get into the refrigerator section at the supermarket...then apologized profusely when it hit me a second later I'm not in Korea and pushing is not required. The SPACE was a bit to get used to, with no one crowding me on the streets or public transport. |
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