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Did you get a 'culture shock' when you got back home?
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seoulman1



Joined: 02 Feb 2007
Location: Jamsil

PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 5:28 pm    Post subject: Did you get a 'culture shock' when you got back home? Reply with quote

People keep telling that when I get back home to Australia I will get a huge culture shock but I keep thinking no way that is going to happen. When I get home im spending 90% of my time lying on the beach, how will that be shocking for me?

Did anyone get culture shock when they got back home after living in an Asian country for a long time? Or was it smooth sailing
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blaseblasphemener



Joined: 01 Jun 2006
Location: There's a voice, keeps on calling me, down the road, that's where I'll always be

PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You will indeed be shocked by:

people smiling
people not littering
seeing men with their families in parks
not having to eat gochucheong at every meal
not seeing "hilarious" korean game/talk shows on every channel, with laugh tracks
seeing non-korean cars
not being able to see the air
not seeing beautiful women hork up loogies in the middle of the day
not paying astronomical prices for fruit and veg
having good bread
having good beer


I truly hope you can deal with these cultural shocks.
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SuperFly



Joined: 09 Jul 2003
Location: In the doghouse

PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's called reverse culture shock. Yes, I experienced it too.
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SeoulShakin



Joined: 05 Jan 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I did a little bit. It was kind of weird.

I found myself thinking "you b*tch" when the cashier at the airport in Toronto just put my change on the counter, rather than handing it to me with both hands.

I went to Walmart with my Mother to get some cleaning stuff, dog food, etc., and was completely overwhelmed by all the conversations around me that I actually didn't have to struggle to understand. It was almost like white noise. I then went into the candy/snack aisle to get myself a treat, and ended up standing there for about 20 minutes just looking at everything. I was so overwhelmed by the sheer number of choices I had, that I ended up getting nothing because I couldn't decide.

I got over it pretty quickly, but it was weird for like 3 days. I also bowed to someone as I walked into a convenience store. That was odd.
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blaseblasphemener



Joined: 01 Jun 2006
Location: There's a voice, keeps on calling me, down the road, that's where I'll always be

PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

SuperFly wrote:
It's called reverse culture shock. Yes, I experienced it too.


where were you returning to? If it was to buttlick Canada or America or England, that I could understand. But to Australia? That's hard to imagine.
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sjrm



Joined: 27 Jul 2005

PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

or....

not having groups of teens screaming "hieeeeeeeeeeeee" and giggling
not the start to every conversation being "where are you from?"
not having to travel two hours to find a restaurant that serves pizza without corn
not having to dodge motorcycles on the sidewalk
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blaseblasphemener



Joined: 01 Jun 2006
Location: There's a voice, keeps on calling me, down the road, that's where I'll always be

PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

[quote="sjrm"]or....

not having groups of teens screaming "hieeeeeeeeeeeee" and giggling
not the start to every conversation being "where are you from?"
not having to travel two hours to find a restaurant that serves pizza without corn
not having to dodge motorcycles on the sidewalk[/quote

I've never dodged one. Just stick your arm out in an authoritative manner, and they will move to the side.
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mrsquirrel



Joined: 13 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

How farking tall people are.

I went back to Newcastle a couple of years back. Went around some of my old haunts and was scared of the really big scary looking people that I used to be friends with.

Everywhere massive giants towering over me, big tall women, dogs the size of horses.

I was uncomfortable walking around the city. SPent the rest of my trip hiding in the countryside,normally in churches where I knew there would be small old people to make me feel safe.
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RJjr



Joined: 17 Aug 2006
Location: Turning on a Lamp

PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

No. It was as if I had never left. Even driving a car on the first day back seemed like I had driven the day before.
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blaseblasphemener



Joined: 01 Jun 2006
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mrsquirrel wrote:
How farking tall people are.

I went back to Newcastle a couple of years back. Went around some of my old haunts and was scared of the really big scary looking people that I used to be friends with.

Everywhere massive giants towering over me, big tall women, dogs the size of horses.

I was uncomfortable walking around the city. SPent the rest of my trip hiding in the countryside,normally in churches where I knew there would be small old people to make me feel safe.


You're from Newcastle! That explains alot. Cool (great beer btw)
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Yu_Bum_suk



Joined: 25 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

- such polite drivers
- such slovenly looking people
- such expensive restaurant food and booze
- such a marvelous selection at the supermarket - row after row of food I actually want to eat
- people who generally act grown-up
- so little to do with no car
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Dome Vans
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mrsquirrel wrote:
How farking tall people are.

I went back to Newcastle a couple of years back. Went around some of my old haunts and was scared of the really big scary looking people that I used to be friends with.

Everywhere massive giants towering over me, big tall women, dogs the size of horses.

I was uncomfortable walking around the city. SPent the rest of my trip hiding in the countryside,normally in churches where I knew there would be small old people to make me feel safe.


When I walk around Newcastle, I'm just happy not to be punched by the geordies drinking wife beater. When I go back home I'm always wondering if there's something in the water that the girls drink that makes them so unappealing. Especially after coming back to England from Sweden. Where the smiley happy people who say "Hej" all the time when you walk into the shop. Or the girl at WH Smiths at the airport just throws your change at you. "Thank You" Never hear this anymore.

Going to the local pub, I feel like an exchange student ordering drinks. All the locals talking in dialect and joking about who nailed who's bird and how fat their girlfriends are etc. Did I lose something when I left! Or has the sense of humour moved on from lowbrow comments like this?

Generally when I go home, I see the bits about England which remind me why I left and the bits of Korea that wouldn't go amiss there. But conversely I see bad bits in Korea that could use a little of the 'Englishee' touch. But I suppose that's what is so fun about living abroad. Difference.

I am planning at christmas to fix my guts. I doubt my chilli levels at the moment are really that good for my intestines etc. So time just to let them settle down.
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Privateer



Joined: 31 Aug 2005
Location: Easy Street.

PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

'a' culture shock? Shocked
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ajgeddes



Joined: 28 Apr 2004
Location: Yongsan

PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 7:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

blaseblasphemener wrote:
You will indeed be shocked by:

people smiling

not seeing "hilarious" korean game/talk shows on every channel, with laugh tracks


Yep, I was shocked by people actually being polite and friendly looking. Also, the fact that TV didn't suck and that there were so many choices. By the time I scanned all the channels at home, half an hour had gone by and it was time to start again.
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Young FRANKenstein



Joined: 02 Oct 2006
Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)

PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 7:03 pm    Post subject: Re: Did you get a 'culture shock' when you got back home? Reply with quote

seoulman1 wrote:
Did anyone get culture shock when they got back home after living in an Asian country for a long time?

I did push someone out of the way to get into the refrigerator section at the supermarket...then apologized profusely when it hit me a second later I'm not in Korea and pushing is not required. The SPACE was a bit to get used to, with no one crowding me on the streets or public transport.
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