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politica

Joined: 12 Dec 2006 Location: Suwon-si
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 10:13 pm Post subject: I need DISCIPLINE HELP NOW!!!! |
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Before I lose my mind!!!! (and my voice!)
Okay, so its my fourth day teaching. I'm at a public elementary school, teaching grades 3rd-6th, and I really love it so far.
That being said . . . HOLY HELL, what is up with the discipline issues? My co-teachers do NOTHING about discipline. Kids are hitting each other, running around like maniacs, screaming at the top of their lungs DURING class, and worse. Now, I've seen some pretty bad schools in the U.S., but in my neck of the woods, kids will see one of the three for such behavior: principal's office, detention, or suspension. None of these are really options for me. I've browsed through the discipline ideas in the Idea Cookbook- but here's my problem. It seems like they mostly involve embarassing/shaming a student. You see, that's not going to work in my classroom. If I draw attention to one student, or if he (and I do mean HE) draws attention to himself, then entire rest of the class erupts into laughter (well, perhaps just the boys, but they FEEL like the whole class anyhow) . . . and the class is twice as loud as they were before.
Today I tried the "mean teacher" approach- Lots of yelling, crossing my arms, stern facial expression. Which worked . . . excepted it lasted for only about 30 seconds each time, and now my voice is cracking like a teenage boy's.
Also, on a side note, what is with boys not being able to keep their chair legs on the ground?!?!?!?! Yes, I know that this happens everywhere, but I swear I see about three chairs tip over per class, if not more. And once that happens, good luck getting the class back.
Please help. *sad puppy face* |
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xingyiman
Joined: 12 Jan 2006
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 10:20 pm Post subject: Re: I need DISCIPLINE HELP NOW!!!! |
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| politica wrote: |
Before I lose my mind!!!! (and my voice!)
Okay, so its my fourth day teaching. I'm at a public elementary school, teaching grades 3rd-6th, and I really love it so far.
That being said . . . HOLY HELL, what is up with the discipline issues? My co-teachers do NOTHING about discipline. Kids are hitting each other, running around like maniacs, screaming at the top of their lungs DURING class, and worse. Now, I've seen some pretty bad schools in the U.S., but in my neck of the woods, kids will see one of the three for such behavior: principal's office, detention, or suspension. None of these are really options for me. I've browsed through the discipline ideas in the Idea Cookbook- but here's my problem. It seems like they mostly involve embarassing/shaming a student. You see, that's not going to work in my classroom. If I draw attention to one student, or if he (and I do mean HE) draws attention to himself, then entire rest of the class erupts into laughter (well, perhaps just the boys, but they FEEL like the whole class anyhow) . . . and the class is twice as loud as they were before.
Today I tried the "mean teacher" approach- Lots of yelling, crossing my arms, stern facial expression. Which worked . . . excepted it lasted for only about 30 seconds each time, and now my voice is cracking like a teenage boy's.
Also, on a side note, what is with boys not being able to keep their chair legs on the ground?!?!?!?! Yes, I know that this happens everywhere, but I swear I see about three chairs tip over per class, if not more. And once that happens, good luck getting the class back.
Please help. *sad puppy face* |
Are you sure you aren't working in Thailand? |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 10:20 pm Post subject: |
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Thanks for making me feel so much better about my class this morning, which took three fucking minutes to re-arrange their desks into three rows like I asked and settle down with their textbooks opened to the right page.
I'm sorry that I can be of very much help with elementary but I must say thanks for those Dave's posters who never cease to make my students look like absolute angels. |
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climber159

Joined: 02 Sep 2007
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 10:24 pm Post subject: |
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| Welcome to public education in Korea. Your description seems to be par for the course. Discipline here is mostly a lost cause. Something that works, to some extent, for me is to hold some item of value (phone, pencil case, book, etc.) ransom until the end of the school day. If they want it back they have to do some cleaning in the classroom after school. I don't have any control of their grades; but, if you do, then you may have some discipline leverage there. |
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mnhnhyouh

Joined: 21 Nov 2006 Location: The Middle Kingdom
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 10:28 pm Post subject: |
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And here I was thinking that maybe I would consider the jump from high to middle school. My students are fairly well behaved, they just talk too much.
I would consider a dual approach. Make a make on the board everytime they piss you off. Each mark means 10 seconds out of their break, for the whole class. It will take about 3 weeks to get on top of them, if you are only seeing them once per week. But then it will be easier.
Any kid who really pisses you off gets to spend the rest of the lesson staring at a dot on the wall.
Dont smile in class for 2 months. I know these things sound horrible, and they are. But once they are in control you will have lots more fun, and they will learn lots more.
h
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Stormy

Joined: 10 Jan 2008 Location: Here & there
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 10:28 pm Post subject: Re: I need DISCIPLINE HELP NOW!!!! |
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| politica wrote: |
Before I lose my mind!!!! (and my voice!)
Okay, so its my fourth day teaching. I'm at a public elementary school, teaching grades 3rd-6th, and I really love it so far.
That being said . . . HOLY HELL, what is up with the discipline issues? My co-teachers do NOTHING about discipline. Kids are hitting each other, running around like maniacs, screaming at the top of their lungs DURING class, and worse. Now, I've seen some pretty bad schools in the U.S., but in my neck of the woods, kids will see one of the three for such behavior: principal's office, detention, or suspension. None of these are really options for me. I've browsed through the discipline ideas in the Idea Cookbook- but here's my problem. It seems like they mostly involve embarassing/shaming a student. You see, that's not going to work in my classroom. If I draw attention to one student, or if he (and I do mean HE) draws attention to himself, then entire rest of the class erupts into laughter (well, perhaps just the boys, but they FEEL like the whole class anyhow) . . . and the class is twice as loud as they were before.
Today I tried the "mean teacher" approach- Lots of yelling, crossing my arms, stern facial expression. Which worked . . . excepted it lasted for only about 30 seconds each time, and now my voice is cracking like a teenage boy's.
Also, on a side note, what is with boys not being able to keep their chair legs on the ground?!?!?!?! Yes, I know that this happens everywhere, but I swear I see about three chairs tip over per class, if not more. And once that happens, good luck getting the class back.
Please help. *sad puppy face* |
Oh my gawd....did I write this?? I totally understand exactly where you're coming from here - I too have had a crap day & now have a sore throat.
If Neil's right & some days are diamonds, some days are stones then today has been a bloody big stone!
I go through phases....stern, friendly & understanding, being seriously pissed off at the K teacher who blithely ignores it all.....
There are just some classes that I have come to dread. Only seeing them for 40 minutes once a week is the kicker here - there's only so much you can do in regards to a reward system etc under those conditions. |
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mnhnhyouh

Joined: 21 Nov 2006 Location: The Middle Kingdom
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 10:32 pm Post subject: Re: I need DISCIPLINE HELP NOW!!!! |
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| Stormy wrote: |
| Only seeing them for 40 minutes once a week is the kicker here - there's only so much you can do in regards to a reward system etc under those conditions. |
Just remind them of how it works at the beginning of each class.
This works best when you work out a system, and stick to it, week in and week out. Them knowing the consequences and those consequences being strong enough makes the difference.
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politica

Joined: 12 Dec 2006 Location: Suwon-si
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 10:34 pm Post subject: |
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Yu_Bum_Suk- anything I can do to help.
and . . .
Stormy- do I know you? Weird, cause I feel like I know you . . . |
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TheUrbanMyth
Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Location: Retired
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 10:37 pm Post subject: Re: I need DISCIPLINE HELP NOW!!!! |
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| politica wrote: |
Before I lose my mind!!!! (and my voice!)
Okay, so its my fourth day teaching. I'm at a public elementary school, teaching grades 3rd-6th, and I really love it so far.
That being said . . . HOLY HELL, what is up with the discipline issues? My co-teachers do NOTHING about discipline. Kids are hitting each other, running around like maniacs, screaming at the top of their lungs DURING class, and worse. Now, I've seen some pretty bad schools in the U.S., but in my neck of the woods, kids will see one of the three for such behavior: principal's office, detention, or suspension. None of these are really options for me. I've browsed through the discipline ideas in the Idea Cookbook- but here's my problem. It seems like they mostly involve embarassing/shaming a student. You see, that's not going to work in my classroom. If I draw attention to one student, or if he (and I do mean HE) draws attention to himself, then entire rest of the class erupts into laughter (well, perhaps just the boys, but they FEEL like the whole class anyhow) . . . and the class is twice as loud as they were before.
Today I tried the "mean teacher" approach- Lots of yelling, crossing my arms, stern facial expression. Which worked . . . excepted it lasted for only about 30 seconds each time, and now my voice is cracking like a teenage boy's.
Also, on a side note, what is with boys not being able to keep their chair legs on the ground?!?!?!?! Yes, I know that this happens everywhere, but I swear I see about three chairs tip over per class, if not more. And once that happens, good luck getting the class back.
Please help. *sad puppy face* |
Army style discipline. Put the entire class on their knees with their arms over their head. After a couple of minutes make them do push-ups, jumping jacks. After 2-3 minutes let them sit down. Ask them if they liked that. If the answer is "Yes" go for another five minutes. Or you could make them write lines..but that depends on which of them have bought a notebook and pencil to class.
Usually however the answer is "Teacher, NO!" In which case tell them that every time they or even just one of them exhibits bad behaviour they're going to be doing that again and again and again.
If your Korean is bad/non-existent get the best student or a co-teacher to translate for you.
Gotta be twice as bad as the baddest kid and your work is done for you. It's only four days...but start NOW...or you will be dealing with this all year. You can ease off once the kids get into the routine.
I do this at the start of the year and only experience the odd discipline case now and then. It's got to be done or they will run you ragged. Don't make the mistake of trying to be their 'friend'. Doesn't work. If the Korean teachers start complaining ignore them. I always insist on "My way or I hit the highway" (and bloody good luck trying to get another native teacher in THAT area). |
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Scouse Mouse
Joined: 07 Jan 2007 Location: Cloud #9
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 10:41 pm Post subject: |
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Lay out the rules, and make sure the students (and co-teachers) know them.
Then you could simply stand and do nothing until they settle down. It is not your job to discipline them. That is the job of the co-teacher. Let them do their job so that you can do yours. If they complain, simply tell them that you have been told you should not discipline the kids and that it is their job. In Korea it is apparently disrespectful to do another persons job
If you want to do something yourself, try peer pressure. Draw a chart for each of the group tables and give a yellow card for first offence, red card for second offence. Make marks for each subsequent offence after that.
After class, let all groups go except for those with red cards. Make them stay in silence for 1 minute for each card or mark. Get a stopwatch and use it. Reset it for every noise you here. If you have a TV and use a computer, have the clock on screen for them to see.
Do not explain any of this. Let them figure it out for themselves. Simply put a time on the board for each group. eg:
1 - 2 mins
4 - 3 mins
They will figure out what is going on. If they continue to act up, say and do nothing, just keep resetting the clock. This works especially well if you have an English Zone classroom. Keep them there for as long as it takes, and they will be more severley punished by the home room teachers when they are late back to class. Be prepared to lose some breaks and lunch time for this to work. By the third class they will be angels! This works well in my school for the second and third grades, as I taught them last year. They are petrified of my yellow and red chalk!
The first grade I let act like savages. I'm done working my arse off for this school, so I will let the Koreans deal with them. |
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xingyiman
Joined: 12 Jan 2006
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 10:44 pm Post subject: |
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| You've gotta watch discipline in any of the Asian nations. By law a foreigner cannot touch a Korean student and that includes any kind of physical contact. Now we all know that contact occurs (high fiving, etc) I am just stating the laws as they are written. You can also get into trouble for yelling and excessive discipline. My old boss told me that if I ever needed to discipline someone to get a Korean teacher and let them do it. They can hit the kids and do all sorts of other things that would land a NET in the slammer. It also varies whether you are rural or in the big city but I know you can get away with a lot as far as personal discipline here but it only takes once to get you in trouble. Best action - take a deep breath and go and get a Korean. |
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dean_burrito

Joined: 12 Jun 2007
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 10:53 pm Post subject: |
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| go to the store and buy a pack of shiny stickers. flash it to the class and tell them they get one if they do their work. i've not met a korean kid yet whose soul can't be bought this way. |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 10:56 pm Post subject: |
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| xingyiman wrote: |
| You've gotta watch discipline in any of the Asian nations. By law a foreigner cannot touch a Korean student and that includes any kind of physical contact. Now we all know that contact occurs (high fiving, etc) I am just stating the laws as they are written. You can also get into trouble for yelling and excessive discipline. My old boss told me that if I ever needed to discipline someone to get a Korean teacher and let them do it. They can hit the kids and do all sorts of other things that would land a NET in the slammer. It also varies whether you are rural or in the big city but I know you can get away with a lot as far as personal discipline here but it only takes once to get you in trouble. Best action - take a deep breath and go and get a Korean. |
Really? I've had a few senior teachers tell me just to hit the students if they're being too troublesome. |
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pugwall
Joined: 22 Oct 2006
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 11:04 pm Post subject: |
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| Law down the rules. Have TPR actions for each. Get the kids to write them down in English and the co teacher to translate into Korea. Repeat TPR every class for the next month. |
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xingyiman
Joined: 12 Jan 2006
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 11:08 pm Post subject: |
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| Yu_Bum_suk wrote: |
| xingyiman wrote: |
| You've gotta watch discipline in any of the Asian nations. By law a foreigner cannot touch a Korean student and that includes any kind of physical contact. Now we all know that contact occurs (high fiving, etc) I am just stating the laws as they are written. You can also get into trouble for yelling and excessive discipline. My old boss told me that if I ever needed to discipline someone to get a Korean teacher and let them do it. They can hit the kids and do all sorts of other things that would land a NET in the slammer. It also varies whether you are rural or in the big city but I know you can get away with a lot as far as personal discipline here but it only takes once to get you in trouble. Best action - take a deep breath and go and get a Korean. |
Really? I've had a few senior teachers tell me just to hit the students if they're being too troublesome. |
Yes it is indeed law. Rarely cited or enforced but all it would take is one parent to complain and that could mean trouble. I lucked out cause all my kids are pretty good. |
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